These Bitches Want Your Money:

101 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Get Married

By Duke Armstrong, Foreword by Tim Patten

Copyright © 2018 by Duke Armstrong

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Although this book references items pertaining to law and finance, the author of this book is not an attorney, financial planner, or CPA. No intention is being made herein to create an attorney-client relationship. The author assumes no liability for the use or misuse of the information provided in this text. By reading this book, or listening to an audiobook version of this work, you are agreeing that the author and publisher cannot be held to account for any ramifications, financial or otherwise, that occur as a result of acting on the information that follows.

Contents

Dedication

Foreword

Introduction

Chapter 1 - Buying Your Way into Prison

Chapter 2 - Meet Your Wife’s Real Husband

Chapter 3 - Meet Your New Wife

Chapter 4 - The Married Sex Life

Chapter 5 - Suzy Homemaker? Not a chance!

Chapter 6 - She’s in Control

Chapter 7 - Your Money is Her Money

Chapter 8 - The Married Lifestyle

Chapter 9 - Cutting Your Balls Off

Chapter 10 - It’s Not Your Castle

Chapter 11 - Cheating

Chapter 12 - Children

Chapter 13 - Crushing Your Dreams

Chapter 14 - Growing Old Together

Chapter 15 - The Aftermath

Chapter 16 – The MGTOW Solution

About the Author

Dedication

This book is dedicated to Thomas James Ball (Born: February 21, 1953, Deceased: June 15, 2011). Thomas had the testicular fortitude to light himself on fire outside the downtown courthouse in Keene, New Hampshire, in protest to the injustices of the family court system in the United States. Thomas married Karen in 1990, but she filed for divorce eleven years later in April 2001. Thomas was the father of three children. He found it difficult to keep up with his court-mandated child support payments, and at the time of his death, he was facing jail for owing about $3,000. The finding of contempt filed on June 6, 2011, in Cheshire County Superior Court ordered Mr. Ball to jail.

Before committing suicide, Thomas, a former Sergeant in the US Army’s National Guard, wrote to friends saying, “Time to climb down into the Higgins boat and take a bouncing ride to the beach.” He was referring to the World War II amphibious landing craft, as he knew he would be among the many who would perish storming the proverbial beach of a gynocentric system. Eyewitnesses say Thomas doused himself with gasoline, lit himself on fire, and without saying a word, calmly and confidently burned for several minutes until he expired.

As of this writing, over 300 men commit suicide every month as a direct result of the heartbreak of divorce, the injustices of the child support system, judgments favoring mothers over fathers in child visitation and custody, or being divested of their assets by their ex-wives through divorce court settlements.  

We don’t need any more men committing suicide.

Foreword

By Tim Patten

More often than not, if a man meets the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, he’ll be so captivated that he’ll do anything he can to capture her attention. He’ll look to impress her with fancy cars and other such trappings and seek to win her over with lavish spending. In the end, he’ll be so hung up on the object of his desire that he’ll feel compelled to squander his fortune on her, seeking only adoration in return.

Women have long understood this vulnerability. In fact, awareness of our weak spot seems to be in their DNA. Unfortunately, a great many of them have also used this knowledge to our disadvantage. They have been draining our financial resources, and other assets, since time began.

But our world is changing fast, and a growing number of us have been experiencing an awakening. Men like us have been devouring an empowered awareness about the downsides of romance and marriage, and a counterculture revolution is underway. We are rising up against “vagina-begging,” placing women on pedestals, and succumbing to patriarchal expectations and pressures.

The modern men’s liberation movement represents a long overdue opportunity to right an imbalance that has left many men enslaved to lives of hopelessness and misery. However, unlike the so-called “equal” rights movement, which has benefited only females, we men are having to do it for ourselves.

Unlike females, who have a vast support network available to them, we have had to draw on our capabilities and resources. Men have not had access to men’s studies programs that might provide helpful knowledge and guidance. Instead, we have worked together to incubate collective ownership of a male-focused philosophy and educational methodology that is thriving—on social media and elsewhere.

Nowadays, those of us who have seen the light are collaborating with millions of other like-minded men and sharing the most intimate aspects of our desires and aspirations. We have created a positive vision of the future that represents the raison d'être of such groups as the “Red Pillers,” Herbivore Men of Japan, and Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW).

The cutting-edge curriculum that has emerged centers on the empowerment of men. It is aimed at liberating males from toxic female manipulation and bad relationships, that so often cost them their independence and their financial, emotional and even physical futures. It is a male self-ownership philosophy that keeps growing and expanding.

Through self-governance and mutual support, we are discovering a deeper and a more ethical understanding of our existence and who we are as living, breathing individuals. We are making adjustments to our lives and lifestyles to bring them into sync with a mindset and a sense of purpose many have only just begun to see in themselves.

We are also becoming increasingly aware that our purpose in life is not to satisfy women’s needs, attend to their complaints, and fulfill their expectations, usually to the detriment of our own health, happiness and wealth. We are beginning to understand that such demands emanate from an endless well, which serves a source of pure hell-on-earth for men.

Despite being a relatively nascent effort, the modern male movement has been growing at an almost feverish pace. No one really knows the actual numbers involved, but based on YouTube views, at least, it appears to have attracted believers and supporters in the many millions. On May 20, 2018 a search for MGTOW (meaning: “Men Going Their Own Way”) on YouTube, returned an astounding 420,000 results, while a search on Google.com returned over 2,020,000 results.

There are many reasons why this crusade has gained so much traction. It is a reaction to the damage that the legal system has done to men’s lives – financially, spiritually and otherwise. It is a response to feminist propaganda that characterizes men as sexist and dominating rapists. It may also reflect the fact that the time has arrived for us to recognize who we are and the role we have played in helping the human race to survive and thrive.

Whatever the reasons, the modern men’s movement has been a powerful progenitor of improving self-awareness and collective understanding. It has even enabled men to discuss a formerly taboo subject: our male libido and how it messes up our lives. The fact is, our reaction to a woman’s beauty, whether real or a façade, is often deadly. Only by recognizing this, and how it has punished us through the ages, can we take steps to realize what is at stake and how to end it.

It is hard for many of us to open up. But to move forward, we must speak openly about things that have only been whispered in years gone by. It is time to discuss how our natural sex drive exposes us to manipulation by females, who employ seduction and superior communication skills to ensnare us in compromising and ruinous situations.

Sadly, despite having an extensive, in-depth history – chronicled by men – of who we are, and our place in society, many of us have yet to come to grips with our masculine sensibilities—and our vulnerabilities. Instead, we often end up blinded and transformed into robotic idiots by any suggestion of a sexual possibility.

However, the solution is not to change our biology, which is hard-wired. Rather, we need to understand the fact that such urges can take complete control at times, leaving us in a vulnerable position, and then make the necessary adjustments. We must tap the collective wisdom of those who’ve seen the light and protect ourselves from our Achilles’ heel of susceptibility to femme fatale seductions.

The modern men’s liberation movement is not just focused on education and self-protection, however. It is also aimed at burnishing our individual identities and self-esteem, which will ultimately lead to more satisfying lives. Once we put an end to females taking advantage of us because our libidos are hypnotically attracted to all-things feminine, we will no longer find ourselves distracted from achieving our objectives, dreams, and goals.

Admittedly, the voices, books, blogs, and videos that comprise and contribute to this mutual undertaking come from distinctly different vantage points. As should be expected with the broad ocean of society, some contributors are blunt, while others are more politically correct. Still, no matter how this new way of thinking is presented, there is much to cover, and many are hungry for a more progressive future.

Duke Armstrong, the author of this book, is one of the many diverse individuals seeking to help us become more cognizant of what is wrong, and what we need to do to change things for the better. Empowered by his words and those of others, we can step up to the plate, come together on ideas, and build a renewed sense of masculinity, wealth and power.

Luckily, many are already embracing this long overdue evolution, which serves to energize those who follow behind. In fact, I’ve witnessed firsthand how fresh perspectives can repair and reinvigorate those of us who’ve been tortured by the soul-crushing unfairness of the social framework of a gynocentric society that has persisted far too long.

Indeed, as a long-time researcher on masculinity and male empowerment, and the author of three related books—with many more to come—including my biggest seller, MGTOW Why I Cheat: 11 Stories Of Freedom for Men, MGTOW Building Wealth and Power, and Masculinity Is Our Future, it is apparent that men like us have strived for the kind of knowledge that can bring them back to a path of enlightenment.

With all of this in mind, we all owe it to ourselves to read, learn, and live more empowered, productive and satisfying lives.

Please consider my endorsement of this book to be a gentle invitation to consider that the institution of marriage may not be a tradition that serves the happiness and well-being of men.

Sincerely—your friend,

Tim Patten

Introduction

For far too long men have allowed others to dictate what it means to be a man. Manhood is too often based on what use or utility a man is to others. Governments say real men are those who stand up and fight for whatever cause politicians are championing this week, but manhood is most often defined by what a man is willing to do for a woman. A Google image search for the words “a real man” returns a plethora of definitions and anecdotes for what makes a man.

One image reads, “A real man chooses to honor, love, respect, adore and be faithful to one woman!” Another says, “A real woman can do it by herself…but a real man won’t let her.” If these definitions are correct, then only a married man, who refuses to let his wife lift a finger, is a real man. It is this nonsense that I wish to challenge in this book.

Men can be so caught up in trying to prove themselves, that they place their brains on autopilot and allow others to define the standards of masculine excellence. It’s fine time that men stop to examine the veracity of popular definitions of masculinity. I invite men to stop operating on a program of what we’re “supposed to do,” and instead question whether it is good for us. I am furthermore suggesting the revolutionary idea that we men start asking ourselves what each of us would like to do, as opposed to what someone else says we are “supposed to do.”

From childhood, we are indoctrinated into the belief that we are to get an education so we can attain employment, and then march on to find a woman worth marrying. We are to spend money on her in the courting process, and if we fall in love with her, we are to kneel before her, offer her an expensive rock and ask her to marry us. We are to assist, if necessary, in paying for the wedding ceremony and all its accouterments. We are supposed to pay for a honeymoon vacation, and then we are to purchase a sizable house, get our wives pregnant, and work until our mid-60s to provide for our children and the lifestyle desired by our wives.

Everything which I stated all centers around using the strength of our bodies and minds to please someone else. We are supposed to believe that there is some great value in having a wife, and we will attain such immeasurable happiness, that we should celebrate the opportunity to commit a large portion of the fruits of our labor to providing for the lifestyle of a woman.

Some say that you cannot put a price on true love, and thus avoid the question:

How much is a wife worth?

If we assume that true love exists, then perhaps we cannot estimate its value. However, we can take an objective look at the benefits a man might expect to receive if he has captured true love in the form of a wife. We can calculate the cost of courting a woman for marriage, the expense of cohabiting with a woman, and what we might need to spend over several decades of marriage to make a wife happy. We can also look at the statistics surrounding marriage and divorce, to determine how many men have found true love—and dare I say, we can question whether true love even exists at all.

With so many divorces occurring in countries where feminism has taken root, I suggest that we try to answer these questions once and for all. Using dozens of studies and news articles, that is exactly what I have set out to do. Yet no matter how much evidence I have placed on the table, there are always some very few men who will claim that they are happily married, or know someone who is. In the face of surveys proving how many women cheat on their husbands, how many are committing paternity fraud, and an unending stream of news reports detailing the degree to which yet another man was financially raped in divorce court, some will argue that statistics and studies are irrelevant because “not all women are like that.”

I don’t believe in unicorns, but if a man thinks he has found one—a wife who is one-in-a-million—it makes little difference. People also survive their parachute not opening, but no sane man is willing to jump out of a plane without a parachute. I find it both silly and annoying for guys to remind people that “sometimes it works out.” Big deal!

Sometimes men almost go broke from spending tens-of-thousands of dollars at the casino, but a few eventually end up hitting the jackpot before they find themselves sleeping in a cardboard box. Despite those who claim the odds can be beaten, I’m not going to start loading my life savings into a slot machine.

Even if a man finds the elusive unicorn, or if one-day such women were bountiful, the real question is: is there any benefit whatsoever to getting married?

With that, I invite you to ponder the 101 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Get Married.

Chapter 1 - Buying Your Way into Prison

“There is no deception on the part of the woman, where a man bewilders himself: if he deludes his own wits, I can certainly acquit the women. Whatever man allows his mind to dwell upon the imprint his imagination has foolishly taken of women, is fanning the flames within himself – and, since the woman knows nothing about it, she is not to blame. For if a man incites himself to drown, and will not restrain himself, it is not the water's fault.” ― John Gower, 14th-Century English Poet

Reason #1 – There are Zero Benefits to Marriage

The #1 reason not to get married is that there are absolutely zero incentives or long-term benefits to getting married; marriage is an agreement that serves women, not men. Marriage amounts to little more than a scam in which a man is roped into committing to a woman under the pretense that his service and loyalty to her will reap him various rewards that he could not somehow otherwise obtain.

The divorce rate is not, in fact, the chief reason not to get married, because even a marriage that lasts until death brings no more benefits upon a man’s deathbed had he stayed single. However, with the advent of no-fault divorce, and the institution of alimony and child support, marriage is not only devoid of any benefits but has been reduced to little more than a racket in which a man is risking almost everything for virtually nothing. A woman takes zero risks in marriage yet reaps all the benefits.

On the surface, it seems that there are numerous benefits to having a wife, but upon examination, they all evaporate. There are really only four key things that a live-in wife offers: cooking dinner when you get home from work; cleaning the house; companionship; and, sex. Out of these potential benefits, the only thing that a woman really brings to the table is her looks and the promise of decades of sex. The longer a man is married, the less sex he’ll have with his wife, so that can be crossed off the list as well.

Since modern women are loath to cook, and a man can easily cook for himself, eat at restaurants or order delivery, for much less money than the expense of courting a woman for marriage—and paying for the married lifestyle—it’s just not worth it. Even a wife that never fails to cook dinner cannot be seen as a cost-effective benefit in light of much more inexpensive options. A man can eat a gourmet dinner five days a week for between $500 - $1000 a month, which is far less than the cost of getting married and the additional expenses accrued from having a wife, and being forced to pay alimony or child support.

Only men who are filthy and extremely busy, but are somehow also too poor to afford a housekeeper, would think that it’s a good idea to get a wife to keep the house clean, yet a wife is orders of magnitude more costly than a maid. Moreover, most modern women are allergic to the very thought of cleaning up after a man, washing dishes and taking care of the laundry. A professional housekeeper will clean your house for $50 - $200 depending on its size and the median income bracket of where you live. As we will see later, when married men help out with the dishes, folding the laundry, or do other women’s work, they end up getting less sex from their wives. Despite this, hordes of married women complain that their husbands don’t do enough housework, and countless articles advise men to contribute to traditionally feminine chores to have a happy marriage. Precisely what is the point of providing for the lifestyle of a woman if you have to do some of her work? No sane man would agree to have a guy live with him free-of-charge in exchange for keeping the house clean, and then tolerate the bum complaining that the guy paying the bills needs to help out with the chores.

Some might say that companionship is also a benefit but a man can get companionship from male and female friends and girlfriends, and do so without breaking his bank account. A man can shoot the breeze with his buddies if he wants someone to talk to or curl up on the couch with a girlfriend if he wants to feel a soft, warm female body next to him. If a guy is feeling down, he can get some motherly emotional support from a big-breasted female friend without buying anyone an engagement ring. A single man has the freedom to enjoy companionship in a plethora of forms without signing a contract that gives a woman the nearly irresistible opportunity to steal his wealth through divorce rape.

Because marriage decreases the amount of time a man can spend with others, and the variety of companionship he can enjoy, a wife’s companionship isn’t even on the radar of what she brings to the arrangement. Cooking and cleaning are out the picture as well because a modern wife is unlikely to do either and a wife is a much more expensive option even if she does. With cooking, cleaning and companionship out of the picture, that leaves only sex.

I’ll be covering just how sexually inactive married couples are, along with the lack of blowjobs, lack of variety and kinkiness, so sex is not a benefit to having a wife either. A woman’s beauty goes right along with sex, but women hit a biological wall around age 30 that causes their beauty to fade rapidly. At best a woman has from age 18 to age 35, or 17 years where she really looks like a prize. Modern women are too stupid to realize that handsome, money-making alpha males aren’t going to want them after they hit 30, so even finding a beautiful young girl to marry is difficult. Being married means a man is stuck with an aging woman who is likely to gain weight, and is unlikely to have sex with him more than a few times a year beyond the tenth year of marriage.

Idiots like Eleanor Barkhorn, the former chief editor of The Atlantic, encourage women not to get married early. In her article “Getting Married Later Is Great for College-Educated Women,” published on March 15, 2013, to TheAtlantic.com she noted that the average age of marriage in the United States is 27 for women and 29 for men. In 1990 guys were marrying girls when they were 23, and in 1960 they were grabbing them up at 22. Of course, that was before feminism kicked in and started to convince women that freedom and happiness could be found in a job, and being a housewife was slavery. With the advent of the birth control pill in 1960, and feminists went full steam ahead and excreted the sexual liberation movement, which encouraged girls to go get ran-through by the whole football team. Today SlutWalk is a transnational movement in which women parade around naked, defending the right to ride as many cocks as they want without being shamed for their behavior. Meanwhile, stupid girls complain that there are no good men left to marry.

Contemporary girls usually start thinking about marriage around age 25, but finally find some sucker to marry them around age 27. By this time the girl’s had more pricks in her than a secondhand dartboard. At age 27 she only has a few more years left before she hits the wall. Realizing that successful alpha males are paying her much less attention, she’ll start to come down from the high of the cock-carousel, and finally tune-out feminist rhetoric from friends she met in her Women’s Studies class. She knows that by the time she hits 30, only low-income earners, and ugly, fat, stupid, old or otherwise desperate males will want her.

Is it any wonder that the number of marriages has plummeted to a record low?

The guys that are getting married are the suckers who think they can beat the divorce odds, have a severe case of oneitis, or have set their brain on autopilot and are following a program that says “that’s what you’re supposed to do.”

The big picture of marriage is that there are absolutely zero benefits for a man to get married. On the other hand, women receive a host of benefits for suckering a man into marriage. A wife not only immediately receives the strong possibility of financial gain through alimony, but if she has children, she’ll also receive child support. In full view of the facts, a wife isn’t even a depreciating asset but an aggregating liability, because the longer she is with you, the higher chance she’ll have of securing durational alimony and acquiring your house and other possessions.

Even if the woman decides to stay married, she has secured herself a wage slave who will wholly, or partially, support her lifestyle. The looming threat of her husband getting financially raped in divorce court means she can make an ever-increasing number of demands for her happiness. A wife gets a stooge who will buy her whatever he can afford, put her up in a house that she chooses, make sure that her vehicle is well-maintained, spends the holidays how she wants and will serve as an emotional punching bag whenever the mood suits her.

A wife is more expensive than a maid. A wife is more expensive than eating at a gourmet restaurant five days a week. A wife decreases the variety of companionship a man can enjoy and limits the time he can spend with friends and family. A wife means a man is stuck with the same sexual partner that has a small window of youthful beauty, and who will inevitably have sex with her husband much less than before they were married. A wife also means that a man’s income can be plundered.

The simple reality is that marriage is for women, not men. The engagement ring isn’t for you, it’s for her to flaunt the value of her vagina. The wedding ceremony isn’t for you, it’s for her to celebrate that she’s secured a workhorse in the form of a husband. The honeymoon isn’t for you, it’s to give her photographs that she can use to make her friends jealous of how much money you spent on her. The larger and much more expensive house isn’t for you, it’s so she can feel safe and secure as the queen of her nest and flaunt at what price her husband has appraised her furburger.

There are zero benefits for a man to get married, so there is no reason any man should.

Reason #2 – Engagement Rings Are Expensive & Stupid

Anne Chertoff, a trend expert at WeddingWire, told Forbes in 2017 that the average engagement ring is around $5,000. The “Real Weddings Study” published by The Knot in 2016 showed that the average cost of an engagement ring was $6,163. The study noted that the cost had risen 3% higher than the previous year, and was 21% higher than 2011’s average of $5,095. The rising price of diamonds and precious metals has increased the average.

Most men are familiar with the guideline that a man is supposed to spend one month of his gross salary on the engagement ring, and as of late there have been suggestions to spend as much as 3 months’ salary. What most guys don’t know is that the guideline, according to Angela Guzman and Christin Perry from The Knot, was concocted by none other than diamond marketers at the start of World War II to turn a bigger profit.

Men also don’t realize that diamonds aren’t precious. In an article by Robin Dhar called “Diamonds are Bullshit” published at the Huffington Post on August 5, 2013, he points out that diamonds lose as much as 50% of their value as soon as you step outside the doors of the jewelry shop. In fact, it wasn’t until 1938 that offering an engagement ring became standard practice in marriage proposals. In 1938 the De Beers diamond cartel launched a massive marketing campaign to convince American women that a diamond engagement ring was culturally the appropriate thing for a man to offer when he bends the knee. After successfully increasing the demand for diamonds, De Beers then set out to skyrocket the price of diamonds by restricting the supply.

In 1975, another marketing genius, Gary Dahl, sold 1.5 million packages of his Pet Rock for $4 each and became an overnight millionaire. Funny how people wonder how a man could convince people to buy an ordinary rock just by labeling it “Pet Rock,” but jewelers have been convincing men to buy women rocks for decades.

When a girl proudly shows off her ring to her equally ditzy friends and says, “Look at the huge rock he got me,” just remember that she speaks the truth: her fiancé paid for a rock. Next time you see some worthless rock on the side of the road, be reminded that a diamond is nothing but a translucent sparkly rock—it’s just a rock, nothing more. A rock on a woman’s finger serves absolutely no purpose whatsoever. The rock is not a tool you can fix something with; it’s not a tooth in a diamond blade saw, for example. It’s just a rock on a woman’s finger. To really put this into perspective, I suggest that every man go outside, pick up a little rock and duct tape it to their finger. After you’ve completed this, stare at it and repeat, “If a man wants to get married, he needs to put a rock on a woman’s finger.” Keep repeating this until you realize that the only reason why you taped a rock to your finger is because somebody told you to, and the only reason why you’re supposed to buy a woman a rock, to place on her finger, is because somebody told you to.

If men stopped letting their brains coast on autopilot, by allowing people to tell them what men are supposed to do, I think the world would be a whole lot better place. Maybe men will stop spending thousands of dollars to put a rock on some tramp’s finger. On the bright side, at least the folks selling rocks are laughing all the way to the bank.

Reason #3 - Weddings are a Bad Investment

In a survey of 16,000 couples in the United States, The Knot’s 2014 “Real Weddings Study” found that 45% of weddings exceeded a couple's budget and 23% lacked the funds altogether. Most brides spent over $1,300 on their wedding dress alone.

The price of a wedding dress and the wedding itself speaks to a woman’s need to validate the price of her fish-mitten. If it were up to men, most weddings would be little more than taking a girl to the beach, a park or a church to have a minister officiate the union. In the delusional belief that we’re marrying our dream girl—who will supposedly keep us happy for the rest of our years—we wouldn’t care if our sweetheart wore a simple dress she grabbed right off the rack at the local thrift store. For us, it’s about having finally found the girl we believe will make us happy. For a woman, a wedding is a way to tell the world how high her genitals have been appraised.

According to The Knot, American couples shelled out over $30,000 for the wedding ceremony in 2015, while New Yorkers dropped over $80,000. That’s a high price to pay to automatically decrease the amount of sex and blowjobs you’re going to receive and to promise that you’ll never sleep with any other woman ever again. We haven’t even factored in the additional expense of a honeymoon, eventually purchasing a larger home, children, the engagement ring, taking your wife on dates, or otherwise buying her whatever she wants, so you don’t end up sleeping on the couch.

Knowing full well that modern women equate housework with slavery, just for the price of the marriage ceremony, you could have a maid thoroughly clean your house every two weeks for the next thirty years. Since virtually every married man admits that sex with his wife is few and far between, if prostitutes aren’t your thing, you can dive into courses on how to become a pick-up artist and start banging as many women as you can handle. Most 3-day weekend seduction seminars by pick-up artist pros only cost $500 to a few thousand dollars. Because many wives are more likely to throw a fit than bring their husband a sandwich, it makes more dollars and cents to stay single, eat out or cook your own food—because married men are often doing the cooking anyway.

A wedding ceremony is a bad investment no matter which way you slice it. If you don’t want to break your bank account just to have the “privilege” to sign a contract that ultimately gives a woman almost complete control over your assets and your sex life, do not get married.

Reason #4 - Her Lifelong Commitment Requires a Ring

Before the popularization of the engagement ring by jewelers and the diamond cartel, men would do something as simple as giving a girl their mother’s sewing thimble. Whatever object a man gives to a woman in his marriage proposal, it ultimately symbolizes a willingness to provide for her.

The fact that women almost unanimously demand an impressive engagement ring should throw up a red flag. Marriage is an oath of commitment and service to another person. Contrast an oath of brotherhood and friendship to a marriage proposal, and any man should see what it really amounts to. You don’t have to give a friend anything at all to earn such brotherly love and loyalty that he might just take a bullet for you. Over a dozen men have been awarded the Medal of Honor for jumping on a hand grenade to prevent the explosion from killing their buddies—and these are friends who probably never did much more for them than buy them a beer at the bar.

To secure the supposed lifelong loyalty of a woman, a man must kneel before her in a position of submission and servitude, and present her with an expensive object—the engagement ring. Since marriage, at least in theory, is supposed to mean that a man’s wife is his “to have and to hold,” an engagement ring can be likened to offering a woman a lifelong prostitution contract. The difference between a wife and a real prostitute is that you’re virtually guaranteed to get laid if you pay a prostitute. If you give a woman an expensive ring, help pay for the wedding ceremony, put her up in a lovely house, work your ass off to pay the bills and buy her whatever stupid crap she wants this particular week, unlike a call girl, she doesn’t have to sleep with you at all. Moreover, if you don’t like a prostitute’s performance, you can tell the whore to kick rocks, order up another skank, and perhaps be out $50 - $200. If your wife stops putting out, you’re out a $6,000 diamond ring, $30,000 wedding ceremony, $5,000 honeymoon, and you’ll be paying her alimony and child support. Don’t forget you’ll be giving her your house and custody of the kids.

Her lifelong commitment requires an expensive ring and wedding, but with over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, what’s the real value of a woman’s word? Apparently, it’s 1 – 3 months of your salary, but I don’t think it’s worth a nickel of dog shit. I bet you could do a blood-brother ceremony with one of your buddies right now, and his word is strong enough to bet a whole year’s salary that he’ll remain your friend for life. You can do the blood-brother ritual for the price of a knife—and a band-aid, if you’re pussy—and you probably already have the pocket knife. Afterward, instead of blowing thirty-grand on a wedding ceremony, you can blow $300 at the tittie-bar or treat yourselves to a couple of hookers and get blown.

Reason #5 - Vows are Meaningless and Stupid

Many marriage vows include the words “for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part,” or something similar. This means that no matter how bad things get, the man promises that he’s going to stay with his wife.

No one would ever make this agreement anywhere else. You wouldn’t stay loyal to a restaurant that replaces their award-winning chef with a halfwit whose food tastes like cardboard. You wouldn’t continue to work for a company that treats you like garbage, is on the verge of going bankrupt and has downsized their operations from a modern skyscraper to a dilapidated building in the middle of the ghetto—unless there were no other options for employment. Thankfully females outnumber males, so you always have options if you know a thing or two about picking up women, or if you have a little money.

Wedding vows are literally saying that you are willfully giving up all your options, and will stay onboard even if things go south. The bride has sworn to the same vows, but women are not creatures of loyalty, and they have absolutely nothing to lose for not keeping their marriage oath, and everything to gain. Wedding vows are easy to break for women because women always have options too. It is much more difficult for a man to go to a public place, seduce a woman he’s not just attracted to, but will also please him sexually and domestically. In other words, it’s much harder for a man to find a gal that’s “wife material.” A marginally attractive woman, however, can finalize a divorce in the morning and find another man to throw money at her by nightfall. With the power to easily replace her husband, and the rewards of alimony, child support and gaining ownership of his house, there is absolutely no reason for a woman to stick it out “for better or for worse.”

The poetic language of marriage vows conceals the absurdity of what is being agreed to. If marriage vows were honest “for better for worse” would read something as follows:

I agree that I will stay with this woman even if she gets big as a house, and screams at me if I ask her to cook, do the laundry or vacuum. I agree to keep this woman as my wife even if she decides to become a raging bitch who spends my money on stupid crap, runs me down in front of her friends, and tries to prevent me from hanging out with my buddies. I swear to never sleep with any other woman, even if I find a much more suitable and attractive companion later in life, and even if she no longer dresses sexy, refuses to give me blowjobs and denies me sex. Knowing full well that divorce settlements favor women, and that most marriages end in divorce, I agree to risk a significant portion of my personal wealth and possessions just so I can call this woman my wife. Even though I could just keep her as a girlfriend, with the freedom to easily dissolve our relationship if she no longer pleases me, I solemnly swear to commit myself only to this woman. Should I, at some later date, realize that marrying this woman means a drastic decrease in my personal freedom and happiness and that she is little more than a nagging and unnecessary financial burden, regardless, I promise to keep her as my wife.

That is what “for better or for worse” really means. Would any sane man agree to that?

Reason #6 - Marriage is Work, Not Romance

On December 27, 2016, Dan Moloney, a chaplain at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology and the University of Massachusetts-Boston, published an article titled “Marriage is not Romantic” on his blog Spiritual Direction. Moloney stated, “I usually tell couples considering marriage that there is surprisingly little about their dating experience that will be important to their marriage experience. That’s because our dating culture teaches us to look for romance, while marriage is surprisingly unromantic hard work, that requires a different set of skills than staging a good date.”

The chaplain also pointed out that couples can get married to attempt to solve psychological needs brought on by previous relationships or childhood experiences. Others make the mistake of thinking that marriage can forever capture and perpetuate some fantastic romantic feeling they have for someone. Marriage is not a genie in a bottle, however, in which you can encapsulate some romantic moment into a marriage contract and evoke romance whenever you want for decades to come. The magic fades, and it fades quickly, as evidenced by countless articles on how to bring a spark of passion back into a marriage. The fact that most marriages today only last about seven or eight years, and 80% of divorces are initiated by women, should also speak to how quickly women forget all about their romantic engagement, romantic wedding, and how they swooned on their honeymoon.

Alain de Botton, a formally trained philosopher, advises couples to abandon the romantic view of marriage in his article “Why We Will Marry the Wrong Person” published by The New York Times on May 28, 2016. Alain says, “We need to swap the Romantic view for a tragic (and at points comedic) awareness that every human will frustrate, anger, annoy, madden and disappoint us — and we will (without any malice) do the same to them. […] Choosing whom to commit ourselves to is merely a case of identifying which particular variety of suffering we would most like to sacrifice ourselves for,” and added, “We should learn to accommodate ourselves to “wrongness,” striving always to adopt a more forgiving, humorous and kindly perspective on its multiple examples in ourselves and in our partners.”

Why would I want to place myself in a situation where I must accept tragedy instead of joy, and accommodate wrongness instead of picking and choosing with whom I spend my time? What benefit is there to trading romantic dates and laughter—with a variety of young, beautiful girlfriends over the years—for a cohabitating relationship with one woman that requires more money and more work, and that experts admit should not be confused with romance? As Tiffany Fletcher, a relatively obese woman writing for Famifi.com writes, “Marriage isn't about romance, it's about work.” I can only imagine that Tiffany’s husband wishes she wasn’t so hard at work stuffing her face.

Tiffany’s words are quite accurate however—marriage is about work. Marriage not only increases the number of hours a man has to work on average but if you can’t catch Tiffany because she’s out on another extended lunch break, any marriage counselor we tell you that marriage in itself is hard work. As they say, “You have to work hard if you want to keep your marriage together.”

Nowhere else are reasonable men willing to bend over backward to keep a relationship together, except at work—keeping the boss, clients and coworkers happy—and when we lived with our parents. No psychologically healthy man will keep a friend in his life if their friendship requires continuously working on making the other person happy. We may have had a mother or father who was challenging to deal with in childhood, but after moving out on our own, we no longer have to subject ourselves to their demands. Taking on a wife is to willingly place oneself in a position that every expert admits is going to be more demanding than remaining single. Cohabitating with a woman can be likened to moving back in with mommy for the benefit of her food, but somehow forgetting that you don’t have to live with mom, and put up with all her quirks, to enjoy her cooking.

You don’t have to marry a woman to enjoy sex, a candlelit dinner, or to hold hands with her on a summer’s night stroll through your quiet neighborhood. There’s one way to kill the romance in a relationship and spend a fortune doing it, and that’s to get married.

Marriage is not romance, it’s work.

Chapter 2 - Meet Your Wife’s Real Husband

“If marriage didn’t exist, would you invent it? Would you go, “Baby, this shit we got together, it’s so good we’ve got to get the government in on this shit. We can’t just share this commitment betweenxt us. We need judges and lawyers involved in this shit baby.” – Doug Stanhope, famous comedian

Reason #7 - Divorce Rates

If someone asks you why you aren’t married, it should be sufficient to respond, “I’m not married because I don’t believe in divorce.”

When I read comments from young men who believe they’re too handsome, successful, well-endowed, or good in the sack, for their wife to leave them, I have to resist the urge to slam my palm right into my face. There are a lot of guys who still need to wise up and look at the amount of wealthy, good-looking men, with undeniable alpha status, who end up in divorce court. Movie stars aren’t the best example because celebrities aren’t just wealthy, they’re also knee-deep in Hollywood weirdness. There are plenty of other wealthy men who tied-the-knot and paid the price. Thomas Doheny was a handsome, successful man who went through a divorce in 2014. The resulting 260 court appearances ended up destroying his career. After being ordered to pay $20,000 a month in alimony and child support, and the judge refusing to lower his payments, even though his earnings declined, Tom took his own life in a jail cell on November 17, 2017. 

Despite the staggering number of divorced men who end up committing suicide, some guys still think they’ve got it all figured out. No one is dumb enough to load a six-shooter with three bullets, put it to their temple and believe they can beat 50% odds. It amazes me that men can see the divorce statistics, read about men getting financially divorce raped, hear the horror stories from friends and family, and still think they can win betting against the house.

Some guys think they’re safe to gamble at the marriage casino because they’ve developed a superior system to assess whether or not a woman is marriage material. There are multiple problems with this line of thinking, not the least of which being that women are, by nature, unpredictable. The main problem with a wife-material checklist is that it assumes women can be assessed by the same standards as men can. For instance, a man who loves to cook and keeps his house immaculately clean, will likely still enjoy cooking and be just as OCD about cleanliness twenty years from now. On the other hand, a woman who possesses the same traits may alter her behavior according to new conditions, such as marriage, childbirth, a decrease in her husband’s earnings, or an increase in her own. Just because she cooks for you now, and loves the idea of being a housewife, doesn’t mean she’s not going to change. The guy who believes he’s devised some magical checklist that will prevent him from facing divorce is nothing but a fool.

Men are nothing more to women than disposable units of production that exist to provide women with resources. The survival of the species requires that men fall in love with women, such that they are eager to deliver the fruits of their labor to them, and are willing to lay down their lives for them. This is not the case with females of our species. When it comes to relationships with the opposite sex, the two biological imperatives of a woman are 1) to breed with the best alpha male she can find 2) secure the resources of a male so her and her offspring can survive. These objectives are not mutually inclusive, and thus one or more men can provide her the genetic material she’s after, and a completely different man, or several men, can give her the material resources she desires. There is absolutely nothing whatsoever in these objectives that speak to falling in love with a man, and in fact, to do so would prevent her from completing both of her instinctive missions.

According to the National Center for Health Statistics, 50% of marriages in the United States end in divorce, and 80% of divorces are filed by women. In their report “National Marriage and Divorce Rate Trends” for 2000 – 2014, it shows that a couple gets divorced every 36 seconds.

Unless a man is such a feminist-influenced cuckold that he believes that marriage oppresses women, or thinks that there is a significant shortage of good men, the percentage of women that initiate divorce should be seen to validate the conclusion: women love the resources they can get from men, but not the men themselves. If a woman’s biological imperative is to acquire resources from the more capable male, but she can do it by ending the relationship with him—and thus free herself to make additional gains from other men—then that’s exactly what she’ll do.

Reason #8 – Divorce Courts Reward Women for Destroying Their Marriage

The highest divorce settlement was that of Alec Wildenstein's divorce in 1999 from Jocelyn Wildenstein. Alec paid out approximately $3.8 billion ($5.6 billion when adjusting for inflation to 2018). His ex-wife famously went on to get so much plastic surgery that she made herself look like a monstrous creature from a Lovecraftian horror story.

It’s too unsettling to even describe this woman, so I will simply proceed with some more facts.

According to the Internal Revenue Service, in 1997 alimony payments totaled $5.6 billion, but ten years later in 2007, the payout climbed to $9.4 billion. About 97% of alimony is paid by men, and according to IRS data from 2007, men in a low-income bracket are paying out the most, at 20% of their gross income. In other words, a guy who’s barely scraping by making $30,000 a year is paying his ex-wife $500 a month.

On May 7, 2018, Olivia Rudgard published an article to The Telegraph titled “Rise of women backing out of divorces as court settlements shrink.” The name says it all; as the High Court of England and Wales has started to step back from awarding lifelong alimony, women are deciding that they don’t want to get a divorce after all. Imagine my shock. This goes toward proving the case that women primarily get divorced to acquire a man’s resources. As for the United States, permanent alimony is still awarded to ex-wives in some states. For a woman to receive temporary or permanent alimony usually requires being married for five to ten years. It just so happens that the average length of a marriage that ends in a divorce is 8 years, which aligns nicely with the average number of years a woman must be married to steal the resources of her ex-husband through alimony.

Child support can also be viewed as a form of alimony, but it is actually superior to it in some ways. Child support allows a woman to exit a marriage immediately upon confirming her pregnancy, as the birth of the child means she will still reap some of her ex-husband’s money, regardless of whether or not alimony is granted. In fact, a woman doesn’t need to marry a man to get pregnant and start collecting child support. An attractive woman can run out right now, sleep with a man who earns at least six-figures, convince him that she’s on birth control, get pregnant, and start receiving several thousand dollars in child support in 9 months. If the guy doesn’t pay, not to worry, because the government has a safety net for her in the form of welfare. She can also go out and quickly find more victims.

Even if a man never wanted to be a father, and immediately forfeits all parental rights to the child, he will still have to pay the tramp child support. Note too that there is no law dictating how a woman must spend monies received from child support or alimony. Just as the courts assume that a woman will automatically be a better parent, and thus deserves custody of the children, if a creature has a vagina it is believed that she will spend child support and alimony payments wisely. As we will see later, having a vagina also means that when she claims a particular man is the father of her child, it is always assumed that she is honest.

From alimony to child support—and in the absence of any legal requirement for a woman to have sex with her husband, or to lift a finger around the house—marriage is a win-win for women. The marriage deal is so good for women that I have to question the intelligence of any woman who doesn’t want to get married. One beautiful college educated girl told me that she often had suicidal thoughts because the only job she could find was at a retirement home where she had to wipe butts. All a pretty female has to do is find a relatively attractive man she can tolerate, be kind to him, give him great sex and seduce him into marriage. It really doesn’t take much to get a man to agree to support the lifestyle of a woman.

Somehow though, as was the case with this particular girl, many modern women can’t swallow the thought of cooking and cleaning for a man and having sex when he wants it. What these girls fail to understand, is that they only have to keep a man happy until he signs the marriage contract, after which they need only please him at some rudimentary level, and in return, they will have a robot to protect them and provide for their existence. This girl was so influenced by feminism that she thought it better to work for someone else, doing a job that was driving her to suicide, rather than “work” as a housewife for a handsome man of her choosing. I don’t know if that story speaks to women’s inability to use logic, or to how brain-damaged women have become from the fallout of feminism?

Can any man really imagine what it would be like to have the power to leave your job, pick out an attractive woman of your choice, and then have all your bills paid for, in exchange for having sex with her, cooking her dinner and doing laundry? Gigolos make their living having sex with successful women, but the keywords here are “pick out an attractive woman of your choice.” A gigolo will often swallow his pride and sleep with an old bag if the price is right; he doesn’t choose the woman, the woman chooses him. An attractive woman can easily get nearly any man she wants if she just shows interest, is relatively pleasing in bed, acts nice and presents herself as wife-material. The woman who has the brains to secure herself a husband has effectively acquired a lottery ticket valued at her husband’s earnings and done so for the low price of looking pretty, having sex with a guy of her choosing, and acting like a decent human being. The fact that she’s rewarded with a servant who will support her existence, for doing virtually nothing, is just mind-boggling.

To put the insanity of marriage into perspective, I’ve written the following scenario.

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Johnny lands an interview with the CEO of Husband Incorporated, where he’s offered a cushy office job with a six-figure salary. The chief executive officer, Bob, tells Johnny, “We’re going to pay you $250,000 a year but if you decide to quit the job we’ll pay you $125,000 a year for the rest of your life, so long as you’ve worked for us for at least seven years.”

Johnny replies, “That sounds very similar to a guy paying his ex-wife alimony.”

Bob responds, “It’s very similar. In fact, if you decide to leave the firm after seven years, you’ll get to keep your office, the desk, the plush leather chair, computer and everything else in it that we paid for. You can also use the space to start your own business, or to work for a different company.”

Johnny says, “Golly gee, that really sounds like a divorce settlement, where a guy’s ex-wife gets to keep the house her husband paid for, along with most of his possessions.”

“You’re very perceptive, Johnny,” Bob replies, “We base a lot of the way we do things here on marriage and the divorce industry. To sweeten the deal, we’re going to give you a $6,000 sign-on bonus, which is about the average price of an engagement ring. If you decide to come on board with us, we’re willing to spend $30,000 on a Super Bowl party for you and your friends, that you won’t soon forget, and we’ll give you an immediate two-week vacation valued at $5,000. That’s about the average price of a wedding ceremony and a honeymoon John.”

Johnny could hardly contain his excitement, but before he could speak Bob cut him off. “You know what Johnny? I don’t think that’s good enough for a guy like you. How about this? We’re going to let you pick whatever office you want in the building; you can decorate it however you want, and we’ll buy the desk, office chair and computer of your choice.”

“Well that sounds real dandy to me Bob, but I don’t if…”

Bob cut him off again, “We’re going to open a line of credit for you so you can buy a whole new wardrobe of suits, shoes, and ties.” “That’s sort of like how a husband buys clothes, shoes, makeup, and stuff for his wife, right?”

“You really are sharp as a tack Johnny. You know husbands often pay for their wives to go to the beauty salon and to get their nails done, so we’re going to go ahead and take care of all your haircuts…and what the heck, we’ll pay for your gym membership or a professional massage once a month—your choice.”

At this point, Johnny was thinking that this job was just too good to be true, so maybe he’d better ask about the qualifications. “Well sir, I hope I’m qualified for all this. I don’t want to let you down.”

At that, Bob leaned back and chuckled, “You’ll have to pass a simple test that a chimpanzee could ace, just to see if you can handle the tasks you’ll be in charge of. At this stage, there’s really only two things you need to pass this interview with flying colors.” “What’s that Bob?” “Well, you have to be a nice guy, and you sure seem like a swell guy to me.”

Bob stopped for a moment, furrowed his brow and then turned his chair to face the window. “Johnny, I don’t want to sound like one of those twinkies or anything, but you have to be good looking to work here. I think you’re a handsome fellow, that probably does well with the ladies. Am I right?” “Well, yes sir, I do okay…and thank you for the compliment, but do you guys do any criminal background checks, personality profiles, or IQ tests or anything?”

Bob laughed again, which started making Johnny wonder if he was the fool for believing he deserved such a sweet deal, or if the fool was sitting across from him.

“To answer your question Johnny, one of our subsidiaries does a little bit more intensive screening process for job applicants, but it’s pretty much a company-wide practice here at Husband Incorporated to hire on someone so long as they have a nice personality, and are a relatively attractive individual.”

Johnny crossed his arms and pressed again for more details. “Your job listing in the paper was kind of vague, so exactly what am I going to be doing if you hire me?”

For the third time, Bob let out a laugh. “Johnny, Johnny,” he said, sighing as if Johnny was a rookie who just didn’t understand the industry, “Listen, you don’t have to worry about what your job duties are, because as soon as you complete orientation, you don’t actually have to do anything at all. In fact, if you want to come to the office dressed like a slob, throw temper tantrums, annoy your coworkers, refuse to answer phone calls and let unanswered emails pile up, that’s fine by me. It looks like you’re a fit guy now, and as I said, we only hire attractive people around here, but you can stop working out and start eating ham hocks and cupcakes, as soon as you’re hired. So long as you stick with us for about seven years, we’ll pay you half your salary for the rest of your life, and you can keep the clothes, the office and everything in it.”

“With all due respect sir, that just doesn’t make sense,” Johnny replied, still crossing his arms like he was being roped into a scam. “Relax John, you look really concerned, but let me assuage your worries.” Bob clicked his pen and then pulled out a thick packet of papers, dropped it on the desk, and then leaned back and gazed out the window like he didn’t have a care in the world.

“You know what that is John?”

“Well, it says it’s an Employment Contract.”

“That’s right Johnny boy,” Bob replied, “Like I said, here at Husband Incorporated we base everything off of marriage and divorce. Does a wife have to maintain her appearance or lift a finger around the house?” Before Johnny could reply, Bob burst out, “No, of course, she doesn’t.”

“This here Employment Contract guarantees everything I’m promising you, and then some. In fact, if you want to review our company’s legal history, you’re welcome to it. What you’ll find is that we lose almost 100% of our court cases anytime we go up against a former employee who doesn’t feel they got exactly what they were entitled to.”

Johnny finally unfolded his arms as something began to click in his mind. Having known guys who were taken through the ringer in divorce court, perhaps if there are men who are dumb enough to keep getting married, maybe there could actually be an entire corporation that was silly enough emulate the institution of marriage.

“Okay,” Johnny chimed in, “What happens if I get fired before the seven-year mark? I mean you’re promising half my salary will be paid to me for life, if I work here for seven years, but what’s stopping you from kicking me out the door before that?”

Bob clicked his pen again, tucked it into his inside jacket pocket and turned to face Johnny. He lowered his voice and spoke very seriously, “I understand your concerns. The best thing to do is just to convince us to hire some of your friends. If we end up firing you, we’ll pay you a minimum of $500 a month for every friend you recruit into our workforce, and we’ll keep up those payments for 18 years. You can even have your buddies leave with you the day you get fired, and we’ll still keep up the payments.”

Johnny interrupted, “That’s sort of like child support, right?”

“Yeah John, but I want to back up because you said something earlier that kind of concerns me.”

“Okay.”

“Well…it’s nothing to worry about, but I just want to be real clear on this, so we know we’re on the same page.”

“Okay, what’s that,” Johnny said, for the first time feeling he might not get the job.

“Johnny, a few moments ago you said the words “work here.” When you come on board with Husband Incorporated, we work for you—and I mean that. For instance, if you need your office remolded or rearranged, we’ll do all the heavy lifting. We’re hiring you to do some menial tasks, no more difficult than cooking a simple meal or cleaning your house, but if you just want to lay around all day and watch television, that’s fine too. We’ll do the work for you. We’re here for your pleasure John. In fact, you can come and go as you please. We will, of course, draw up a schedule for you, but you can spend your time working for someone else during the hours you’re supposed to be here.”

Bob winked with a sly grin, “Might I suggest you spend some of the hours—that you’re scheduled to be here in your office at Husband Incorporated—over at Infidelity LLC instead. They’re located right across the street. Granted, they don’t pay as well, but the girls over there will pay for any dates you go on, and give you all the sex you ever wanted. The only downside is the gals at Infidelity love to trash talk Husband Incorporated, so you’ll have to put up with that.”

Johnny was about to ask what kind of ladies worked over at Infidelity, but he figured it would make him sound uncommitted to Husband Incorporated, so he remained quiet.

“Just to finish up John, I want to return to our version of the child support system. Our way of symbolically representing that you’ve brought a child into this marriage is if you recruit a friend to come on board with us. Once again, if you get fired before the seven years are up, we’ll pay you a minimum of $500 every month, for 18 years, for each friend you bring into the company. The best part is that the more money our company makes, the more money you’ll get for each one of your pals you recruited.”

Bob paused for a second as if he missed an important detail.

“Come to think of it Johnny, maybe that isn’t the best part. You see, we’ll actually help you bring your friends into the firm, and even if we don’t like the idea, you’ll have the power to demand that they work here. Moreover, although it is true that we could fire you, we absolutely positively have no authority to terminate the employment of your buddies. If you want a friend to come work for us, we’re stuck with him unless you say otherwise.”

“So that’s sort of like how guys have no legal authority to force their wife to have an abortion, and a woman can also easily get pregnant by lying about being on birth control. Is that correct?”

“Exactly John…and just a little nudge-nudge-wink-wink, if you make friends with someone over at Infidelity, we’re more than happy to hire them, so long as they don’t actually say they used to work for Infidelity. Hey, what we don’t know won’t hurt us right?”

“I guess so Bob,” Johnny replied.

“You know, I was reading the other day John, that there are around 300,000 paternity tests performed in the United States every year, and about 1/3rd end up proving that the man the woman claimed was the father, isn’t actually the biological father. If the guys around here have really stuck to our mission to emulate marriage and divorce, I’m willing to bet that about a third of the employees we’re paying here actually came over from Infidelity.”

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Admittedly, that short story is pretty silly, because no corporation would ever agree to those terms. A company that would reward employees for leaving, and have no means of enforcing a work ethic, would go bankrupt. If a company didn’t thoroughly screen applicants, yet gave them sign-on bonuses, threw parties for new hires and gave them all expenses paid vacations the day after they’re hired, their stocks would plummet. Every business magazine in the world would be calling them incompetent, while the editors and journalists would be secretly sending in their resumes. It makes me wonder then, how men can continue to get married when women are rewarded for getting divorced. I sense that this foolishness primarily comes from men thinking that the female across from them genuinely loves them. Men also have the ego to believe that they are such a great catch as a husband, that their wife would not leave them. The divorce rates say otherwise.

Reason #9 - False Domestic Violence Allegations

A law enforcement officer friend of mine once told me how his wife almost succeeded in having him arrested on a false charge of domestic violence. George was standing around in the living room when his wife suddenly rushed out from the kitchen, knife-in-hand, and knocking him off-balance with a back-hand, he flipped over the couch. His wife then proceeded to straddle him and started trying to cut his shirt off with the kitchen knife, but accidentally cut both the fabric and his flesh. His children quickly called the police. When a patrol car pulled into his driveway, George stumbled out the door with blood all over his sliced up shirt. Despite his wife showing no signs of abuse, she took flight outside and simply said, “He did it.”

His fellow officers then immediately handcuffed him and were about to put him in the patrol car if it were not for the children running out to the policemen, and telling them what had transpired. When I asked George what instigated her attack, and why she wanted to cut him, he insisted that he sincerely believed she had no intention of cutting him with the knife, but for some unknown reason wanted to slice up his shirt. George was at a complete loss for words as to why she flew into a rage and stated that it was completely unforeseen. For the record, George was the pastor of his church and was loved and respected by his community.

The United States is not the only country suffering from women being given the power to charge men with domestic violence without evidence. Russia Today, a news outlet uploaded a mini-documentary to YouTube on February 10, 2016, titled “No Woman, No Crime: Israeli Men, Legally Harassed by Women.” The documentary shows to what lengths feminist-empowered Jewish women will go to get what they want from men. Jewish girls in Israel have carte blanche to bring charges of rape and domestic violence against men without presenting a shred of evidence and often do so if a man refuses to marry them, or a husband or boyfriend doesn’t do what they want.

In my life, I once dated a girl who later proved to be completely off her rocker. One night she refused to leave my house, so I went into the bedroom, pushed her back so she couldn’t get in and quickly locked the door, thinking that she would eventually leave. In the morning I found her sleeping on my couch, and demanded again that she leave. She told me that she wasn’t going to leave, and instead was going to call the police and say that I abused her if she didn’t get her way. I secretly dialed 9-1-1, held the phone behind my back and loudly said, “So, you’re going to lie to the police and say that I physically abused you, just because you’re upset with me,” to which she responded in the affirmative. I then put the phone to my head and told the emergency operator, “You just heard this woman admit that she’s going to fabricate a story of domestic violence. Please send over a patrol car to remove this psychotic woman from my house.” The crazy lying bitch then screamed, “I can’t believe you would do this me,” and stormed out of my house in a huff.

A false domestic violence charge is just one of many strategies women can use to control their husbands. If a man accuses another man of having struck him, law enforcement will require evidence. If a creature has a sausage-wallet, it is automatically assumed that whatever man she accuses of having hit her must be guilty, regardless if there is no evidence.

Reason #10 - False Rape Allegations

Various sources have claimed that false rape allegations account for only 3 – 4% of reports of rape, but I genuinely believe they pulled those numbers right out of thin air. Philip Rumney published his study “False Allegations of Rape” in The Cambridge Law Journal in March of 2006. He found that false rape accusations accounted for 10 – 50% of reported rape incidents. In 1994 Eugene Kanin of Purdue University published the results of his investigation into false rape allegations. Eugene chose a small community of 70,000 people because, unlike in many larger jurisdictions, the police department had the resources to "seriously record and pursue to closure all rape complaints, regardless of their merits.” He also stated that their investigation "always involves a serious offer to polygraph the complainants and the suspects" and "the complainant must admit that no rape had occurred. She is the sole agent who can say that the rape charge is false.” His findings? Out of 109 complaints filed between 1978 to 1987, police concluded that 45, or 41%, were utterly false.

Feminists try to explode these findings by essentially claiming that police officers are too incompetent to tell whether or not a woman is lying or not. A police officer writing for ReturnofKings.com said the following in his article “A Police Officer Shares His Personal Experiences With False Rape Claims,” posted December 16, 2014:

“In my experience, I have investigated many different rape cases that ultimately turned out to be false, with some common reasons behind the initial claim.  I have seen multiple instances of a girl claiming rape after she was caught, or about to be caught, cheating on a boyfriend. I have seen a girl cry rape to avoid getting in trouble for being out past her curfew, which would have violated her probation. I have seen a girl from a religious ethnicity claim rape after getting pregnant through consensual sex, in an attempt to avoid the stigma of an out-of-wedlock pregnancy. I have investigated the rape claim of a girl at a house party, which ultimately turned out to be nothing more than regrettable drunken party sex. And finally, I have seen multiple examples of false claims stemming from mental illness, psychosis, and delusions on the part of the woman, with various motivations behind such claims.”

After one particular incident where a girl admitted she was lying about being raped—because she didn’t want her boyfriend to find out she was cheating on him—the officer stated that his fellow officers got into a conversation in which they tried to recall a single incident where a grown woman had inarguably been raped. He stated, “…all of us were racking our brains trying to think of one incident that we could recall of an adult rape claim being real. This was a combined total of roughly 50 years of law enforcement experience, both patrol and investigations, and between us we could only think of one example involving adults off the top of our heads.”

Despite the efforts of law enforcement officers to sniff out liars, many men are still sitting in prison because of a woman’s lies.

In 1988, Dion Harrell was sentenced to eight years in state prison for the rape of a teenager in Long Branch. Dion served four years before DNA tests proved beyond a shadow of a doubt that he was innocent.

William Barnhouse served 25 years in prison for rape before DNA tests confirmed the woman had made up the whole story.

Cornelius Dupree Jr. spent 30 years in prison for rape before DNA tests proved his innocence.

Danny Kay spent three years in prison over in England until his sister-in-law happened upon some deleted Facebook posts that proved his innocence.

Thomas Webb III spent 13 years in prison for rape before DNA evidence proved the woman who had twice picked him out of a lineup of other black men, had chosen the wrong guy.

On the surface, false rape allegations wouldn’t seem to be a concern in marriage, but with the institution of marital rape laws, women have been granted an additional means to punish a husband who does not do as she sees fit. For instance, one man shared with me that in the last year of his marriage, his wife told him that if he tried to touch her sexually, she would call the police and cry rape.

Reason #11 - Her Real Husband is the State

When a man signs a marriage license, he is creating a legal corporation wherein he, his wife and the government are now legally bound together. Black’s Law Dictionary defines a license as something that grants "permission by competent authority to do an act which without such permission, would be illegal." In effect, the government is saying that it is illegal for a man and woman to vow an oath of marriage without the consent of the state. No man regards the state as having the authority to declare with whom he may swear an oath of loyalty, but that is exactly what every man is admitting by signing a marriage license.

Women intuit precisely who has the real power in the marriage, for it is the entity that supposedly has the ability to say whether or not the marriage exists. No matter how much a woman reminds her man that he is her husband, it is a complete illusion. The real husband of every woman, no matter whether they are married or not, is the government. If a woman doesn’t like how her live-in husband behaves, she can merely threaten the force of law to adjust his behavior. Financial divorce rape, alimony, custody of the children, false allegations of domestic violence, fabricated stories of child abuse or marital rape, are all at a woman’s disposal through her real husband, the state.

Chapter 3 - Meet Your New Wife

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” - Arthur Schopenhauer, 19th-century philosopher

Reason #12 - Living With a Child

Some guys say that it is hard to determine what a woman really wants, and numerous books and articles have been written to help men figure out what makes women tick. The only men who find women’s thinking to be mysterious are those who try to assess them according to male standards of thought. The myth of equality has clouded men’s ability to see that women are very different creatures than them.

The female mind is not too dissimilar to that of a child. Children do not concern themselves with the aftermath of their actions, as they are interested in their immediate gratification. If he is allowed, a child will gobble up fistfuls of sweets and consume nothing but sugary beverages all day long, regardless of whatever health warnings he’s been given. The child is after how things make him feel. Grown women are also interested in how things make them feel, which is evidenced by, among other things, their spending habits. A wedding dress she’ll only wear once, a diamond ring that lost half its value as soon as it left the store, and a $30,000 wedding ceremony are all complete wastes of money but cherished by women because of how these things make them feel. The fact that women initiate over 80% of divorces, and a parade of single mothers can be found on dating sites everywhere, speaks to their poor judgment, indecision, and inability to weigh the long-term ramifications of their actions.

Just like a fat kid who will consume as many donuts as his parents will give him, women are also more likely to be obese than men. A higher likelihood of weight gain in females is partly due to genetics and an instinct to pack on pounds for the purpose of survival, but the more gynocentric a society is, the fatter it becomes. A child cannot be held responsible for the food he is provided, in what portion it is given to him, nor held to account for his parents not requiring him to play outside and exercise. It is then unfair to hold a child responsible for his weight. Here too, women demonstrate that they want to be treated like children. “Fat acceptance” is the push by women to shame men into accepting their obesity rather than taking responsibility for their own actions. Social networking websites are littered with images of fat models, accompanied with captions saying how women who are grossly overweight are just as beautiful as girls who are fit and healthy.

Adulthood is categorized by independent decision making, personal responsibility and financial independence. Regarding independent thinking—despite feminism attempting to convince women that they should be rulers of their own destiny—various surveys have shown that women want a man to be the decision maker in a relationship. As for personal responsibility, virtually every real or imagined adverse condition that women are in, or have experienced, is blamed on men. For example, the claim that women earn $0.70 for every $1.00 a man earns is an often repeated myth by feminists. In the book Why Men Earn More: The Startling Truth Behind the Pay Gap and What Women Can Do About It by Dr. Warren Farrell, the author shows that women earn less than men because they choose jobs that don’t pay as well.  In college, men prefer to major in studies that will help them secure a place in a high paying occupation, but the majority of female students do not. Somehow, even though women are making these choices, it’s still the fault of men.

As for financial independence, a woman’s biological imperative is to seek out a male who has access to the resources she desires. Feminism has only succeeded in making it easier for women to make bad decisions without having to take on the responsibility of acquiring resources with their own two hands. A woman who reproduces with a man that she later claims isn’t a suitable mate, is rewarded for her poor decision making through child support. The courts almost universally awarding women majority custody of the child is an additional pat on the back.

The vast majority of pregnancies are unplanned and were unwanted by the male, yet despite women having ready access to birth control, somehow these supposedly adult creatures keep getting pregnant. In 2014, an estimated 926,240 abortions were performed, which represented 19% of all pregnancies for that year. If a man offers his buddy a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, but his friend is allergic to peanuts, whose fault is it if he eats it? Unless a woman was raped, or for some reason, the birth control honestly didn’t work, the onus is always 100% on the woman if she gets pregnant. She’s the one with the womb, easy access to affordable and effective birth control, and men cannot get pregnant.

There are very few instances of a pregnancy being the result of rape, and most abortions are done for unmarried women in their 20s, according to the Center for Disease Control. The need for an abortion means that there was lack of good judgment on the part of the woman, yet a gynocentric society would have us feel sorry for these women who failed to use birth control and failed to act responsibly. Single mothers are applauded for having made a poor choice in a mate and having abandoned the father of their children. Despite the fact that study after study shows that raising a child in a mother-only home is one of the worst things you can do to your offspring, we’re supposed to cheer on single mothers as excellent examples of strong and independent women.

A woman who files for divorce is rewarded through divorce settlements and alimony, and will usually gain ownership of the house her ex-husband worked his ass off to pay for. This is like rewarding a child with a lifetime supply of ice cream after she throws her ice cream cone on the ground and screams that it wasn’t the flavor she really wanted.

The idea that a man can take advantage of a woman who is intoxicated and find himself locked up in prison for date rape, even if he and the woman were both under the influence of alcohol when they had sex, also speaks to the fact that women think like children. If two men go out for drinks and one guy says, “Why don’t you drive us over to another bar, because this place sucks,” and they get into an accident, whose fault is it? The drunk driver who operated the vehicle is at fault and will be tried as an adult who decided to make an irresponsible decision. Even if a man is so drunk that he can hardly walk, if he has sex with a woman who had a glass of wine, she can easily argue that she was date raped and likely win her case in a court of law. Why? Because even the law seems to know that women are essentially children, and feminism wants to keep it that way.

Reason #13 – Women Love to Play Games

Pick-up artists (PUAs) refer to a man’s toolbox of seduction techniques as “game,” and for good reason. Seducing a woman is very much like playing a game in which the man must press a series of buttons in the right combination to gain access to her penis-garage. The mission of the PUA is to take note of the game a particular woman wants to play, but skillfully move her onto his own game board where he makes the rules.

Women love to play games and do so in such subtle ways that many men don’t detect it. The most popular female game is the shit-test, in which a woman will say or do things to determine how much a guy will put up with her shit. Depending upon his score at the end of each shit-test round, she’ll be able to ascertain whether she’s dealing with an alpha male, a beta male suitable for extracting resources, or if the man’s alpha male status has fallen. A girl who shows up late could be testing your reaction. Will you tolerate her disregarding the importance of the plans you made for the evening? Do you consider access to Miss Flappy—her asshole’s fishy neighbor—to be more valuable than your own time? If she decides to put less thought into her appearance, will you complain or keep your mouth shut because you don’t want to ruin the chance of getting a blowjob? Cheating, or suggesting that she be allowed to see other people, is the ultimate shit test. Are you dumb enough to keep providing this whore resources even though she’s been getting railed by Chad?

If a man takes a girl out on a nice date but she doesn’t give him sex, yet says she’s looking forward to another date, she’s playing a game. The purpose of this game is to convince the male that she is a prize worth chasing and to assess just how much value he places on her fish-mitten. After a few dates, it will give her some sense of just how many resources she can extract out of him. If the amount is sufficient, she will sleep with him, and thus—very much like training an animal—subconsciously link in the man’s mind that providing her resources equals his sexual gratification. A woman who spent her college years riding Chad-cock can also appear to be a modest girl by withholding sex on the first few dates, even though she’s been ran-through more than an offensive line.

A girl who gets engaged is likely to throw out a few random shit-tests to glean some prediction of how married life will be with her new fiancé; so too, will a girl who is actively on the prowl for a boyfriend that meets her standards for “husband material.” Females are instinctively attracted to confident and capable leaders so any man who is willing to put up with their shit cannot be the pinnacle of alpha male leadership. This is why women are attracted to bad boys that don’t appear to care about them and refuse to put up with their shit. However, women are often forced to decide between the alpha male who has valuable genetic material in his ball-sack, and the provider-male who has valuable resources in his bank account. She wants to know which one you are so she can figure out her next move. A provider-male will be at the top of the list, after she’s ridden enough Chad-cock to turn her vagina into a pound of meat loaf, and realizes that her beauty is fading and her fertility window is closing.

Having secured a robot in the form of a husband, a wife will increase her shit-tests, to ensure that the resources he accrues through his hard work will be used to appease her, and her alone. Like a girl warming up to a horse, so she can ride it, the question is, “Just how much weight can I get this stronger animal to carry for me?” Are you willing to do some of her household chores, even though you’re working 60 hours this week? Exactly how much does your wife really need to spread her legs to keep you handing over your resources, but at the same time, prevent you from walking out the door? 

This is why women are such terrible communicators. Their goal is not to communicate the truth but to gauge reactions. Therein is the unfortunate reality to the joke, “No means no…except when it means yes.” How many guys rolled their girlfriend over and pounded her pussy into the mattress after she said “no” to sex, only to be told after the money-shot, “I really love how you just took charge?” On the other hand, how many men are sitting in prison because a woman said yes to sex, but regretted it the next day and called in a false rape allegation so the cum-slut wouldn’t have to admit to herself how slutty she acted?

A wife might see if she can get you to cancel your trip to the gun range with your best mate, just to see if your balls are still in her purse. A wife might say, “I just want to be left alone,” and then get angrier when her husband complies and drives off to the bar, only to tell him later, “I really wanted you to hold me.” Do you really want to spend your life playing stupid games and guessing whether or not what your wife said to you is just another one of her shit-tests?

Reason #14 – Women Live for Drama

Men use their strength and their knowledge of how objects work to get the resources they need. As women are the weaker sex, they must rely on a variety of other strategies to attain resources and social power. Women love drama and gossip because they generally lack the inherent attributes to amass a lot of resources through other means, and are typically not interested in other avenues.

Drama is used both as a method to control men, but also as a means to feel alive. A man feels alive and accomplished through the strain of his mind and muscles, interaction with the objective world and what can be logically concluded by observation. Women experience the vibrancy of life through emotion. Whenever emotion stagnates, a woman becomes deadened to the pulse of existence like someone cut off from sensation in a sensory-deprivation tank. In the desperate desire to feel alive again, she creates drama, and in so doing, emotions well up in her like a heartbeat kick-started again on an EKG machine. Much like a bat using sonar to navigate at night, the pushing and pulling of her drama creates an emotional tension that she then uses to verify her existence.

In Te-Erika Patterson’s article “Why Women Crave Drama,” posted to EliteDaily.com on November 15, 2013, she wrote, “Women crave drama because we need to experience the exhilaration of uncertainty, the excitement of having to exercise our creative powers to transform a situation or tame the wild beast.” She also stated, “We are addicted to the pride that comes from the challenge of overcoming. When there’s no drama eagerly popping up in our lives, we get lost in soap operas, reality shows and celebrity gossip. We want that "OMG" factor and we want it every day because without it, we would be numb.”

When a woman creates drama in her relationship, it is a kind of shit-test, in which she feels disappointment when her man gets upset and marches off, but exhilaration when he returns and they come back together again. If she can get him to kiss-and-make-up, she validates the value of her cock-sock and receives an emotional high. As Patterson admits in her article, women are in effect emotional addicts.

Reason #15 – A Nagging Wife Can Literally Kill You

Nagging is defined as constantly verbally harassing someone in an attempt to get them to do what you want them to. If you tell some beta male cuckold that an essential ingredient for happiness in a relationship with a woman is for her to keep her mouth shut, he’d likely get his panties in a bunch and say something about equality, or regurgitate some other feminist twaddle. The “happy wife, happy life” mantra is little more than an anecdote for castrated men who try to make light of why their testicles are in their wife’s purse. There is some truth to the saying, but not as most might imagine.

As journalist Francine Russo points out in her article “Here is the Secret to Marriage Happiness,” citing research by the University of California Berkeley and Northwestern University, the faster a wife backs off and calms down, the happier the marriage. Researchers also discovered that the length at which a husband remains angry and refuses to back down had little effect on marital happiness. In other words, the less a woman nags, the happier her husband will be, and the happier she will be—but the ball is in her court, not his.

The anecdote women should be saying is, “A happy husband will make me a happy wife,” but trying to put the onus on women is like trying to nail a custard pie to a wall. Women are not creatures of responsibility, as is evidenced by the fact that they so often claim that everything is the fault of men. 

In a 2014 article entitled “Nagging could cost the lives of hundreds of men” by Rebecca Smith, the medical editor at The Telegraph in the UK, presents the dark outcome of living with a bitch. Rebecca combed over research published in The Journal of Epidemiology & Community Health which showed that husbands who live with a nagging wife are 2.5 times more likely to die in the next 10 years than men in less stressful relationships. A woman with an abrasive attitude has the power to drive a man right into an early grave, yet how many of them are willing to admit it, or are even conscious of the fact, that they drove their husband to his deathbed? There is no way to ensure that a girl is not going to turn into a nagging bitch after marriage or pregnancy, but there is one way to find out.

Reason #16 – You Will Lose Every Argument

Men generally argue for no other reason than to prove they are right or enter into debates to explore the soundness of their beliefs or theories or even those of someone else. When a woman argues she is playing an emotional game. What she says is intended to elicit a response. It has nothing to do with facts or logic. This is why you hear women say things like, “I find that really offensive.” Think of all the guys you know that can be categorized as “manly men.” Have you ever heard any of them ever say some shit like, “I find that really offensive”?

Women care about how the conversation is making them feel, rather than the soundness of what has been stated. No amount of evidence can ever win an argument with a woman because it is impossible to argue with feelings.

Before a man opens his mouth to make a point in front of other men, he must be confident that what he is about to say is built on solid ground and will not make him look like a fool. A man might choose to remain silent until he has completed necessary research to speak intelligently on the subject. As natural liars, women have no such obligation, as they are used to winning people over through a display of beauty or an outburst of emotions. I use the seemingly harsh term “natural liars” because girls learn early on how to exaggerate their emotions, alter their appearance or feign interest to get what they want. In the school of life, girls come to understand that getting their way has more to do with how they look and act, rather than what they know. Acting more upset than you really are, in the hopes of getting your way, is lying. When a woman stuffs her bra, wears a wig, or puts on a girdle to hide her fat, she is lying. When a woman gets cosmetic surgery, dyes the gray out of her hair and claims she’s ten years younger than she really is, she is lying.

Dr. Ned Holstein, from the National Parents Organization (formerly known as Fathers & Families), discovered that “women who fail to pay all of their child support are incarcerated only one-eighth as often as men with similar violations.” Sonja Starr, an assistant law professor at the University of Michigan, found that men are given sentences that are 63 percent longer, on average, than those received by women for the same crime. The point is that women are not used to even having to argue to receive a pass.

As for a passing grade, being an attractive female is also beneficial in the classroom. As Christina Peters and Rey Hernandez-Julian from the Metropolitan States University of Denver put it, "More attractive students earn higher grades when they are seen than when they are not seen. In a June 20, 2017 article published in Pacific Standard, titled “Attractive Students Get Higher Grades,” the two economists noted that a student getting a higher grade for physical appearance was often “driven mainly by courses taught by male instructors.” On the television show Shark Tank, in which entrepreneurs have to convince investors to invest in their businesses, female business owners often burst into tears as a last-ditch effort to get the money they’re seeking—and they often succeed.

If a woman cries, then you’ve already lost the argument, no matter how many facts you’ve laid on the table. Pressing the issue to make your point to a woman always risks such an emotional outburst. The guy who starts prattling off facts or pulls out his smartphone to search out a study he knows will win the debate, has missed the point: he has only proven his willingness to ignore the feelings of the woman he is arguing with. Obviously it is shameful in our society for some man to overlook the duress of some poor helpless girl in tears, so the apparent brute has lost the argument.

Do you really want to live with a creature that doesn’t even know how to formulate a reasonable argument?

Reason #17 – Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde’s Menstrual Cycle

While an unmarried man can merely avoid his girlfriend when she’s on her period, or break up with her if she steps out of line, a married man has years of menstrual cycles to deal with. A woman can become an emotional wreck when she’s on her period, and many women will become full-blown bitches. Most women don’t like to have sex when they’re menstruating, so whereas a single man always has options, a married man faces the strong possibility of going without sex for 4 – 7 days every month and dealing with a bitchy attitude.

A claim that she is having menstrual cramps, whether real or fabricated, will also mean her unwillingness to attend to her chores, such as washing the dishes or making dinner. An old-timer told me that when he was a Hospital Corpsman in the Navy, he had to start keeping track of the menstrual cycles of all the female sailors he was in charge of at the medical facility. He said they would often use menstrual cramps as an excuse to get out of duty. Apparently, they would enter requests for days off work so often they must have had menstrual cycles that latest thirty days out of every month. As I said before, women are natural liars.

Reason #18 - Women Can Be Physically Abusive

As little boys, most of us heard the nursery rhyme that says little girls are made of sugar and spice and everything nice. As for boys, according to the rhyme we’re made out of “snips and snails and puppy-dogs’ tails.” Nothing negative is being said about boys, but girls are elevated above males by claiming that they’re made out of “everything nice.” Too many men grow up believing this, so it comes as a shocker when a woman does something cold and heartless to them.

When we observe a male animal in the wild tearing apart prey we do not think that such aggression is limited only to the males of the species. Female wolves, snakes, lions, alligators, and sharks can be just as deadly as their male counterparts. Why is it then that men largely delude themselves into thinking that women are much less likely to engage in domestic violence?

According to the National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey of 2010 published by the CDC, 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have been victims of physical violence by an intimate partner and 1 in 7 men have been victims of severe physical abuse. In their report “Domestic Violence: The Male Perspective,” the men’s rights group Parity uses statistics from government sources to show that 40% of the victims of domestic violence are men.

Men are three times more likely than women to keep abuse a secret, and there’s good reason. When a man shared his stories of how his girlfriend abused him on the Jeremy Kyle talk show in Britain, the women in the audience erupted in laughter, and Jeremy had to rebuke them for their hypocrisy. An abused man can speak out, leave the relationship, try to defend himself, or refuse to cohabitate with women, or he can avoid relationships with them altogether. If a man speaks out, he’s likely to be laughed at or ignored, and police are often quick to arrest a male victim rather the female victimizer.

An increasing number of heterosexual men—calling themselves MGTOW (Men Going Their Way)—are insisting that refusal to cohabitate is the only safe option.

Many men have regretted trying to defend themselves against an enraged girlfriend or wife, as they found themselves in jail or prison. It should not be shocking that law enforcement and the judiciary favor women. As I mentioned earlier, a study by Sonja Starr, an assistant law professor at the University of Michigan, found that men are punished with sentences that are 63 percent longer than women convicted of the same crimes in a federal court. Women are treated like defenseless children that are virtually incapable of lying, while men are treated like brutish savages capable of the most heinous crimes imaginable.

A wife can kick her husband in the nuts, slap him, spit on him, claw his face and punch him, and law enforcement will most likely haul him off to jail if he so much as pushes her away in self-defense. Men have been issued prison sentences of several years just for restraining their wife in such way as to prevent her from continuing to hit them.

Men often don’t tell anyone that they’ve been physically abused by a woman, namely because we like to think that we’re tough, and we should just suck-it-up “like a man,” but also because it can be embarrassing to admit it. For these reasons, the number of domestic violence crimes against men from women is likely grossly misrepresented and is probably much higher.

It should not come as a shock that women strike men so much, as countless movies and television shows have scenes where an actress slaps a man across the face. Comedies also often feature men getting kicked in the testicles, or hit in the groin by some object—as if hurting the male genitalia is hilarious. The television show America’s Funniest Home Videos periodically features videos of men and boys taking a painful hit to the groin. On the women’s TV show The Talk, Sharon Osbourne cackled uncontrollably like a wrinkled old demon-possessed hag as she talked about the true story of a man getting his penis cut off and thrown in a garbage disposal. Sharon Osbourne had the audience, and her round-table of female co-hosts, erupting into sardonic laughter as she said of the man’s incised genitals, “I think it’s quite fabulous; I mean, can you just imagine that thing whizzing around the disposal—it’s like hysterical!”

The message is evident throughout the entertainment industry: hitting males is okay, and directing violence at their genitals is good for a laugh. BreakingTheSilence.org notes that 71 percent of children killed by one of their parents are murdered by their mother, and 60 percent of the victims are boys. One wonders how much the way males are portrayed by the media has contributed to the deaths of little boys at the hands of the enraged mothers.

I have a few stories to tell about abusive women that I’m not ashamed to admit, as they have been great eye-openers for what women are capable of.

When I tried to leave Melissa, and attempted to open our apartment door to walk out, she charged at me and clawed my face from beneath my right eye, all the way down my cheek. I pushed her back and walked out, dripping blood from the skin torn on my face. She could have blinded me with her long fingernails. I had never laid a hand on Melissa until that day I pushed her back in self-defense.

Susan was another interesting case of realizing how little I was valued in the eyes of a woman I treated so well. One night she went into an epileptic seizure, so I called for an ambulance. Almost as the paramedics came into the house, Susan’s seizure ended. She signed a waiver agreeing to turn-down medical attention. As soon as the paramedics left the apartment, she turned to me and began hammering me in the face with her fists. On another occasion where I was intent on leaving her, I walked out of her place and made my way down the road. She charged after me, and as I turned to face her, she pummeled me in the face with her fists.

One of the most telling experiences of abuse was that of Angela who clawed my face right outside of a restaurant in full view of a police officer. I pushed her back in self-defense. It literally seemed like she purposefully fell to the ground to exaggerate the amount of force I used to defend myself. I proceeded to enter the establishment as we were there to meet some friends. Angela followed me and sat down beside me. The officer who witnessed the incident came in, and though she had torn my skin and a trickle of blood was making its way down my cheek, the policeman merely took her aside, scolded her and walked off.

I never foresaw that any of these women would physically abuse me, but thankfully they were only girlfriends. Married men who find themselves in an abusive relationship aren’t so lucky. It is not so easy to get rid of a wife, as divorce comes with the threat of losing a significant portion of one’s assets to a divorce settlement, alimony and child support. Moreover, cohabitating with a woman can overcomplicate making a safe escape, and there are virtually no shelters for battered men. Furthermore, law enforcement is more likely to arrest an abused husband rather than the abusive wife, because having a vagina assumes innocence, and judges will often scoff at a man’s stories of being beaten by a woman, especially if the judge is female.

The Harvard Business School conducted a study of 11,000 men and women concerning domestic violence. They published their findings in the May 2007 issue of The American Journal of Public Health under the title “Differences in Frequency of Violence and Reported Injury between Relationships and Nonreciprocal Intimate Partner Violence.” They discovered that 50% of relationship violence was reciprocal, but when both parties admitted to hitting each other, both men and women also admitted that the woman in the relationship was the one who was most likely to strike first. The Harvard Business School also found that when relationship violence was one-sided, women were the perpetrators 70% of the time.

The only sure way to avoid being locked in an abusive relationship—or being locked up in prison for defending yourself against a violent wife—is to not get married.

Reason #19 - Women Can Be Emotionally Abusive

Domestic violence can also come in the form of verbal abuse, and it is often the preferred way that a woman chooses to hurt her husband. One woman I knew would poke fun at the size of her husband’s penis in front of friends whenever she was upset with him.

When I was rolling around in bed with one live-in girlfriend, and let her know that I really wanted her to give me fellatio, she snapped at me and said that I smelled. I had just gotten out of the shower moments ago, and never, under any circumstances will I have ever let a woman go down on me if I’m not clean—even if the woman is a prostitute. She made the comment to wound me. I would later find out that she was cheating on me with an ex-boyfriend, who she admitted treated her like garbage. She was obsessively writing about him in a diary she kept in a lockbox beneath my bed; the same bed she would tell me she loved me in.

Women say things to get emotional reactions. The outcome is justifiable so long as it returns a desirable feeling.

Reason #20 – Having a Conversation With a Turnip

When you think of a good intellectually stimulating conversation, do you picture talking with one of your pals, or a male mentor like a father, your pastor or the old-timer that lives next door? While there are women who are well read, most of the deep-thinkers I know are men.

If someone asks you to think of some famous deep-thinkers, perhaps the names of a few philosophers might come up. In terms of length alone, the list of female philosophers is actually quite impressive, but can you name even one? Can you name even one woman who contributed to theology, or whose sermons are cherished by millions the world over? The subjects of politics, philosophy, theology, economics, history, sociology, business, warfare and technology are all chiefly the domain of men. These are the things intellectual men are generally interested in talking about, yet they are not in the interest of most women. By comparison to the depth of conversation one can have with a fellow man, to get married is to condemn oneself to conversations that amount to little more than the babble of infants.

Reason #21 - Religious Differences

If being with someone who shares your faith, or lack of faith, is important to you, getting married can be one of the worst mistakes you’ll ever make. If your wife decides to convert to a different religion, abandons her faith, or goes from an atheist to a fundamentalist bible-thumper, there’s nothing you can do about it. There a wide variety of books and videos, hosted at video sharing websites, of people giving the reasons why they lost their religion, or why they converted to another one. It is foolish then for a man to think that the woman he marries will retain her belief, or lack thereof, “till death do us part.”

Naomi Schaefer Riley, the author of Til Faith Do Us Part: How Interfaith Marriage Is Transforming America, commissioned a study of 2,450 Americans through the polling firm YouGov in 2010. In her April 5, 2013 article “Interfaith Unions: A Mixed Blessing” published in The New York Times, Naomi stated, “While roughly a third of all evangelicals’ marriages end in divorce, that figure climbs to nearly half for marriages between evangelicals and non-evangelicals.”

The Barna Research Group’s 1999 study of intra-faith divorce rates discovered that born-again Christians had the highest marital failure rate out of other Christian faith groups at 27 percent. Jews were the most likely to divorce, while atheists and agnostics were the least likely at 21 percent.

A 1993 study by Evelyn Lehrer of the University of Illinois at Chicago, found that at the five-year mark 20% of such marriages between mainline denominations end in divorce, to say nothing of what the future holds in ten or twenty years. Evelyn also discovered that 33% of marriages between an evangelical and a Catholic, and 40% of marriages between a Christian and a Jew ended in divorce in five years.

If a couple that shares the exact same belief are not equally committed or equally lax about their religion, it can become a significant determinant for predicting marital stability. From the earlier findings of the Barna Research Group, an atheist or agnostic couple might think they have cause for celebration with a divorce rate of 21%, but not only have divorce rates increased since their 1999 study, but there is also no assurance that a wife will remain a non-believer. The introduction of children into a marriage, a death in the family, illness of a loved one, or surviving a near-fatal accident, can all impact a person’s spiritual beliefs. A wife who is an atheist might suddenly return to church after her father dies. By the same token, a wife might completely dissolve her faith in God after her favorite nephew dies in a horrible car accident, or her best friend calls her with the sad news that she has cancer.

Reason #22 – Her Politics Are Not Your Politics

I will say upfront that I am an absolute monarchist, who believes in the age-old system of the rule of kings, so I do not favor either the Republican or Democratic parties. However, I think it can be soundly argued that the Democratic Party is closer to the aims of feminism than the Republican Party. Within that sentence lies the issue of politics and marriage. I will unapologetically say that male readers who are democrats are more likely to be able to engage me in an intellectually stimulating and civil debate in defense their politics, than most any woman I have ever met.

The point is that men generally give at least some thought to their politics. Women, on the other hand, are mere conformists who vie for whatever system would seem to provide them with the most rewards, and the least responsibilities.

According to the article “Wide Gender Gap, Growing Educational Divide in Voters’ Party Identification” published by the Pew Research Center on March 20, 2018, “56% majority of women identify as Democrats or lean Democratic.” It’s telling to note that if a woman is married to a wealthy man, she’s more likely to vote Republican. The thought process is that her husband’s wealth is also hers, so she votes to protect the resources she has acquired through marriage. A female’s biological imperative to obtain resources from males translates to the increasing tendency of women to favor policies that afford them ease of access to the wealth of men.

Men who pride themselves on their patriotism must understand that a woman’s other biological imperative to reproduce with the best alpha male they can find, precludes them from being patriots. To put it bluntly: women will spread their legs for the conquerors. When an invading force succeeds in capturing a land, the male soldiers have demonstrated their superior alpha status. Even if men put up a strong defense against an opposing army, if local women see greater alpha characteristics in a soldier of the opposing force, their sexual desires will be ignited. It is essential to understand that pointing this out is not an affront to women. Nature requires that women breed with the best men they can find to ensure that the species continues to be strengthened. In all, the takeaway point is that a woman’s political views are illusory.

The other issue at hand is that most women do not have a keen interest in politics. Females are more likely to latch on to political causes because of how they make them feel, rather than seeking a real understanding of the workings of government and politics. The study of political science remains a majority-male discipline, yet Shauna Shames wrote in “Political Science’s Gender Problem” that “women now represent about 25% of tenured political science professors, up from about 5% in 1980.” In 2016 about 1 in every 5 members of Congress were women. What we have is a growing trend of women entering into positions of political power and influence, and an increasing number of women moving over to the Democratic Party.

In a side-by-side comparison of how the Republican and Democratic parties weigh-in on significant issues, it is easy to see which one caters more to the empowerment of women to the detriment of men, the family unit and the future of American children. In his “Men in America” report, Tucker Carlson, a news reporter for Fox News, said that exit polls showed that 74% of single mothers had voted for Democratic Party presidential candidate Barack Obama in 2008. In 2012, 75% of single mothers voted for Obama.

In June 2013, Psychological Science published a peer-reviewed article titled "The Fluctuating Female Vote: Politics, Religion and the Ovulatory Cycle.” The lead-author, Kristina Durante, an assistant professor of marketing at the University of Texas at San Antonio, found that ovulation affected women’s preferences for presidential candidates. CNN cited the research in their article "The Fluctuating Female Vote," but quickly deleted it after a feminist-led witch hunt ensued.

Taking on a wife can mean cohabiting with someone whose politics are entirely at odds with your own. If your political enemies offer more cheese in their mousetrap, that’s where you’ll find your wife’s vote. If political enemies invade your nation and beat your countrymen back, expect your wife to be dreaming of the hard chiseled bodies of foreign invaders, and fantasizing about their alpha male semen.

Chapter 4 - The Married Sex Life

"What's my secret? Drinking martinis, smoking cigars, going out with young girls and eating everything you want to eat providing you don't have to cut it with a knife." - George Burns

Reason #23 – Married Men Have Less Sex

When men daydream about how their married sex life will be, they imagine that they’ll be having tons of sex with their future wife every chance they get. Some articles even perpetuate the idea that married men have more sex than single men. Such polls are skewed by the fact that not all single men are created equally, nor have the same goals in mind.

If we ask one-hundred single men, who are skilled in picking up women, how much sex they’ve had in the past year, the results will be significantly different from asking a random group. One might argue that a random selection of men is necessary for a fair and scientific study, but the focus should be on what the average single man is capable of achieving with some training in the art of seduction. In other words, an honest study would attempt to show what the best possibilities are for the ordinary bachelor if he is given the best shot at picking up girls.

Since many men have been raised by single mothers and have no formal training in pick-up artistry, the promise that more sex is virtually guaranteed if a man gets married seems enticing. The methods to seduce Western women have also changed due to feminism, yet many men haven’t learned or adapted to a new environment filled with feminist-influenced bitches.

Yet another factor at play is that while almost all single men think about sex multiple times a day, their goals aren’t the same. For instance, I might go several months without sleeping with any women, just because I’m focused on a project and don’t want to deal with the distraction. Since I took the time to study various courses by leading pick-up artists, and I’m an advocate of prostitution, any long dry periods in my life are entirely intentional. The same cannot be said for men who foolishly signed the marriage contract. Unless a man is willing to cheat on his wife, and can do so often, the amount of sex he is getting is laughable compared to what a mediocre looking guy whose polished his seduction skills can do. A guy that has accumulated an enviable amount of money—or can sufficiently convince women that he is wealthy—is also likely to get more poon than a married man.

If you seek out the confessions of married men online or talk to them privately in person, you’ll find that married couples have sex once a week, once a month or once a year. The amount of sex a married man gets is directly proportional to how many years he’s been married. Couples that have been married for five years or more often report having sex 1 – 3 times per month, and after ten years it drops as low as 1 – 2 times per year.

The guys that are having the most sex are men who focus on keeping a girlfriend no longer than 3 – 6 months; essentially dumping her the moment sex slows down or she becomes a pest. Since virtually all girls want to bag a husband, women who think they’ve found a good catch will put out more in the first few months of dating in an attempt to show their boyfriend a supposed preview of things to come if he’s stupid enough to marry her. Since a wife is not required to have sex with her husband, and since alimony and child support financially punish the man who leaves a sexually frigid wife, women have no reason to please their husbands.

Women are driven by two vital biological imperatives: the desire to reproduce with the best possible male they can find; and, the need to be provided for and protected in a stable environment. A man who secures a girlfriend has done so because she believes he is an alpha male or possesses alpha characteristics. The female has determined that he is the best male specimen that she is currently capable of reproducing with; or, she sees him as a beta male provider who can be manipulated to give her his resources (i.e., money).

It is natural that a female will be turned on by an alpha male, as God or nature has programmed her to be in order so the species is increasingly strengthened by the genetics of the best males continuing on into the next generation. I must again insist upon the understanding that I do not hold anything against women for being women, any more than I hold anything against a dog licking his own ass. If women ignored their biological imperatives, our species would have died out thousands of years ago.

One critical problem with tying-the-knot is that marriage clouds a woman’s perception of her husband, such that no matter how much of an alpha male he is, the very act of signing the marriage contract reduces him to a beta male provider. In the advent of laws that give women tremendous power over their husbands—both in the event of a divorce and also in the married home—it is impossible for a man to convincingly retain a dominant position. Women are turned on by men with power, yet marriage strips a man of all his power—thus her natural arousal response is nullified.

Furthermore, for various reasons married men can lose respect and decline in the pecking order of their friends. The single guy she once observed happily joking around with his friends, who was always getting looks from the ladies, and who she assumed was the leader of the pack, has faded away. A married man is no longer desired by most women because of the ring on his finger, and thus his alpha status has diminished. Under the threat of divorce or sleeping on the couch, a married man undoubtedly can’t be the leader of his own tribe of friends because his balls are in his wife’s purse. Marriage laws turn the most alpha men into powerless beta male providers, unfit to excite the instinctual desires of their wives. If you don’t want to have less sex, don’t get married.

Reason #24 – Say Goodbye to Regularly Scheduled Blowjobs

When it comes to sex, it is more work to please someone than it is to lay there and be pleased. According to a 2015 survey of 2,827 women conducted by Skyn Condoms, over 50% of women enjoy the missionary position or doggy-style, and around 80% of women prefer a position that doesn’t require any real work on their part. Since women inherently want to be dominated it also makes sense that they would prefer positions in which the man is in a position of dominance and control. When a woman is giving a blowjob, she is in a submissive position. It would make sense that women would enjoy giving head, but the problem with fellatio is the marriage dynamic.  The great joke about married women and blowjobs is that the reason why women smile when they’re walking down the wedding aisle is that they’re happy they’ve finally given their last blowjob.

For a woman, getting married means she has secured her workhorse; a woman’s husband is her servant. It is the man that gets down on his knees to propose, not the woman. The man is symbolically saying that he is finally willing to submit and be the servant and protector of a woman, just as a knight kneels before his queen. It, therefore, flies in the face of what has been symbolically agreed upon—and what she envisions marriage to be—for her husband to be the object of service, rather than the one who serves.

The fact is that giving head is a real workout. Women are not creatures of responsibility, duty or hard work. A woman burns about 100 calories for every 30 minutes of giving oral sex. A thirty-minute blowjob is equivalent to going on a 23-minute bike ride. Mere observation, along with weight loss solutions advertised on the covers of women’s magazines, tells us that women are more apt to choose dieting rather than exercise to solve a weight problem. Dieting is the path of least resistance, just as a woman lying on her back or bending over is the choice that requires less effort on her part.

Men delude themselves into thinking that marrying their girlfriend will mean decades of amazing blowjobs, but the reason unmarried women give great head, and give it often, is because they’re trying to secure a husband. Once the marriage contract is signed, there is absolutely no reason for a woman to give her husband regular blowjobs. There is also no reason for her to be as enthusiastic whenever she decides to treat her husband—once a month, or once a year—with a blowjob, for he is the servant, and she is the mistress. The old adage that fat women and girls that aren’t that pretty give the best head echoes this reasoning. The more desperate a woman is to secure a servant, by way of a marriage contract, the more eager she is to please.

Lack of sex and blowjobs in a marriage is nothing but a bait and switch used by virtually every married woman. If this were not true, there wouldn’t be so many testimonials and studies confirming that sex declines with every year of marriage. If a woman gave her man head several times a week then he should rightfully expect the same sexual behavior into their 15th or 30th year of marriage, but this isn’t the case; it’s nothing but a bait and switch. It is doubtful that out of one-hundred married men there is even one who can honestly say that blowjobs increased after he got married. If you like blowjobs, don’t get married.

Reason #25 – Throw Your Kinky Fantasies Out the Window

Not only does the frequency of sex decrease upon getting married but there’s a whole host of fantasies that you can throw right out the window. Most married women are not going to be okay with bringing another woman into the bedroom, dressing up like a maid or a nurse, or giving you anal sex when you want it. You can also forget about any fantasy of sleeping with a mother and her adult daughter.

Just as in the case of unmarried women giving frequent and enthusiastic blowjobs, a wife is more likely to be less kinky than a girlfriend, a friend-with-benefits, a one-night stand or a prostitute. Once a man has bent the knee and shackled himself with a marriage contract, there is no reason for his wife to be kinky.

Keep a girlfriend long enough, and the frequency and creative variety in your sex life is sure to decrease. This usually happens after three months, but is sure to plummet at the moment she decides that you aren’t going to marry her or she no longer believes you are the most ideal candidate for a husband. An unforeseen downturn in finances, or your girlfriend suddenly catching the eye of a man who appears to have more alpha male traits or money than you do, all can cause a quick drop in her libido and performance. Even repeatedly demonstrating characteristics that she finds difficult or impossible to tame out of you can have the effect of her spunk-bucket drying up.

The foolish man is the one whose sex-life with his girlfriend has stagnated but believes marrying her will somehow make things different. While it is true that proposing to a girl can ignite the bed sheets again, this is only because she now believes that she’s betting on a sure-thing. The girl that can now proudly call herself a man’s fiancée, knows that she only has to keep her man enticed until the day he signs the life-long service agreement to her. If you like kinky sex, don’t get married.

Reason #26 – Say Goodbye to Candy & Bambi’s Sweet Young Ass

While some men have very strict tastes, there is still variety among the specific types of women that excite him. For years my favorite make and model has been Ford’s Lincoln Town Car. If the next iteration of the Town Car somehow fails to meet my standards, I am not required by any contract to purchase it. I not only have the freedom to choose a different make and model, but I can also buy as many vehicles as my budget will allow. Marriage, on the other hand, is an agreement to never so much as test drive another model, or even look at one with desire in your eyes.

Whoever says, “Variety is the spice of life,” gives one of the most cogent arguments against marriage. Although my taste in women has remained relatively the same, as a single man I’m able to change things up whenever I desire. I can enjoy a skinny gal with tiny breasts on Monday, a thicker girl with massive tits on Tuesday, and spend the rest of the week going through different skin complexions, heights, and ages. The married man has agreed to throw the spice of life right out the window.

When a single man achieves a laudable degree of success, he can then enjoy women all over the world, but a married man only increases the number of things his wife is going to ask him to purchase. Moreover, with men refining the art of seduction, a man needn’t wait to achieve even a modicum of wealth to seduce gorgeous women into bed, for the poorest of men can transform themselves into pick-up artists. On the one hand, you have married men slaving away to financially appease their wife. On the other hand, there are single men, who don’t have to work any harder than their meager living expenses require, and they can enjoy as many different women as they want. If you like having sex with a variety of different women, don’t get married.

Reason #27 – Women Use Vagina Access to Control You

Marriage vows typically include the words “to have and to hold.” For centuries this has been interpreted to mean that your wife agrees that you get to embrace her sexually whenever you like. In the days before feminism, this was called “a wife’s duty to her husband.”

A marriage ceremony is, in fact, a transfer of ownership, though it is not, and never was popularly intended to be a form of slavery. Whereas a sex slave is forced to please a man against her will, a marriage ceremony means she has willfully agreed to pleasure her husband when he desires. An additional significant difference between sex slavery and “a wife’s duty to her husband” should be apparent. It goes without saying that a woman that is enslaved will not be lovingly provided for by her owner, but a husband agrees to invest some amount of the fruits of his labor, and his time, to provide a safe and pleasant life for his wife. The husband serves, and the wife is supposed to serve in return, yet this is not how modern marriages work out.

Regarding marriage as a kind of ownership, note that women do not actually have a last name. A woman’s surname is her father’s name, and thus it symbolically represents that she belongs to him and is cared for by him, should she need him even in her adulthood. The symbolic transfer of ownership is completed when the father gives his daughter away in the wedding ceremony, and the bride takes up the surname of her husband. The woman’s new husband is now charged with being the go-to-guy for her care and protection, rather than her father.

In a collection of anonymous testimonies from married men entitled “Comments from Married Men,” found at MGTOW.com, some of the most frequent complaints are that sex with their wives is few and far between. Since women have garnered so much legal power through feminism, wives are fully aware that in signing the marriage contract they now hold all the cards in the relationship. With divorce settlements, alimony, child support or even the ability to deploy a false rape or false domestic violence accusation against their husband, there is no reason for wives to please their husbands on demand. It is her vagina, and she will decide when you get access to it.

Vagina access is lorded over the heads of husbands all over the world. Instead of husbands only needing to provide for their wives in a financially sound and practical manner, they are able to puppeteer their husbands into doing whatever they wish by punishing them by withholding sex.

Before feminism, a man could demand sex from his wife, and if she refused, he could just get on top of her and hold her to their marriage agreement. She keeps up her end of the bargain, just as he has kept his end of the bargain by paying the bills, keeping food in her stomach and a roof over her head. Since the 1970s, in the United States, a man who tries to hold his wife to her wedding vows is criminalized as “marital rape.” Make no mistake, a man does not get regular sex because his wife promised to let him “have and hold” her, but because she is pleased with the behavior of her slave.

Having a wife is like having a mommy, except where your mom may have placed you in time-out or withheld your favorite cookies because you did something bad, a wife will withhold sex if she’s unhappy with your behavior. A girlfriend does not place a man in this mother-son dynamic because if she refuses to have sex, you can laugh in her face and easily replace her. A wife cannot be easily replaced, and there’s a hefty price to pay in alimony and child support if you get tired of her controlling your sex life and decide to file for divorce.

If you do not want to guarantee that someone else will have full control of when and with whom you get to have sex, do not get married.

Reason #28 - Sleeping With a Cock Tease

Having to adjust to how a woman sleeps may be an unforeseen issue in a marriage. If a wife likes to sleep with a fan or television on, or if she snores, and you need pristine quiet, it’s going to cause problems. On the other hand, if a man snores so loud that his wife can’t sleep, he can expect that he’ll be the one that will have to sleep on the couch.

The real problem of sleeping next to a beautiful woman is that we men get 3 – 5 erections per night, so we’ll often want to have sex in the middle of the night, or at least before going to sleep. A wife that doesn’t put out makes the situation worse because getting turned down by the woman that you’ve spent so much money to court, marry and take over, causes frustration, anger, depression, and resentment. My points about sexual frustration in the middle of the night aside, a survey by AmeriSleep found that single people get the most sleep at 7.13 hours a night. Guys in a relationship get 7.07 hours of sleep, while married couples are getting an average of 6.71 hours.

During the day men will have as many as 10 erections. Until a wife becomes a beached whale that no longer turns her husband on, he’ll have to deal with seeing the beautiful girl he married walk around in her underwear, bending over to pick something up, or getting dolled up for work or a night out. It is inevitable that a wife won’t put out as often as a short-term girlfriend, so many men resign themselves to porn and the five-knuckle-shuffle.

In private or at work, it’s easy to deal with the random erections that we get throughout the day, even without pornography or masturbation. If a man doesn’t let his thoughts drift far into sex, a simple shift in thinking can solve an unwanted hard-on. A married man has to deal with seeing his wife sitting next to him with her hard nipples, or having her soft ass pressed up against him while he’s trying to sleep. Expect to look over at your wife while she’s watching some stupid TV show, and see her bare tittie hanging out of her silky robe, but if you’ve been married more than a few years, also expect to be cranking one off in the shower.

Chapter 5 - Suzy Homemaker? Not a chance!

"Marriage is about the most expensive way for the average man to get laundry done." - Burt Reynolds

Reason #29 – She Won’t Cook…and She Doesn’t Know How Anyway

One woman, I was briefly interested in, blurted out that she would never “do kitchen,” as if to say that she would never reduce herself to being the slave of some man. I told her, “Don’t you realize that men find it attractive when women ‘do kitchen’ and bring them something nice to eat?”

Men interpret their girlfriend or wife bringing them food as an act of love. A woman serving dinner symbolically says that she wants to nourish us, make sure we are healthy, and also acknowledges our contribution to the relationship. For almost all of us men, we were fed by a woman in our infancy and childhood, so females being associated with the ones who feed us goes without saying, but the pleasant experience of being nourished by a woman is also wired in our psyche.

According to The Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation, the top six smells that arouse men are all the scents of food. Despite men being turned on by perfumes that smell like food, or the thought an attractive woman bringing us something to eat, modern wives are loath to consistently cook for their husbands. A married man can slave away on a construction site, spend a fourteen-hour shift in a police patrol car, or put up with obnoxious business clients all day, and still get an “I’m too tired to cook tonight” response from his wife when he comes home.

There is simply no reason why a wife should cook for her husband, considering that a man has no recourse if she doesn’t. Married women are free to contribute little or nothing to the relationship because even if their husbands demand a divorce, they win through alimony, child support, child custody and transfer of property ownership.

While the average wedding ceremony costs tens-of-thousands of dollars, a man can take a week of cooking lessons for as little as $1,000 or less, and be skilled enough to impress his friends and any future girlfriends. Instead of putting up with a wife that doesn’t cook, and the looming threat of financial ruin after divorce, it’s a safer bet to identify great restaurants that have beautiful waitresses. You can also hire an attractive female chef to come cook for you, or you and your buddies, for $150 - $300 for 4 or 5 hours. A professional chef’s food is almost guaranteed to be delicious, and she can pack your refrigerator with several dishes that can be reheated or eaten cold.

You can even make arrangements with a neighbor or a roommate, where you agree to cover the brunt of the grocery bill if they do the cooking. If you don’t like your neighbors, you can move. If a friendship with a roommate goes sour, you can get him out, without handing over the deed to your house. I don’t, of course, recommend having a female roommate, so that doesn’t satisfy the desire to have a pretty lady serving up breakfast, lunch, and dinner, but having a buddy do the cooking sure beats the risks of marriage. Furthermore, you’ll almost always be served with a smile from a gorgeous waitress, and if the service is terrible there’s plenty of others to choose from. If your favorite waitress balloons out like a whale, you can always find a new favorite, but a wife who doesn’t cook for you but stuffs her face all day isn’t so easy to get rid of.

Since marriage far from guarantees you’ll be served meals by a beautiful girl with a smile, don’t get married.

Reason #30 – It’s Cheaper to Get a Maid

On April 21, 2014, Tara Carr published an article at Examiner.com titled “8 Things women just don't do anymore—that they should!” Tara states, “Back in the day, every woman had to take home economics. It was mandatory. It pretty much taught you how to be a wife. You learned how to cook, clean, sew, polish silver, host a dinner party, and help your man get a promotion!” She encouraged women to cook, clean, fix their husband’s dinner plate, watch their language, compliment their man, stay fit, dress up for dates and anticipate the needs of their spouse. Naturally, Tara was stormed by feminists who lambasted her for daring to suggest that women should appease their husbands like the supposedly enslaved housewives of the 1950s. In response to Tara’s advice, other girls presented a laundry list of excuses for why they simply couldn’t keep up with housework or were too tired to dress sexy, or to get their fat ass on a treadmill.

The most brutal slaying came in the form of a longwinded feminist diatribe at the blog Fit to Be Queen, in which  the author claims Tara’s article is “riddled with a-woman-is-meant-to-serve-a-man-stink.” This queen bitch tells of how disgusted she was seeing her mother serve her father in a traditional capacity as a housewife, yet she also had the audacity to admit that her mother didn’t work, and her father supported the household. The queen bitch goes on to suggest that husbands should participate in the household chores, but if a man is the sole bread-winner, then why should he? Amazingly, a man supporting a woman’s lifestyle, and providing for the well-being of her children, isn’t enough to warrant his wife bringing him something from the refrigerator as he kicks back to relax after a hard day’s work.

The queen really is a cunt in the truest sense of the word, for C.U.N.T. stands for “Can’t Understand Normal Thinking.”

These idiotic modern women are so appallingly dim that they equate doing things for a man as slavery, but working for a male boss in the workforce as freedom. As one man going by the pseudonym Jean Valjean pointed out, “If she's “fit to be a queen” then why is she going to be the one slaving away in the workplace, rather than sitting home and letting a man do the hard work, while she alleviates her boredom with some tasks around the house, and gives him a few gestures of admiration and appreciation?”

The queen feminist also said in her attack on Tara Carr, “I need a man who recognizes that I am just as smart, capable, and worthy as he.” This is really the crux of the matter: contemporary women believe they are strong, independent and fully capable of anything a man can do. If that’s the case, then they can go earn all the money for the household, while husband’s watch sports games all day, occasionally push a vacuum around and throw food on a plate when the “strong independent woman” gets home from a 14-hour shift.

On June 9, 2016, Steve Doughty, writing for The Daily Mail, reported that a survey of 3,000 women found that girls that listed “housewife” as their occupation were the happiest. In another study that I find epically hilarious, economists Betsey Stevenson and Justin Wolfers discovered that the increase in women’s rights alongside the feminist war against the traditional housewife has taken a toll on women’s happiness. In their May 2009 report “The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness” Stevenson and Wolfers note that surveys of women’s happiness show a decline since the 1970s.

Keep in mind that the 70s saw women supposedly making great strides for the empowerment of women. Roe vs Wade decriminalized abortion in 1973, allowing women to legally destroy the offspring of their husband. No-fault divorce was rolled out in California in 1970, allowing women to completely ignore their vows and acquire significant portions of their husband’s assets in divorce court. Marital rape laws were instituted in the 1970s as well, dissolving any notion that a man has a right to sleep with his wife when he wants to.

Despite these supposed victories for women, their happiness has declined. The fact remains that trying to figure out what women want is futile, as they have no idea what they want, nor do they possess the brains to foresee the ramifications of their demands.

Modern women are nothing like the housewives of the 30s, and they roll their eyes at the thought of cleaning up after their husband or “doing kitchen.” A woman’s bedroom at her mother’s house, or the way she keeps her apartment before she gets married, is an indication of what your place will look like if you marry her. Many women are slobs, but even the tidiest women are likely to throw in the towel after a few years of marriage, as girls are inundated with articles from feminists deriding “women’s work.”

Since married women can steal a man’s house, half his wealth, and receive alimony and child support payments, there’s just no reason any woman should tolerate cleaning up after some man. Your wife can take your money and just hire a maid. Which is precisely what you should do. There’s a lot of girls that need a job too. All these gals with worthless degrees in the Art & Science of Lesbian Basket Weaving, Gender Studies, or other useless liberal nonsense, would appreciate a few bucks for cleaning your house. No one wants to take care of a tattooed 30-year-old who spent the best years of her beauty riding the cock-carousel, or that has three kids by three different men, so these girls need a job.

Why throw away your freedom, risk losing much of your savings account, your house, and your earnings, just to have a wife who will dust, vacuum and fold your laundry? Especially when there’s no guarantee that she’ll keep at for years to come. For much less than most men spend on a nice date with a woman, you can have a maid clean your place twice a month. For $150 - $200 you can have a topless maid clean your house. Do you really think you can get your wife to clean your house naked or in lingerie, even if you took her to the best restaurant in town and bought her a $500 designer purse? You might be able to convince her once in a blue moon, but a professional housekeeper or sexy maid service will do the job every time.

Reason #31 – It’s Your Turn to Wash the Dishes

Before I exorcised the beta male right out of me, I twice found myself being the one who always washed the dishes while I had a live-in girlfriend. Today I have such a severe allergy to washing dishes that I just have a maid do it. Some guys think it’s good practice to do a little “women’s work,” because it supposedly earns points with their ladies. Basically, these guys have failed one of the most basic shit-tests of them all, and unbeknownst to them, their vaginal behavior is taking a toll on their sex life.

The American Sociological Review published a study in 2013 called “Egalitarianism, Housework and Sexual Frequency in Marriage,” that showed that women are less attracted to men who do chores that are traditionally associated with the duty of wives. The more a man cooks, cleans, folds laundry, mops or vacuums, the less attractive he appears to his wife. Husbands who only did masculine chores, like mowing the lawn, taking out the trash or wrenching on the car, had sex 1.5 times more than beta male husbands who engaged in feminine chores. Not only that, but the more traditional the division of household chores was, the more sexual satisfaction women said they were receiving from their husbands.

This research flies in the face of feminist nonsense, and the opinions of liberal marriage counselors, that says that husbands should help their wife with her traditional female household duties. If a man doesn’t want to have less sex and wants to keep his wife sexually satisfied, he shouldn’t ever touch a mop, vacuum or a dish. Stay clear of the washer and dryer machines too, unless you need to fix them.

The problem is that women are fed feminist propaganda from every angle that equates a woman’s housework with slavery, and articles in women’s magazines that claim a happy marriage entails men helping out with cooking and cleaning. It’s difficult for men to put their foot down and refuse to do women’s labor when their wives are made to feel like they’re being mistreated. It speaks to female intelligence, and their ability to be influenced that feminists have been able to convince women that housework is slavery. If a woman lives by herself as a single woman, she’ll have to cook, clean and do the laundry. The presence of a man in her household only marginally increases the number of chores she already had to do.

Feminists never factor in the benefits of what a woman receives in marriage, and pretend instead that husbands are receiving the great benefit of a female slave. The truth is that wives receive the resources of their husbands, typically get a more spacious house to live in, and are afforded the option to work fewer hours or stay at home. Married women have someone to care for them when they’re sick, and protect them against predatory animals and criminals. Wives also have a creature that is stronger than them, in the form of a husband, so they can move heavy objects by merely pointing at them, as opposed to getting off the couch and breaking a nail. Men who are remotely handy also serve as the go-to handyman for their wives.

The males of our species have endeavored to ease the labor of women in every possible way, from dishwashing and laundry machines, vacuums, microwaves and stoves. Our reward for making housework easy has been a rising divorce rate and a parade of feminists chanting, “We’re not your slaves!”

Thoughtful men looked upon the difficulties of women’s work and took the initiative to use their creative minds to ease their labor. What has been our reward?

Alva J. Fisher invented the washing machine. J. Ross Moore invented the automatic clothes dryer. William Cullen and Oliver Evans invented the refrigerator. Percy Spencer invented the microwave. Willis Carrier invented air conditioning. John Logie Baird is the father of television, and Guillermo González Camarena from Mexico improved the invention by bringing us color-TV in 1941. The powered vacuum cleaner was invented independently by British engineer Hubert Cecil Booth and American inventor David T. Kenney. Antonio Santi Giuseppe Meucci invented the telephone just a few years before Alexander Graham Bell created his version of the device.

In the days of hunters and gatherers, a wife would be busy beating the dirty laundry with a bat down by the river, or collecting firewood to make dinner when her husband gets home from hunting. She could also busy herself collecting fruits and vegetables. She could either sit in the shack her husband built, or sit outside to do her work. The hut is a pinch cooler than sitting out in the scorching sun, but there’s no lighting. Her primitive dishes and pots don’t amount to much, and there’s no refrigerator, so gathering food is a daily chore. She has hardly any clothes to speak of. She might miss her friends, but they’re miles away. Her husband arrived from another tribe and took her away from the people she knew. It would be nice to talk to someone she is familiar with, to keep her mind off morbid thoughts that her husband might get killed on the hunt. If her husband dies, how will she survive? Some bloodthirsty warband might also one day come through their village and murder her husband—and what will they do to her? Batting away a small swarm of gnats, she walks into the one-room hut, picks a pot up off the compacted dirt floor, and decides to go fetch some water.

Today, a woman can sit around in her multi-roomed air-conditioned house her husband purchased for her. She can watch her favorite television show on the giant color TV her husband also bought her, while the laundry is getting done virtually hands-free. When she flips through the channels she’ll ignore the news broadcast about some foreign politician threatening to declare war on her country. She doesn’t know much about the military, but she does know there’s millions of men in her nation’s armed forces who will defend their people. She’ll also ignore the report about a burglary, because last week her husband paid a man to install a home alarm system. Besides, she lives in a quiet neighborhood, and policemen have done well to keep the riff-raff at bay. When her husband gets home, she can reach into the refrigerator, and toss some leftovers into the microwave, or just have some chicken and mashed potatoes delivered. She can pull out the vacuum cleaner to suck up any dirt that comes in off her husband’s boots, and then sit back down on the couch to contemplate exactly how much money she’ll be able to squeeze out of her husband in divorce court. When her husband retires to his man cave in the garage, she can load the dishwasher, flop back on the couch again, pick up the telephone, and call her best friend. While she sips on a glass of chilled Pinot Grigio, she can yap about how much she feels like she’s enslaved, while she messages her ex-boyfriend on her smartphone.

For the record, it is true that Josephine Cochrane is credited with inventing the dishwasher, yet she was assisted by George Butters, a mechanic. Also, keep in mind that it is chiefly male truck drivers—doing a job that is statistically more dangerous than that of a police officer—who haul dishwashers to warehouses. It is primarily men who improved upon the original invention, who put them together on the assembly line, who deliver them to homes, and who repair them when they break. Men have worked their asses off to build a world where being a housewife is one of the easiest jobs a woman can do.

Many men spend their whole lives looking forward to retirement and daydreaming with their buddies about what they’ll do when they no longer have to work. Even though women live longer, in 2018 their retirement age is 63, while the pension age of men is 65. The average age of retirement for men was 66 in 2018. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's National Center for Health Statistics, the life expectancy of American men was 76.4 years in 2012 and 81.2 years for females. This means men typically “enjoy” 10 years of retirement before they die, and who knows how many will never realize their retirement dreams because years of job stress and a nagging bitch of a wife robbed them of their health.

It takes a pretty stupid creature to equate household chores with slavery while thinking that working a job is freedom, but feminists have somehow managed to convince women that is the case. With divorce settlements, alimony and child support in reach of any married woman—and feminists claiming that housewives are slaves—beta male husbands all over the world are now washing the dishes to keep themselves out of divorce court, while their wife’s vagina dries up at the sight of a weak, pathetic, broken man.

Reason #32 – Her Most Esteemed Advisor is a Television

While most people are familiar with the word misogyny—which is contempt for, or prejudice against women—few know the opposite term is “misandry.” Misandry is, of course, a dislike of, or prejudice against men.

Movies, television commercials, women’s magazines, and fiction books, are all peppered with misandry and feminism. Virtually all commercials that are intended to be humorous, and that feature a man and woman, will portray men as gullible, inept, slovenly, weak, immature or stupid. Men are often portrayed as objects to be laughed at, rather than respected. Television shows like The Simpsons and Family Guy are typical examples of the idiotic father. Tim in The Office is an idiot. Joey on the TV show Friends and Charlie in Two and a Half Men are sex-crazed buffoons. The exaggerated masculinity of Tim Taylor, played by comedian Tim Allen, in the sitcom Home Improvement, is intended to make manliness the butt of all jokes.

Take careful note of the trend in Hollywood movies wherein the hero does not rescue the damsel in distress but is often incapable of defeating the bag guys without her. Increasingly, male characters are kicked around like ragdolls by female assassins, superheroes and soldiers. In the movie Justice League, starring Ben Affleck as Batman and Gal Gadot as Wonder Woman, there is a scene where Wonder Woman gets upset at Batman’s comments. With her superhuman strength, Wonder Woman strikes Batman, because apparently, it’s okay for a woman to hit a male if she’s upset with him.

In the film industry, women aren’t just capable of doing anything a man can do, they can do it better. Even little boys are portrayed as vastly inferior in their abilities and conduct to little girls. In the HBO series Game of Thrones, Meera Reed is a warrior badass, but her brother Jojen is a pathetic weakling. In the very first episode of Game of Thrones, Arya Stark effortless hits a bulls-eye on an archery target after her brother Bran completely misses it like a pitiful twerp. Entertainment geared toward male audiences is no different. In The Punisher mini-series produced by Marvel Television for Netflix, take note that the hero and his assistant both have a daughter and son. Frank Castle’s son is the problem child, not his daughter, and the same is true for Micro’s son.

From every angle, women are programmed to believe that men are inferior to women. It is utterly foolish to think that such programming has no effect on the way wives treat their husbands. How can one expect to be respected as a capable father when dads are portrayed as incapable idiots?

In the area of romance novels and female-centered movies and television programs, infidelity is glorified, and divorce is normal. How can anyone expect to have a faithful wife when entertainment makes cheating out to be normal and exciting?

I encourage men to watch romance movies to get a sense of how women define romance. At the end of an action movie the guy gets the girl because he proved himself, and to men this makes sense: if you are the alpha male, you deserve the girl. Whereas in romance movies like Fifty Shades of Grey, Anastasia doesn’t have to do anything to catch the handsome billionaire Christian Grey. This is compounded by the fact that the actress Dakota Johnson is a 6.5 at best on a scale of 1 – 10. Thus the message to the female audience is that any mediocre woman has the chance to marry a hot young stud whose among the wealthiest men in the world. The Shape of Water is even worse, where Elisa Esposito shows us, that without her makeup, she’s a 4 on the beauty scale, yet she somehow manages to seduce a demi-god.

Browsing through the romance category of books shows that women hunger for men with chiseled bodies who are billionaires, famous football players, rich mobsters or wealthy nobles. Sure, there are male characters who don’t have a mountain of cash, but the message remains the same throughout all advertisements and entertainment targeted toward females: you deserve anything and everything you want because you have a vagina.

With books, movies, magazines, advertisements, and television shows elevating the value of a woman’s vagina to the heights of the stars, it is impossible to ever satisfy their delusional sense of self-worth. Contrast this with repeated reminders that men are idiots and you have a recipe for relationship disaster.

If you’re delusional enough to think you can prevent your woman from being brainwashed by nearly every form of entertainment she engages in, don’t get married. Your traditional marriage pipe-dream is likely to change because of such influences. Misandry is par for the course.

Reason #33 - She Isn’t Wife Material

There are tons of lists from average guys to relationship experts, advising on how to determine whether or not a woman is wife material. No one is perfect, but once you review even a few of the wife material requirements, most men will agree that the quality of women has sharply declined since feminism.

I mentioned to an old-timer that I find tattoos on a woman unattractive; his response was, “Back in my day, not even the whores had tattoos.” Another man made a case to me about how much women need men and said, “If these girls today had to go survive out in the woods they’d die. These girls can’t even sew two pieces of fabric together to make a tent.” His comment reminded me of The Island with Bear Grylls, a British reality television show wherein men and women who have no formal survival training are dropped onto a tropical island for a month to see how average people fair in a real survival scenario. The women notoriously do terribly without the aid of men. The message is quite clear: women need men for their survival, but men don’t need women.

In the household, it’s no different. Modern women often don’t bring any real traditional wife skills to the table. Married men have to work an average of 400 hours more each year than single men, but what are they getting out of it? If a man goes to work every day without fail to support his household, but his wife doesn’t have dinner ready every afternoon, doesn’t give him sex when he wants it, and he has to split the chores—on top of working more hours—then what’s the point of having a wife?

There’s more to it than the traditional wife skills of cooking and cleaning or providing a great sex life. To be a wife is to be a man’s assistant, companion, and friend. Husbands should receive praise and compliments from their wives and should celebrate his successes, for she will surely reap the benefits of his achievements.

As men should be the leaders of their house, a wife should have good followership. One characteristic of a good follower is that she will know her leader better than she knows herself, and be capable of anticipating his needs. A police officer friend of mine asked if it was really too much to ask his wife to give him a back rub, foot massage or a blowjob when he gets home each day from work. For many contemporary women, “yes” it is too much to ask. A wife should uplift her man, and ease the stress of his life. A good wife should be considerate, kind and thoughtful. She’s low maintenance but goes out of her way to make herself pretty for the pleasure of her husband.

One guy I knew told me that his wife went out to the library and got a stack of books on NASCAR so she could learn about her husband’s favorite sport. There were some severe issues in their relationship that excluded her from the “wife material” category, but taking the time to educate herself on her husband’s interests was a top-notch gesture most women today wouldn’t even think about.

I’m not a bible-thumper, but when a Christian friend of mine shared with me the Bible’s guide to finding a woman who is wife material, we both agreed that such women are all but extinct. The Bible speaks of a woman who is of noble character, wise, trustworthy and kind; she takes care of her house and is satisfied being at home, rather than always wanting to go out at night. The ideal wife is not wicked or scandalous, and would not harm anyone. Contrast this with data compiled by the Department of Health and Human Services in the UK showing that 70.6 percent of children who were abused by a parent between 2001 and 2006, were abused by their mother. The lack of the modern woman’s noble character is reflected throughout the multiple studies presented in this book. As for wisdom, women read books and magazines that are shallow and devoid of substance.

Wife material also extends into assessing how much of a slut a woman is, to estimate the likelihood that she’ll cheat. Since the Women’s Liberation Movement of the 1960s and 70s, women have gotten increasingly promiscuous. Today many women are tattooed, cigarette smoking, bubblegum-chewing harlots who drown themselves in alcohol, spend the best years of their youthful beauty riding the cock-carousel, and then complain that there’s a shortage of good men that are husband material. The truth is that good men are everywhere, but they’re just not interested in washed-up sluts who are over 30 and don’t have any wife skills to speak of.

According to the Pew Research Center, only half of Americans older than 18 were married in 2014. That means that since 1960—which was the dawn of Women’s Liberation—marriage has dropped 72 percent. Once again, we find that women have shot themselves in the foot.

Men are wising up to the gynocentric system that treats men less than second class citizens. It is not only that women don’t know how to be good wives, but the system has been reconstructed by feminism in such way that a man can’t put his foot down and maintain leadership of his household. On the off-chance that a man believes he’s found a real unicorn, there’s nothing to stop a wife from transforming into a sexually-frigid nagging banshee that refuses to do housework, belittles her husband in public, and consumes more calories than a full-grown elephant.

Chapter 6 - She’s in Control

“Marrying means to halve one’s rights and double one’s duties.” – Arthur Schopenhauer, 19th-century philosopher

Reason #34 – A Husband is a Woman’s Servant

The famous painting The Accolade by Edmund Leighton depicts a man bowing before a queen as she rests a sword on his shoulder to dub him a knight of her realm. As the knight swears his oath of service and fealty, the sword symbolizes the understanding that the queen possesses the power to have his head cut from his neck should he disregard his vows. Similarly, when a man proposes to a woman, he kneels before her in a position of submission, as he is symbolically offering her his eternal service and loyalty. The ring he offers symbolizes the ouroboros, or the snake eating its tail; it is the alpha and omega, a representation of eternity. The overall value of the ring represents a mere preview of the amount of resources the man is willing to provide his wife-to-be. Taking all this symbolism into account, the unspoken words of a marriage proposal are: I will serve you if you will serve me.

Proposing to a woman immediately lowers a man’s perceived alpha status as he is placing himself in an inferior position of supplication, and servitude symbolism, on the part of the man, is echoed throughout marital courtship.

Some believe that carrying the bride over the threshold is thought to have originated from a superstition that demons would follow her into her home if she walked in the first time. Others have said it is because tradition holds that a woman should modestly appear unwilling to give herself up to husband on their wedding night. Although the origins of picking the bride up and carrying her over the threshold have been variously argued, I find some Freudian symbolism in the practice. In his infancy, the groom was carried by his mother, but now he has the strength to care for a female. He can now be in service to the female, rather than she being in service to him. Regardless of how I see it, there are no symbolic acts in contemporary weddings of Western culture that place the bride in a position of service, apart from reciting her vows. But as we have already covered, vows are meaningless.

A woman does not place the blade of a sword to the neck of a man who proposes to her, nor in the wedding ceremony, but she doesn’t need to. In place of an instrument of death, the woman has been provided the threat of alimony, child support and a divorce settlement that will see his house given over to his ex-wife, his wealth plundered and other possessions granted to her. Should an ex-husband refuse to comply, a woman’s real husband (i.e., the government) will send men with firearms and handcuffs to force him to.

To marry a woman is to appoint her as your queen while removing your crown from your head.

Reason #35 - Marriage is Not a Partnership

The marriage contract forms a legal corporation with the state and creates a needlessly complex merger in which there are joint tax filings and joint bank accounts. It is essential to understand that a marriage is by a law a maritime corporation, but it is unlike any kind of business partnership.

If a man partners with his friend in a business venture he can later sell his share of the company and possibly make much more money than he initially invested. A man who wishes to dissolve a marriage does not gain money but takes a loss in the form of the money he spent on courting the woman, the engagement ring, wedding ceremony, honeymoon, the larger house his wife wanted, and countless other expenses. This is to say nothing of child support and alimony, nor of intangible losses such as missed opportunities with his friends, or having to spend time doing things for his wife’s enjoyment rather than his own. Understand then that taking on a wife represents a series of irrecoverable losses even if a man is lucky enough to never have to pay alimony or child support, and ends up retaining his and all his possessions upon divorce.

While Christians quote Ephesians 5:22 - 23, which reads, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the savior of the body,” it is vainly stated. Marriages no longer function as monarchies, in which the husband is effectively the king of his household. All Christians are monarchists in that they hope for the return of their messiah, who is foretold in Revelation to establish an absolute theocratic monarchy. The supreme authority of Jesus as the King of Kings is echoed in Ephesians in the relationship between a husband and wife. It is therefore contradictory for any Christian to quote Ephesians 5:22 - 23 and then call a marriage an equal partnership, and say that it requires compromise. Marriage, according to Ephesians, should function as a monarchy. Not even the queen has the right to veto the rulings of an absolute monarch, and to submit to one’s husband is to be in at least a secondary position, not one that is equal.

Outside of religion, the military provides the principle of Unity of Command, which states that no subordinate should report to more than one superior and that a single commander must have authority to direct all forces under his command. To abandon this hierarchal pillar is to open oneself up to internal conflict, chaos and the failure of the mission. So too then, are marriages almost certainly doomed to failure if neither the husband nor the wife has absolute authority on matters both trivial and important. While decision making can be divided up in a marriage, it can have unforeseen consequences that erupt into arguments and resentment.

Reason #36 – Your Opinions Mean Nothing

According to TheRedPins.com 2015 survey, 97% of respondents said that women get what they want in home purchases. After looking at a wide variety of other sources, the findings were similar in many different countries.

In terms of buying a home, where to go on a date, who does the housework, what color a room should be painted, how much time should be spent with friends, etc., a wife has become the decision maker in the marriage.

A study funded by the National Institute of Mental Health and Iowa State University, published in the April 2007 issue of The Journal of Counseling Psychology, concludes that wives are more demanding than ever, and more likely to get their way than their husbands. This was regardless of whether or not the so-called “man of the house” is the one who brought the issue up.

Despite how feminists continue to portray marriage as an institution of slavery, women exert incredible power in a marriage. With the instatement of no-fault divorce, beginning in California in 1970, marital rape laws in the mid-70s, alimony and child support, wives have absolutely no obligation to satisfy their husbands sexually or take his opinions seriously.

Reason #37 - You Will Be Tamed

A horse can carry more weight than a man, it can run up to 15 miles before requiring an extended period of rest, and can travel about 30 miles per day. A mounted soldier can push a sturdy warhorse to travel as much as 60 miles in a day.

A comparison between horses and husbands is apt, as men are on average stronger, faster, more resilient, more intelligent and more capable than women. Girls that are obsessed with horses are among the worst kinds of girls to date as they try to educate themselves in how to get a powerful beast to do their bidding. Horseback riding is almost exclusively a female sport, and girls make up the brunt of clients for horseback riding lessons. The way that girls interact with a horse—speaking to it softly, petting it and feeding it treats—is reflective of how a wife uses her feminine skills of manipulation to get her husband to do what he wants. A 2015 article written by Hannah Hickok at RedBookMag.com is unashamedly titled “6 Sneaky Ways to Train Your Husband,” and such guides are littered throughout other women’s magazines. Although there are gals with serious brains and business savvy, most women only have their looks and their vagina to get what they want.

Except in the case of gracefulness, such as in ballet, and the ability to carry a child in her womb, the truth is that men can do anything a woman can, and do it better. Men only need women for sex and reproduction, nothing more. If sex and the use of her womb are not enough, the only other things she can really offer are the fringe benefits of pleasant companionship, someone to cook, clean and care for the children. Her end goal is to convince the much more capable male to use his strength, mind, stamina and accumulated resources to her benefit. Since a man can easily have sex without getting married, it is critical to understand that women need you, you don’t need women—unless you want to have children. Women already stupidly devalued themselves with the sexual liberation movement brought on by feminism. As the saying goes, “Why buy the cow if the milk’s still free?” Once human beings achieve artificial womb technology, the value of women will be reduced even further.

Men have somewhat reduced their value as well, with the entrance of women into the workforce, as any woman is free to earn her own income and leave her parents’ nest without need of a husband. However, women loathe hard work and are less capable of it, so it is much more appealing to have a tamed animal working for them. Divorce settlements, alimony and child support furthermore allow a woman to gain the resources of the much more capable animal without having to do any more work at all.

Being tamed by a woman does not just mean being used, but can also be defined as domesticating a man and making him easier to control. A wife might use nagging or other forms of persuasion to influence her husband to dress more professionally, stop hanging out with buddies who are always in and out of jail or convince him to quit the rock band and instead spend his time learning new skills so he can get a better job. One guy I met happily said he was glad his wife didn’t tolerate his drinking because he felt he was a better person without alcohol. Perhaps some men might believe the influence of good woman can help them become the best version of themselves, but there is a severe problem with that line of thinking.

A wife doesn’t make a man a better person, he makes himself a better person; no one changes anyone, people decide for themselves to change. Real manhood requires an examination of oneself, accepting responsibility for one’s actions and condition, and taking the initiative to make appropriate changes. To rely on someone else to change you is not only to succumb to a fallacy of how inner-evolution is accomplished but to think that a woman is required for such change is to reduce one’s alpha status by holding onto a crutch offered by mommy.

Reason #38 - Compromising Means You Always Lose

When single men argue about how much marriage requires appeasing a woman, marriage advocates attempt to defend it by saying that marriage requires compromise. “Happy wife, happy life” is a favorite anecdote of beta males who have traded their alpha status for a marriage contract, or were never alpha males to begin with.

When you compromise you always lose. A man who gets married is agreeing to never get 100% of what he wants. As an example, if a man comprises by saying that he’ll do the dishes if he can watch an extra hour of sports, and in exchange, his wife will do the dishes next time and get to watch whatever she wants, he has accepted a loss. Had he never married the nagging cow, he could watch as much sports as he wants and do the dishes whenever he sees fit, or just hire a maid.

Comprising can be likened to checking account and ATM fees, with a savings account interest rate that hardly accounts for inflation. Like credit cards with terrible interest rates, the expense of using a greedy bank outweigh the convenience of its services, especially in light of other options.

If having a wife meant that a man would get sex on demand, a lifetime of eager blowjobs, dinner when he gets home from work, a clean house, and a woman who will try to maintain her appearance as close to the day her husband proposed to her, then compromising wouldn’t be a lose/lose situation.

The fact is, that just by getting married a man has already made an enormous compromise. In light of a man’s marriage vows, he has agreed to never have sex with any other woman, even when his wife’s beauty fades away. While his wife ages, he has agreed to pass up sleeping with beautiful young women and completely shut down any possibility of a relationship with a woman that is more suitable to his physical tastes and interests. A husband has vowed to financially support his wife, protect her and care for her when she’s sick. In consideration of the enormous burden and sexual restraints a married man has agreed to take on, he should not have to make any additional comprises, not even so much as washing a single dish in exchange for being allowed to go to poker night with his buddies.

Compromising is said to be a necessity in marriage because the vows and services provided to women by their husbands is grossly undervalued, while the choirs of a housewife and access to her vagina are monstrously overvalued.

Reason #39 - It’s Not You & Her Against the World

A painting of a happy couple embracing each other on a beach is only true-to-life if the woman in the illustration is just the man’s girlfriend, and they’re stranded on an island.

The reality is a wife’s parents, and friends will advise her on how her husband should treat her, how he should behave, and even suggest methods to manipulate him to get what she wants. The picture of a married couple happily in love is a farce, as it doesn’t include the influence of society, television programming, marital counselors, fiction writers, the books of self-appointed relationship experts, your wife’s new psychiatrist or even random strangers putting forth their opinion of what a marriage entails. Most importantly, it leaves out the view of the government and the courts on what it means to be a husband, father, mother or wife.

If you get married, it will not be “you and her against the world” but you against everyone else’s opinion of who you should be as a husband, and what your wife should and should not be willing to do. While a wife’s demands may be deemed unreasonable by her husband, it has very little meaning when her mother, psychiatrist, friends or favorite women’s talk show disagrees.

Chapter 7 - Your Money is Her Money

“It is an amazing thing to see in our city the wife of a shoemaker, or a butcher, or a porter dressed in silk with chains of gold at the throat, with pearls and rings of good value…and then in contrast to see her husband cutting the meat, all smeared with cow’s blood, poorly dressed…but whosoever considers this carefully will find it reasonable because it is necessary that the lady, even if low born and humble, be draped with such clothes for her natural excellence and dignity, and the man less adorned as if a slave, or a little ass, born to her service.” – Lucrezia Marinella, 16th-century feminist

Reason #40 - She’ll Spend Your Money Like Water

It is not just that women are more materialistic than men, or that marriage will dramatically increase your monthly expenditures, but a wife will spend your money like it grows on trees. The reason for this is simple: she didn’t work hard to earn the money. Whereas you might have had to do backbreaking labor or spend extra hours at the office, and therefore you are careful not to spend money on frivolous nonsense, she didn’t have to do anything for it. In fact, a wife feels she has a right to your money. The life experience of a beautiful woman amounts to men trampling all over themselves to gain her attention, and lining up to spend money on her. From her vantage point, that is what life is.

Males are typically raised to understand that the world is harsh and they need to be tough to overcome life’s challenges. Keep in mind that women were raised to rely on others for their care. One study found that parents will respond much more quickly to a baby girl crying than a baby boy. Although several psychologists and neurologists have warned against toughening up boys so early in life, parents tend to treat male infants differently than females. Parents want their boys to be strong enough to face the world, and do it alone if they have to, so they are not as quick to rush to the crib of a crying baby boy as they are for a girl.

Almost from birth, females are taught that other people exist to bend over backward for them. A beautiful girl doesn’t have to do anything at all to earn the service, adoration, and protection of men. Girls also learn that exaggerating their emotions is an easy way to get what they want. If a little girl is denied a toy, she’ll experiment with crying, screaming, pouting or even sweeten her voice and act extra nice. By high school age, girls have developed a whole battery of methods to persuade people to get what they want, and with hormones raging in male students, and their bodies taking shape, it becomes even easier.

Imagine a father who, after a night of trick-or-treating, places the majority of the Halloween candy up in the highest cupboard above the refrigerator. If a boy wants access to the candy jar, he’ll have to devise a plan to sneak into the kitchen and construct himself some means of climbing up to get it. His other option is to ask his father for more treats, but that will likely result in flat-out denial, or being told to do chores. Thus the boy learns the lesson that you either can’t always get what you want or that great rewards are reaped for hard work. A man’s daughter is more likely to receive extra candy just by pouting, crying, or the skillful use of her voice. Again, girls learn the lesson that people exist for their pleasure.

With the debit card of the couple’s shared bank account in hand, a wife can ring up bags full of clothes, shoes, makeup, trinkets and assorted retail crap without a second a thought.

Reason #41 - Less Money for Your Hobbies

In all the expenditures that marriage requires, it inevitably means you’ll have less money to spend on things you enjoy. Since alimony, child support, sleeping on the couch, or the threat of your wife cheating on you looms over your head, it becomes easy for her to coerce you into spending your money on whatever she wants. Your fishing gear, golf clubs, firearm collection, high-end gaming computer or sports memorabilia are all going to take a back seat to your wife’s hair, makeup, shoes, clothes and never-ending home decorations. You’ll have to have to pass up a great deal on front-row tickets at the basketball game because she wants new curtains to match the new living room paint job or because she needs help paying off her credit cards.

Terrence Popp from Redonkulas.com points out in his video “The Cost to Be the Boss,” precisely what it takes to live well as a single man versus living well if you’re married. After thoroughly researching average costs to have dental, medical, a decent car, place to live, food, money for vacation and holiday gifts, Terrence determined that a single man needs a minimum salary of $23,204. To live well if you’re married requires a minimum salary of $74,942. Keep in mind that Terrence was throwing out averages and minimums. Living well in Los Angeles or New York is going to be much more expensive than San Antonio, Texas. The point is that sustaining a nice lifestyle as a married man is three times more costly than remaining single, which is why married men have to work longer and harder than single guys.

Getting married is a great way to reduce the amount of money you’ll have to do things you enjoy.

Reason #42 – You Will Have to Work Harder

A wife’s lifestyle demands and spending habits invariably mean that her husband must work harder than when he was single or dating. A report by the American Enterprise Institute (AEI) and Institute for Family Studies titled “For Richer, For Poorer: How Family Structures Economic Success in America” reveals that married men work an average of 400 hours more than single men with similar job experience. The reason for husbands having to work so hard is simple: having a wife is expensive.

In 2015 an article in The Washington Post tried to entice men into marriage with the headline “Don’t be a bachelor: Why married men work harder, smarter and make more money.” The author of the article, William Bradford Wilcox, mentions a Harvard study that found that married men are much less likely to quit their job before lining up a new one, than single men. He also noted that married men make more money than their single counterparts. What Wilcox conveniently fails to point out is that married men have to work harder because of the spending habits of their wives, increased holiday expenses, increased utility, and grocery bills. Not to mention credit card debt and a mortgage payment on a large house they wouldn’t have needed if they had just remained single.

A single man can work as much or as little as he wants, and is free to change his place of employment or even take extended time away from work. A husband doesn’t have such a luxury and must keep grinding away unless he can find another job with equal or better pay. Most married men will not be allowed to take a few months off of work to finish writing a novel, nor have the liberty to switch to part-time hours so they can try their hand at opening a business. A single man can quit his job whenever he wants to and use some of his savings to travel around the world, or he can cut back his hours and choose to live a frugal minimalist lifestyle. Married men have to work harder when they don’t want to because a wife is a financial burden.

The practice of a wife bringing a dowry into the marriage is an indication that it has been known throughout the centuries that women are a liability, not an asset. In the days before women entered the workforce en masse, there were few options for a young lady to earn a living, and thus she would be a strain on her parent’s budget. To help sweeten the deal, a bride would bring property or money to her husband on their wedding day that she usually had acquired from her father. Women also used to accumulate linen, clothing, and other items useful for a married life in a hope chest, but that practice has all but ceased in favor of family and friends giving gifts on the wedding day.

If you don’t want to work harder, just to support someone else’s existence, don’t get married.

Reason #43 – Women Love to Shop…With Your Money

In 2009, The Harvard Business Review reported that women worldwide represented $20 trillion in annual consumer spending, which is the entire gross domestic product of the United States in 2017. Women’s spending worldwide is quadruple the 2018 GDP of Japan, and “represents a growth market bigger than China and India combined,” according to the article titled “The Female Economy” published in The Harvard Business Review. A 2014 report from Simple Relevance, an email marketing firm, states that women either make or influence the purchasing decision in 85% of all retail transactions. Women buy a lot of retail crap.

On May 25, 2012, TakePart.com reported that the Puente Hills landfill in Los Angeles was taking in 12,000 tons of garbage daily and sat at an astounding 3.7 million tons of trash. The reality is that 70 – 80% of the retail garbage found in a landfill is the product of women’s spending habits. It’s funny how many women can be seen in photographs of environmentalist protests considering the appalling size of their collective waste footprint upon the Earth.

Daniel Kruger, an evolutionary psychologist at the University of Michigan, told ABC News in the 2009 article “Why Women Love to Shop,” that it could be due to hunter-gatherer evolution. Kruger theorizes that men evolved to have a “get in, get out” approach because they often hunted their food, but since women gathered their food and spent time examining it, they adapted to enjoying a leisurely time searching for the best deal. Kruger might be on to something, but in terms of a marriage, a wife enjoys shopping more than her husband because she didn’t have to bust her ass to earn the money.

It’s not easy for a man to part with his money, not just because he worked hard for it, but also because he’s too tired to waste time methodically scanning through each aisle of retail crap. Moreover, men make purchases according to what the product or service can do, and assess its utility and durability, while women are more likely to buy something because of how it will make them feel. Do you want your finances to be directed by logic or some woman’s emotions?

Chapter 8 - The Married Lifestyle

“By the age of twelve at the latest, most women have decided to become prostitutes. Or, to put it another way they have planned a future for themselves which consists of choosing a man and letting him do all the work.” – Esther Vilar, author of The Manipulated Man

Reason #44 - Dates You Don’t Want To Go On

Whereas when we hang out with the boys, we are satisfied with each other’s company no matter the surroundings, women demand to be entertained and treated to the best experience that your wallet can afford. When male friends meet at the bar or café, go fishing together, or take a road trip, they needn’t even say much to each other to enjoy one another’s company. Women need constant reassurance of the value of their vagina. To this end, a seedy dive-bar, or floating around in an old fishing canoe, won’t do.

A woman’s requirement for validation that she is still beautiful and desirable demands that she is seen—that she catches the attention of males other than her husband. The expenditure of the date provides creditability to whatever price she puts on her vagina. Whereas a man can validate his self-worth by the respect he receives from other men, a woman only validates her worth by the number of men who thirst after her, the amount of money spent on her, and the number of women who envy her. This translates to a husband having to spend his time and money taking his wife to places that he does not necessarily enjoy, and funding how she will appear in front of others. A wife’s dress, jewelry, and makeup have absolutely nothing to do with her husband but are only a means of advertising to the world the minimum appraisal of her stinky-pinky.

After waiting an hour or two for a woman to get ready, a man will say, “You look beautiful.” Such compliments are not celebrated as an indication that her husband will be satisfied but are a reassurance that other men, and women, will validate that she is a prize. Naturally, a woman’s inherent psychological need to be validated by others requires that she will want her husband to take her places where she will be seen. Romance for a man can be laying under the stars in the middle of the woods, but for a woman, it is typically going to some socialite event where the eyes of others will be on her. Whereas a man might envision walking with his bikini-clad lady down a beach while a gentle breeze blows through her sarong, her vision is likely to take place on the beaches of Hawaii, France or some other exotic place—so she can boast to her girlfriends about where her husband took her. A woman’s romance is then in the validation of her beauty, by way of how much money was spent on her.

Reason #45 - Celebrate Holidays on Her Terms

I don’t celebrate any holidays apart from buying a few loved ones gifts on Christmas or the occasional birthday present. Women live for holidays so they must be factored in as an extra expense of your money and time.

Married men have to deal with Valentine’s Day, their wife’s birthday and their wedding anniversary. They’ll need to endure in-laws on Thanksgiving, Christmas or Hanukkah, and perhaps suffer through an Independence Day barbecue at her annoying brother’s house. The gift-giving season will no longer mean a few affordable but thoughtful items for mom and a few loved ones, as wives expect a husband who earns an average wage to spend at least a few hundred dollars on their gift alone. This is to say nothing of food, beverages, decorations, travel and lodging expenses. You can always spot the homes of married couples during the holidays because they’re adorned with the most decorations.

It is also worth mentioning that a married man will be dragged into a wide variety of family functions and minor celebrations. A wife comes with a whole set of nieces, nephews, brothers, sisters, and other in-laws, to say nothing of friends’ families. A married man without kids will soon realize there’s no shortage of baptisms, kids birthday parties, bar mitzvahs, soccer games, weddings, dinner parties and other functions he’ll be expected to attend and throw money at if necessary. To not do so means he’ll find himself sleeping on the couch, or getting an earful from his bloated nagging bitch of a wife for the next week—and he can bet money she’ll bring up his rude absentee behavior every time he wants to do something of his choosing.

Reason #46 – A Husband’s Work is Never Done

Married men on average work more hours than single men, so a husband’s day off is something to be savored. The problem is that a wife can introduce a never-ending list of chores and errands for her pack-mule of a husband to do.

The presence of a man in the house means that a woman can accomplish a lot of things she would not otherwise be able to do, due to her lack of strength or knowledge. Moving all the furniture in and out of the living room so you can paint it the color of her choice might be on her “ Honey Do List” for your next day off. After she buys a bed more suitable to her tastes, maybe you’ll need to haul your old mattress and bed frame down the stairs. When the headboard slips out of your hands and knocks a hole in the wall, you’ll be fixing that too, and while you’re at it, you might as well fix the creaky stairs and stain the banister to match the dining room table. If you could run down to the home improvement store and buy ten 50 pound bags of topsoil, and then haul them to the backyard so your wife can start an organic vegetable garden—even though she doesn’t hardly ever cook—that would be great too. Don’t expect a blowjob afterward, and you probably won’t get a back massage either.

Ex-wives and ex-girlfriends somehow seem to dictate the free-time of the men they abandoned. A truck driver told me that almost all his fellow over-the-road truck drivers were guys paying child support or alimony. They had often chosen the career because a semi-truck that’s built for traveling all over the United States comes with a sleeper berth in the cab of the tractor. It’s an affordable way to have a roof over their head instead of a house or apartment they can’t afford due to payments to an ex-wife or ex-girlfriend. Truckers work up to 70 hours per week keeping the economy moving, and while they are granted 48 hours of federally mandated downtime, their days off are often spent at a truckstop or a Wal-Mart parking lot.

If you get married, you can basically kiss your days-off goodbye.

Reason #47 – TV Shows & Movies You Have No Interest In

A wife’s tastes in entertainment can be drastically different than her husband’s. A girlfriend might put up with your taste in war movies, gangster flicks, but a wife has no reason to. Expect to be dragged to the cinema to watch whatever romantic trash Hollywood has pumped out this week. If you’re not willing to be emasculated as you step into the theater for A Walk to Remember or Beauty and the Beast, not to worry; your wife will have taken over the living room and your prized 80-inch television screen and $2000 sound system you put together for sporting events. You’ll be regulated to watching your favorite shows on your 17-inch laptop on an old couch in the basement.

As a bachelor, I don’t have to spend a single minute watching anything I have no interest in. I don’t have to subject myself to hearing poorly written romantic dialog from the latest pseudo-alpha male character blaring from the next room while my wife and her fat ass friends pass around a tub of cookie-dough ice cream.

Reason #48 - Women Want to Control Your Time

A wife will want her husband spending his time with her or doing something that benefits her. The mommy dynamic resurfaces here because a wife will want to know what you’re doing at all times. How many times have you heard a married man say that he has to check in with his wife, or call her to let her know when he’s coming home? This is exactly what little boys have to do to keep their mother’s happy. The comparison of wives to mothers is apt, as a study by Tamas Bereczkei at the University of Pécs in Hungary discovered that men end up marrying women that have a bone structure that resembles their mother.

Men want sex from women, but women want the resources and services of men. Divorced women often claim that their ex-husbands didn’t serve their emotional needs. The translation is that out of the 24 hours each man is given in a day, not enough hours were spent trying to make the woman happy.

Reason #49 – Dealing With In-laws

Whereas a man has no obligation to spend time with a girlfriend’s in-laws, it is expected that he does so if he is foolish enough to marry her. It is not just a matter of dealing with in-laws that are an annoyance but also having to deal with their meddling into your marriage and the possibility of giving some of them financial assistance. You might need to shell out money to help your sister-in-law, or to bail your wife’s idiot brother out of jail. Even things as small as purchasing candy or cookies from a niece or nephew for a school fundraising project should be factored in. You might also have to babysit for your in-laws or attend school plays or sporting events that you have no interest in. Keep in mind that these are not children that you raised, and with an increasingly liberal approach to parenting, you could find yourself stuck with a pack of brats running amuck in your house for the next five hours while your sister-in-law goes on a date with another jobless loser.

You may somehow weasel your way out of funding your sister-in-law’s relationship, but your wife might throw a fit if you don’t let her and her idiot husband stay in your basement for a few months until he finds new employment. A father-in-law might need you to help paint his house, while next week your brother-in-law pulls his rusty truck into your driveway because he knows you know a thing or two about fixing vehicles.

Getting married opens up a whole new group of people that you just might not want to deal with.

Reason #50 - Her Friends

The names of a woman’s relatives should be written all over her wedding dress alongside her friends as a reminder that they’re part of the whole package. A husband will be forced to deal with his wife’s friends even if he moves far away from them.

Women love yapping on the telephone, and the internet opens up a whole new means of staying in communication and making a never-ending assortment of new friends through social networking websites. You can pick your friends, but you can’t pick your wife’s friends. The influence of a woman’s friends will always hang over the head of your marriage, and if you live in proximity to them, your wife will want to spend time with them.

Influence does not have to mean something overtly negative, such as her best friend running you down behind your back, or enticing your wife with stories about how nice it is to be riding some other man’s cock while her husband is away at work. A woman’s friends can sway her buying decisions, and create feelings of resentment and envy as they share stories of how much money the men in their lives are willing to spend on them. Friends can have an impact of your wife’s diet, appearance, vices, spending habits, politics, the location she wants to live, and they’ll weigh in on how they think you should be behaving as a husband.

Your wife’s guy friends are the worst, as any male friend of hers will sleep with her given a chance, and perhaps the right amount of alcohol. Again, with ready access to a whole host of social networking websites, there’s plenty of guys she can “make friends with” and monkey branch around. A survey of 1,000 women by OnePoll.com in 2014 found that 50 percent of women have a “Plan B” backup plan in the form of man they know, should they found themselves unhappy with their current relationship. A wife is more likely to have a backup suitor than a girlfriend, and her chosen Plan B is usually someone she has known for around seven years. As noted in an article citing the poll at DailyMail.co.uk on September 25, 2014, “With sites like Facebook and Twitter, it's easier than ever to stay in touch with an old flame.”

I can only imagine how many women are telling their husbands “I love you” or “I love you with all my heart,” and yet are keeping another man’s phone number handy just in case things don’t work out.

Reason #51 - Her Pets & Your Pets

Another unforeseen potential restriction upon a married man’s life may be the kind of pets he can have, or the pets he must tolerate. An unwanted pet can represent extra expenses you don’t want. A single dog or cat can cost around $1000 for the first year, and an additional $500 for every year thereafter.

Maybe your wife wants an annoying parakeet, or a couple of ferrets running amuck in the house, or perhaps you do, but she doesn’t. Comedian Dane Cook jokes that every guy wants a monkey. Marriage limits the freedom to have such exotic pets, as well as common domesticated animals, but all pets are an additional expense. They can also become a source of resentment. Are you annoyed by your wife’s pets? Does she treat the dog or cat better than you? Does your wife think you pay more attention to the dog than you give to her?

In the book Leader of the Pack: How a Single Dad of Five Led His Kids, His Business and Himself from Disaster to Success by Matt Sweetwood, the author shares a story about his family dog Max. Matt got roped into marrying his girlfriend Charlotte after she announced she was pregnant—which was also after she claimed that the doctors said she couldn’t get pregnant. Matt got a dog to complete the picture of marriage normalcy. As the months of his wife’s pregnancy ticked by, Matt noticed she got colder toward him and the dog. On the day he brought his newborn daughter home, he said Charlotte barged into the house, kicked the dog and retreated to the baby’s room. A woman who loves your pets one day may not tomorrow.

Reason #52 – You Will Never Have Peace of Mind

If there’s one thing that marriage is guaranteed to do, it will destroy your peace of mind. I sense this plays into why married guys get less sleep than bachelors. The questions that will float around in your mind are endless.

If your wife shows any indication that she’s unhappy, but doesn’t tell you—keeping in mind that women loathe speaking truthfully—you’ll be wondering what you did to upset her. Did you say something wrong? Is she happy enough?

When she takes a phone call, you’ll wonder who she’s talking to. Is she talking to that idiot friend of hers, or is she talking to her mother, who blames her failed marriage on your father-in-law?

After reading about a celebrity divorce settlement in some Hollywood gossip magazine, has she done the math on how much she can extort from you in divorce court?

Exactly who is she texting on all the time?

When you went with her to buy her a new cellphone, didn’t it seem like she lit up a little too much as the handsome salesmen walked her through all the service plan options?

If you can’t spend enough money on her birthday present as her friend’s husband spent on his wife’s present, is she really going to be happy?

She’s been packing on a lot of pounds lately, so does this mean you’re going to be stuck with a woman who’s intent on becoming her own landmass?

If a mountain lion jumps out of a tree while you’re hiking, will you be able to protect her?

If you don’t close the deal on this big account, how dissatisfied will she be if you have to scale back your vacation plans?

Did she catch you glancing at the young barmaid’s delicious titties, and are you going to have to hear about it tonight if she did? How much has she had to drink tonight anyway?

Does she regret marrying you after seeing how great her ex-boyfriend is doing at the high school reunion?

Is she really okay with you spending a weekend at your buddy’s hunting cabin to console him while he’s going through a divorce?

If you didn’t marry her, what would your life be like? Who could you have become? How many of your dreams could you have materialized?

…and who is it that she keeps texting all the time?

Chapter 9 - Cutting Your Balls Off

“We’re a generation of men raised by women. I’m wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.” – Tyler Durden, a character from the book Fight Club by Chuck Palahniuk

Reason #53 – Say Goodbye to Your Dream Car

One easy way to tell if a guy is married, or if he has kids and is paying child support, is the kind of car he’s driving. Most married men can no longer afford the car they really want to drive, and instead, opt for a cheaper model, or just keep driving the same old rag-trapper until the engine falls out. Even if you can afford a fully-loaded luxury pickup truck or sedan, or badass sports car that’s guaranteed to turn heads, there are steep obstacles and severe penalties to pay if you make the purchase.

Since women are petty creatures more obsessed with appearances than men are, she’ll also be requesting a new car that’s comparable to yours. After all, she needs to flaunt to her friends and neighbors how much her husband spent on her so she can validate the price of her vagina. If you can’t afford your dream car—because of legitimate bills, or her irrational spending habits—she’ll be sure to remind you. Meanwhile, you’ll be wondering why you’re still making payments on the $3000 treadmill her fat ass stopped using a week after she ordered it.

Your dream car is never going to divorce you. It is never going to cheat on you, prevent you from spending your free-time how you want to spend it, or hit you up for child support while telling your kids what a deadbeat you are.

Reason #54 - Firearms & Motorcycles

Some very few women enjoy going out to the shooting range, riding on the back of their man’s motorcycle or doing other activities that are traditionally masculine, or might otherwise be viewed as dangerous.

Getting married increases a woman’s desire to feel safe and secure, as her husband is perceived as her safety net. Having children, or merely getting pregnant, compounds a wife’s need to be reassured that she is in a stable and safe environment. A woman’s desire for security and stability translates to a disagreeable attitude when it comes to various manly activities. To take on a wife may mean that a man may have to forgo participating or investing in things which his wife deems dangerous or of no value to her needs.

A random news report on a terrible motorcycle accident can give way to a wife demanding her husband sell his prized bike, and the same can be said for a speedboat, dune-buggy or other unconventional vehicles. Once she views the receipts, a man’s firearm collection, or the joy of amassing more tools, will take a back seat to his wife’s need for designer clothes, home decorations, new furniture, an exotic vacation, or some useless trash that caught her eye on a home shopping television show.

Reason #55 – “Will you please stop leaving the toilet seat up!”

It may sound silly, but I quite enjoy that I can skip a shower, leave the place a complete mess, let the dishes pile up for days, or fart up the whole house if I want to. I can drink right out the of the milk jug, have the same meal delivered to my place five days in a row, or chain-smoke two packs of cigarettes in my bedroom while I get sauced on booze. I can play video games all day or watch the entire Die Hard film franchise in one sitting. I can make my bed or leave it a complete mess while I sit around in my underwear with my feet kicked up on the coffee table, trying to see if I can burp loud enough to wake the neighbors. I’m not saying I do any of this stuff, but the point that I’m making is that I have the freedom to do as I please in and out of my own home.

If you don’t get married, you’ll never have anyone nag you that you need to stop leaving the toilet seat up, or threatening to throw your clothes away if you don’t stop leaving them in a heap on the floor. Heck, my friend’s toilet bowl hasn’t been cleaned in so long it looks like you still need to flush it, even after you’ve already flushed it.

Reason #56 - Your Vices

She might tolerate your love of cigars or pipe tobacco now but that can all change.

When Melissa moved in with me and brought in some of her furniture and decorations, I reluctantly agreed that I would no longer smoke in my house. Plenty of guys choose not to smoke in their home, but as the king of their castle, it’s their choice to have a smoke free environment. Cohabiting with a woman can change that, and control over the household is never equal. This is especially the case since women have spent their childhood playing house, and believe themselves to be rightfully in control of the home—despite however much they object to the traditional duties of a housewife. Ken Roberts, who made his fortune trading and teaching people how to trade commodities, said in one book that he had a separate house built on his property so he could enjoy smoking cigars without hearing his wife complain about the odor.

To be fair, the positive aspect of a woman putting her foot down against smoking, gambling, drinking, or other vices, is that it can be good for your health and your wallet. In my beta male days, I once told an alpha male friend that I liked the idea of a good woman who would help keep me in line and control my spending. He was shocked at my vaginal comment and retorted, “We are not those kind of men. If we have a weakness, we do not seek a crutch from a woman or anyone else. We look within ourselves, and we change it.” I scolded myself for being so weak, for I had read the works of Anthony Robbins, Napolean Hill, Robert Greene, and many others, but failed to apply what they were teaching.

If you have an addiction that you recognize impedes you from being the best version of yourself that you can be, it’s up to you to take steps to change it or seek professional help. It is not up to a mommy that comes in the form of a wife. If, on the other hand, you don’t see your vices as harmful, or believe the tradeoff is worth it, marriage gambles your chances of being able to enjoy what you like, when, where and how much you like.

Reason #57 – Marriage Takes the Fun Out of Nightlife

Going to a dance club with your buddies, or taking a girlfriend or a wife, are three very different experiences.

As a single man, the dance club is a buffet of gorgeous girls shaking their ass, trying to attract the attention of alpha males. The presence of a girlfriend shuts down the opportunity to thoroughly enjoy the eye-candy, but it’s a joy to see a girlfriend dress up for the night, and if the relationship is fresh you’ll still find some electricity between you. Bringing a woman to a dance club, however, also comes with having to watch over her, and fending off any would-be suitors. You’ve basically just stepped into a mating competition where the men have dressed their best, inflate their chests or show off their muscles in the hopes of proving that it is they who deserve vagina access.

A friend of mine said that he hated going to the dance club with his girlfriend because it meant that he had to deflect an onslaught of flirtatious attempts by other men to sleep with his girlfriend. Add alcohol to a gathering that includes 200 – 800 males trying to assert their dominance and impress females, and now you have to play bodyguard in the event that some drunken hooligans start exchanging blows too close to your gal. If someone insults you in front of your lady, you’re forced with the difficult decision of ignoring it like a weakling, or trying your best to pummel the guy, so you don’t lose face.

If you don’t like to dance, your choice is to let her pull you to the dance floor—where you’ll shuffle around like a half-retarded ape—or you can sit on the sidelines keeping an eye out for the next guy who's going to cop a feel or rub his pecker against your girl’s silky ass.

If your wife has one too many drinks, you’ll have the added bonus of playing babysitter to a drunk, and while it might ignite the bed sheets, it could also mean she’ll be going off on a drunken tirade that uncorks all her criticisms of you that she’s collected over the past few years.

Finally, in light of the almost inevitable weight-gain that marriage brings, as proven by numerous studies, husbands have to keep their eyes off of all the pert breasts of scantily clad young ladies while their fat-ass aging wives shimmy up to the bar for another overpriced cosmopolitan.

Reason #58 - Having to Hide Guys’ Night Out

Adam White of the University of Bedfordshire in Britain assisted in a study to find out how much men valued close heterosexual relationships with other men compared to having a girlfriend. Their survey discovered that men found their friendships much more fulfilling than tolerating a girlfriend. White told Joseph Brean from The National Post, “What happens in 50 years, say, if these bromantic relationships really take off and men decide, ‘Hang on, we really enjoy these. These are much better. We can gain more emotionality from it. We’re less regulated, we’re less policed, and therefore women actually just become the sexual fulfillers of men and nothing else. That’s the worrying aspect.”

I think I just figured out the true identity of the comic book superhero Captain Save-a-Hoe.

White is worried that men will realize that if they don’t succumb to the trap of long-term relationships with women—because men know they’re just going to be “regulated” and “policed”—we’ll only value women for what’s between their legs. In other words, White is concerned that men will actually wake up!

Apparently, it’s a bad thing if men realize they’ve been suckered into giving up their freedoms for vagina access when they can easily have sex with women without sacrificing any of their freedom.

The fact is, heterosexual men prefer the company of other men over women. In fact, men can enjoy the company of a best friend without hardly saying a word, whereas girls like to talk and talk, require fistfuls of our money, and make all sorts of incessant demands. A guy can sit quietly in a fishing boat with his buddy, or hardly exchange a word as they watch Tiger Woods dominate the golf course, and have the time of his life for the price of a few beers.

Upon getting married a man automatically decreases the chance to spend quality time with friends. A wife inevitably places restrictions on how often her husband can go to poker night, Monday night football, and what he’ll be doing some fishing and hunting season. Strip clubs are almost always out the question, and you can forget about planning a men’s only trip to Las Vegas, Thailand or the Philippines. The amount of time a guy can spend at the Freemasonic lodge, Elks’ lodge, or other fraternity can also be restricted by a wife.

As a single man, I can hang out with the boys as often as I want.

Reason #59 – Say Goodbye to Eye-Candy…and Candy & Bambi’s Sweet Young Ass

One of the great things about going out to the bar, coffee shop, beach, or any number of public places, is that you can enjoy the scenery of beautiful women. A married man can still scope out the ladies, but only when he’s not with his wife—unless he wants to risk stealing a glance when she isn’t looking.

I often take walks to a local restaurant, barbershop or grocery store because they’re so close to where I live. I’ll usually spot at least a couple of hot girls in the few short blocks that I walk. Even the girl that cuts my hair is a hot-piece, but if I had a wife who found out where I get my hair cut, I’d likely have to deal with her jealousy—and for what? Why would I want to voluntarily limit how much enjoyment I get from eye-candy? As a single man, I’m not just a window shopper either; I can try my hand at seducing any girl I see. The married man can look but isn’t supposed to touch, so he’s willing turned himself into a cock-tease.

Reason #60 – The Boys are NOT Back in Town

A study conducted by Bella dePaulo at the University of California at Santa Barbara found that single people have more fulfilling social lives than married couples. After dePaulo reviewed 814 studies, she determined that staying single meant a greater connection to family and friends. Marriage often results in an insular lifestyle.

Not much more needs to be said here. Women want to dominate your time, and a wife inevitably decreases the amount of quality time you can spend with friends and family. A wife will also attempt to remove any friends from your life that she feels might pull you away from the direction she wants you to go in life. Moreover, women are jealous creatures who feel alive by emotional interactions, so to step in the door laughing and smiling after hanging out with the guys, is just another reason for a woman to lash out in envy.

Reason #61 – She Wants Brand New Everything

There is truth in the old joke that men are content to wear underwear that has holes in it. Men are more likely to appreciate the function of things, whereas women value the appearance of things. Women also concern themselves with whether or not what they own elicits a response of praise or envy in others.

When a man foolishly spends money, it is often to prove his alpha status to draw the attention of females or to garner the respect of other men. We also blow money on our hobbies and addictions, if we have any. However, we are still more likely to reuse, repair or recycle. For instance, a man can be satisfied with a leather jacket that’s a bit worn or a pair of boots that have taken a beating because it makes him look rugged and tough, but a woman wants her clothes and shoes to be new and pristine. Most women don’t even know how to sew anymore, so a dress that’s coming apart at the seams or a missing button on a blouse will soon be chucked in the trash.

While a man is content to drive a used car, because he’s confident he can fix any problems, has a buddy whose a grease-monkey, or knows an affordable shop, a woman wants a new car. She not only wants a new vehicle so she can actualize the value of her vagina and flaunt how much her husband spent on her, but also because women want safety and reliability. A man will purchase a fixer-upper house because it’s dirt cheap, and he knows he can fix it, or have his friends help out for the low price of a case of beer. A woman wants a new and spacious house in the best neighborhood her husband can afford because it’s a matter of status, a feeling of security, and, once again, demonstrating the value of her vagina.

I’ve known plenty of men who admit that their wrist watch is broken or they haven’t bothered to replace the battery, including myself, because we understand it still retains its function. The purpose of a nice watch is merely to display status, and make the man look like a refined and successful gentleman of good taste; therefore, who cares if it stops working? Besides, if you really need to know the time you can look on your cellphone or simply ask somebody.

While the status artifacts of men are usually few in number, women want to adorn themselves in expensive jewelry. The book The Millionaire Next Door by Cotter Smith and Dr. Thomas J. Stanley speaks to the true purchase habits of the rich, and it is no mistake why men form the majority of the affluent. Most millionaires drive used cars, wear inexpensive suits, live in middle-class and upper-middle-class neighborhoods, and if they drink, they don’t reach for expensive wine or high-priced scotch. After I read The Millionaire Next Door and had a few high-end suit salesmen affirm that most people can’t tell whether or not a suit was an expensive designer brand or not, I never purchased a $1,000 suit ever again. Again, it is a matter of function: if a well-tailored suit at a discount men’s clothing store can do the job of a name brand suit, what’s the point of blowing the money? Women do not see it this way, and instead reach for name brands and fantasize about wearing the most expensive clothing money can buy.

If you don’t want to throw practical spending right out the window, don’t get married.

Reason #62 – No One Respects a Pussy-Whipped Man

Guys who let their woman drive the car while they sit in the passenger seat should really know how pussified they look. Perhaps it’s more honest for a married man to let his wife drive, because after all, in today’s society the husband is not at the wheel of the marriage.

When a friend or acquaintance announces his engagement to a woman, the wiser among us immediately think, “This guy’s a damn fool.” Some men can remember the specific instance in their youth when they realized their mother treating them like a fragile little boy affected how other boys saw him. When little boys challenge each other to a dangerously steep downhill bicycle ride, or jumping the cemetery fence to take a shortcut at night, the boy who responds, “My mother would get mad if she found out,” loses status in the male pecking order. It is no different when a grown man says he has to check in with his wife, or cut-short his time with the guys because some woman—whose lifestyle he supports with his hard work—will be upset if he doesn’t get home. Nobody really says anything, but we men see it all the time: broken men whose wives sapped the life out of them.

Allowing a female to dominate or control your life is called “simping” or being a simp. Probably the greatest expert on simping behavior is Darius, a US Navy Veteran who created a YouTube channel called MGTOW Knowledge to educate men on how to stop being simps and manginas. Before taking the metaphorical “red pill” that woke him up to the power that women can exert on a man’s life through her real husband, the government, Darius admits he was one of the biggest simps of all time. In one video, Darius shares a story of how he was dating a woman who always wanted to know where he was. It was so bad, he said, that he would take a picture of himself with the location he was at clearly in the background. So imagine Darius, a grown man whose pumping iron at the gym, but asking his buddy to stand in a picture with him so he can prove to some woman that he’s not out cheating on her.

Getting married means losing your dignity—you become a simp.

Chapter 10 - It’s Not Your Castle

“Instead of getting married again, I’m going to find a woman I don’t like and give her a house.” — Lewis Grizzard, 20-century American writer and humorist

Reason #63 – Buying a House You Don’t Need

According to the US Census Bureau’s “2015 Characteristics of New Housing” report, the average size of a house has increased by 1,000 square feet since 1973 to an average of 2,687 square feet. Interestingly, the number of household occupants declined from 3.01 persons in 1973 to 2.54 persons in 2015. The birthrate in the United States has plummeted from 3.65 in 1960 to a mere 1.84 in 2015 and is continuing to drop like a rock. A birthrate below 2 means replacement levels are not being reached, and the population is shrinking. The curious thing is that homes have gotten bigger and more expensive, yet the number of household occupants has decreased, and women are having fewer children.

An article published by Bloomberg on January 31, 2017, says it all in the title, “Why Single Women Are Buying Homes at Twice the Rate of Single Men.” The author notes that only 7 percent of homes are purchased by single men, while single women make up 17 percent of home buyers, and married couples make up most of the rest. A 2017 article by Inc. magazine entitled “Data Shows Millennial Women Are Dominating the Current Job Market” notes that women are getting higher paying jobs than men, so home purchases by single women make sense. All this data also reveals that single men either cannot afford to purchase a home or aren’t interested in being homeowners.

With the brunt of home purchases being made by single women and married couples, it goes without saying that marrying a woman will mean having to purchase a house. As any real estate agent will tell you, and redundant polls show, women are the chief decision makers when a couple goes to buy a home. Marriage means buying a house that you didn’t need if you remained single, that was picked out by your wife, and that will most likely be given to her—along with many of your other belongings that you paid for—whenever she decides to divorce your sorry ass.

According to RCLCO (formerly known as Robert Charles Lesser & Co.), the average size of apartments built between 2000 – 2009 was 988 square feet, and decreased in size to 917 square feet between 2010 – 2016. Contrast this with an average house size of 2,687 square feet, and you’ll realize that getting married virtually requires a space three times the size of what a single man needs. So while fewer people are getting married, and apartments are shrinking, women are demanding larger and more expensive homes.

Getting married is a great way to spend your money buying a house that you don’t need, can’t afford and that you didn’t even pick out.

Reason #64 – Moving to 2432 Mangina Lane

Since men are more independent, they are less likely to have qualms about moving away from friends and family to their dream location. Men who are intent on saving money for a business venture, or other purposes, can also be satisfied living in an affordable home in a rough neighborhood. Despite the stigma of living in a trailer park, if finances or savings goals require it, a man is more often willing to suck-it-up and live below his means than a woman.

Men are long-term thinkers whereas women look at what will satisfy them immediately. Women also have a greater need for safety, social interaction, and stability, and must validate the value of their vagina to others. Due to her comfort in consistency and social needs, a wife is less likely to condone moving away from her friends and family than a man. Whereas a man will just sleep with a pistol in his nightstand drawer and get a concealed carry weapons permit, a woman needs to feel safe so she’ll want to live in a neighborhood that has a low crime rate. Because she must advertise to the world that her yeast-factory is prize-worthy, a wife will also want to live in the most expensive neighborhood her husband can afford.

A single man can live on a boat, travel around in an RV, move off-grid to a cabin in the woods, or even take a year to hitchhike around the country sleeping wherever he decides to lay his head. There are indeed some women who are okay with living in a 35-foot boat or an RV, and there’s a small handful who’ll run off with a mountain man to live in the woods, but marriage significantly decreases your options for where and how you’ll live.

Reason #65 - Your House Becomes Her House

When men think about getting married, they inevitably envision the kind of home they’ll share with their wife. Unless a man already lives in a sizeable house, he’s likely to picture eventually moving into a larger home with his wife. He might daydream about kicking his feet up in a spacious living room, with his sexy wife serving dinner right at the coffee table so they can cuddle up, enjoy a meal together and watch the latest action flick with Gerald Butler, Denzel Washington or Mel Gibson.

Having provided his wife a dream home, and a kitchen that would make Chef Ramsey blush, it’s only natural to think that somewhere in the midst of watching the movie, his deliciously hot wife will reach over to start massaging his groin. Before he closes eyes, as he tilts his head back—and she tries to swallow all of his manhood—he can envision how the expansive living room is decorated to his liking. His great grandfather’s old rifle from the war hangs above the fireplace, the colors in the room are manly and subdued, and the art and furniture speak to his good taste.

After a good hour or two of sex, he imagines he’ll fall asleep and wake up to his beautiful wife sound asleep in her silky negligée, or maybe she’ll rouse him with a morning blowjob and breakfast in bed. Yes indeed, he thinks, “This is my castle, and I am the master of my domain.”

The problem with this picture is that it amounts to pure fantasy. When a man purchases a home, he is genuinely buying it for his wife—not for him, or the both of them—it is bought for her. A married man is quickly resigned to spend his days in a space allotted by his wife. Usually, this is the basement, garage or a shed in the backyard. This is where the term “man-cave” comes in, for whatever place his wife decides he is free to decorate as he pleases, it is likely to be a single room much colder and darker than the rest of the house. While a stark difference in the actual lighting and temperature may exist between the rest of the home and the man-cave, it is cold and dark insofar as its separation from the warm light and love he thought he secured when he married his wife.

When I was a child, while the boys were throwing snowballs and making snowmen on the playground, the girls would make crude outlines of the floor plan of a house in the snow. Even if a married woman never had a dollhouse as a little girl, she certainly fantasized about how she would decorate her home. The colors, smells, decorations, and furniture were always picked out by her in her mind.

A married man does not rule over his castle but works to provide his wife whatever palace she desires, just as the sweat of his labor exists to expand her freedom to decorate the place as she sees fit. Any seasoned real estate agent will tell you that 70-80% of home purchase decisions are made by the wife; if the woman likes the home, the man will buy it. It is her home, not yours. This is further proven to be the case in the fact that divorce settlements often end in the ex-wife keeping the house which the man purchased with his hard-earned money.

If you do not want to be in the business of buying homes for women, do not get married.

Reason #66 – Your Clubhouse is a Shack

When I was a boy, my friends and brothers would build tree houses or even dig large holes and cover them with wood to create an underground hideout. In adulthood, having our own space to shoot the breeze with our buddies and just be men can take the form of a few comfy seats in the garage and a kegerator (i.e., a refrigerator that holds a keg of beer). We might envision a basement with a pool table, dart board and a foosball table, or a loft over a four-car garage that’s made to look and function like a speakeasy of the 1920s. Tech-savvy gamers might dream of a game room outfitted with a half-dozen PCs, or two aircraft or race car simulators, along with a wall of classic arcade games and pinball machines. Canadian Dungeons & Dragons aficionado, Robert Wardhaugh, has been running a table-top role-playing game for over 30 years with his buddies. Even guys that aren’t into pen-and-paper games are likely to get jealous over his sprawling setup.

The fact is that getting married reduces the amount of space, money and time one can allot to a private clubhouse. Women tie-the-knot to secure a man’s time and resources. Long gone are the days when men were truly the kings of their own castle. A wife might argue that her husband is spending too much money on his man-cave, or deny him the space altogether. Instead of creating the clubhouse of their dreams, many men are reduced to sipping beers with their buddies out by the toolshed just out of earshot of their wives. Sailors and fishermen have had to abandon the idea of hanging out with their best buds on their dream yacht for a tiny fishing boat with hardly any room to move.

If you don’t want to see your dream of the ultimate hangout going up in flames, do not get married.

Chapter 11 - Cheating

“The fundamental defect of the female character is a lack of a sense of justice. This originates first and foremost in their want of rationality and capacity for reflection but it is strengthened by the fact that, as the weaker sex, they are driven to rely not on force but on cunning: hence their instinctive subtlety and their ineradicable tendency to tell lies: for as nature has equipped the lion with claws and teeth, the elephant with tusks, the wild boar with fangs, the bull with horns and the cuttlefish with ink, so it has equipped woman with the power of dissimulation as her means of attack and defense, and has transformed into this gift all the strength it has bestowed on man in the form of physical strength and the power of reasoning.” – from Arthur Schopenhauer’s essay “On Women” (c.1865)

Reason #67 – Hypergamy

Colloquially referred to as “marrying up,” hypergamy is the practice of marrying someone of a higher caste or social status. Women are hypergamous by nature, as it is their biological imperative to seek out the best male specimen they can find, and use his resources to create the lifestyle they desire for themselves and their offspring. Men are more likely to engage in hypogamy—which is the reverse of hypergamy—as our instinct is to plant our seed into as many women as possible, regardless of whether or not we consciously want children. For men, our unconscious biological imperative has us valuing a woman’s womb, and a healthy attractive body fit for giving birth to a healthy child.

In a paper on evolutionary anthropology entitled “Women’s Mating Strategies,” written by Elizabeth Cashdan at the Department of Anthropology at the University of Utah, she states, “Females in a wide variety of species (insects, birds, mammals) prefer males with resources, and the same is true for humans.” Cashdan reduces women’s selection of mates to three factors: attractiveness, resources, and status.

Women ultimately value a healthy and symmetrical appearance because an attractive man is likely to be a better provider and have genetic traits that can be passed on to her offspring. Attractiveness relates to one’s ability to provide resources to a woman insofar as it can be an indication of a man’s ability to stand up against harsh environmental conditions, disease, parasites, and the strength and stamina to work harder and longer. A man’s resources indicate the degree to which he can ensure a woman’s survival and that of her offspring. A man’s overall status is indicative of what his offspring might inherit, and the ease of life his children and their mother will enjoy. A woman who is with a man who others regard as powerful also has the added benefit of not having to deal with a constant barrage of lowly men, with fewer resources, flirting with her—because they dread disrespecting her husband.

Because women are hypergamous creatures, a reduction in a man’s social status or resources can quickly see his wife monkey-branching with the intent of marrying up and out of what has become to her an undesirable condition. A woman clings to a man like a monkey holds onto a branch, but like a tree that starts to sway too much in the wind, she will branch off to other men if they offer a sturdier environment or a bigger meal ticket. Having a wife means that a man must always be aware that the woman who supposedly loves him will swing to another tree if she believes it’s more promising, and she thinks she can get away with it.

Robert Stephen Briffault, a social anthropologist of the early 20th century, expanded on women’s hypergamy by codifying what is known as Briffault's Law. The principle, published in the first volume of The Mothers, states:

“The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”

Dr. Briffault expanded on this law with three undergirding principles.

1. “Even though a woman has accrued past benefits from her relationship with a man, this is no guarantee of her continuing the relationship with him.”

This is quite simply to say, that no matter how well a man treats his wife, nor how much money he spends on her, there is no assurance she won’t at some point file for divorce. Guys delude themselves into believing that since they spent money on a sparkly rock, take their wife on exciting dates, bought her the car and the house she wanted, they have strengthened the relationship. According to Dr. Briffault, women do not look back upon all the previous things a man has done for them to determine the value of a relationship. No amount of money can ensure the loyalty of a wife.

2. “If a woman promises a man to continue her relationship with him in the future in exchange for a benefit received from him today, her promise becomes null and void as soon as the benefit is rendered.”

To fully grasp this, imagine that a woman is threatening to leave her husband because she’s tired of living in his small house in a neighborhood she doesn’t like. The man promises he’ll rectify the situation. She promises not to leave him if he can deliver on his promise to buy her the home she been dreaming of; the one that’s just a stones-throw away from his annoying mother-in-law. Though her husband delivers on his promise, it would be foolish of him to ask why she’s filing for divorce two months after he purchased the house. He will say, “Didn’t I purchase the house you wanted,” because he doesn’t understand that his wife does not see the home as a long-term benefit, but one that has already come and gone. Technically, in her tiny little mind, she held up her end of the bargain. She called off the divorce because he purchased the home, but she’s come up with a different reason to divorce him. Furthermore, she’ll get to take over ownership of the house in the divorce settlement anyway.

3. “A man’s promise of a future benefit has limited ability to secure a continuing relationship with a woman, and his promise carries weight with her only to the extent that the woman’s wait for the benefit is short and to the extent that she trusts him to keep his promise.”

If a husband draws up a detailed picture charting his expected financial growth over the next five years, promising that he’ll be able to provide a better lifestyle for his wife, he doesn’t realize that women are not creatures of long-term thinking but immediate gratification. After all, why would a woman wait and gamble on her husband becoming wealthier when she can seize his current earnings through alimony and monkey-branch to exploit a man who is much more successful than her soon-to-be ex-husband?

Marrying a woman does not magically call a ceasefire to all other male competition because women are hypergamous by nature. She is always going to be looking for an opportunity to monkey-branch and acquire more resources from a superior provider-male or spread her legs for genetic material in the ballsack of another alpha male.

Reason #68 - She’ll Cheat on You

I’ve caught several girlfriends cheating on me or about to cheat. The girls always try to make it seem like they’ve been the victim of unethical surveillance. Meanwhile, white nights and other beta male cuckolds, who haven’t the first clue about women and know nothing of the details of my relationships, will make spurious judgments that I must have deserved to be cheated on. Other equally delusion men might argue that I just chose the wrong gal—believing there is some magical checklist that significantly decreases the chance of dating or marrying a cheater. The real lunkheads might think that a woman cheated because her boyfriend or husband didn’t have a big enough John Thomas, or didn’t pound her Weiner Wagon hard enough with his Bone Ranger.

The theories of why women cheat are endless, but ultimately they do so because females are hypergamous, and they are also driven by emotions; a woman can be after the emotional exhilaration of the act itself or the emotional high from the drama of getting revenge.

In the time of my father and his father before him, there were much fewer opportunities for women to cheat, but with social media and dating apps accessible on every smartphone carried in a woman’s purse, girls have an endless supply of men to sleep around with. For this reason alone, most women have ridden the cock-carousel before they tied-the-knot, and can quickly jump right back onto Rumpleforeskin’s merry-go-round anytime the mood strikes them.

According to a research document by Dr. Lawrence B. Finer titled “Trends in Premarital Sex in the United States, 1954–2003,” the number of women who are still virgins on their wedding day is roughly 3%. The pretty girl-next-door, that you’ve been sizing up to see if she’s marriage material, has likely been riding so much Chad-cock that her vagina looks like a heap of roast beef.

Dr. Charles E. Corry from the National Coalition For Men researched the subject of how many men are taking care of children that they have been duped into believing are their biological offspring. He found some sickening facts. Dr. Corry noted in 2004 that approximately 300,000 paternity tests are done in the United States for the purposes of including or excluding a male as the biological father of a child. Out of these tests, about one in three prove that the man is not the father of the child. Dr. Corry estimates that each year roughly 90,000 men have been wrongly accused of fathering a child. It also means that with about 4 million children born in the United States each year, there are 1.2 million men that are victims of paternity fraud. By such estimates, there are 21 million men at this very moment who are financially enslaved in a marriage, or through child support, to take care of a child that is not biologically their own. For the record, 32.9 billion dollars was owed in child support for the year 2014, yet how many billions of dollars have cheating women profited—and child support agencies themselves—for suckering men into paying for children that are not their biological offspring?

The General Social Survey of 2010 to 2016 conducted by The Institute for Family Studies claims that 20% of men cheat on their spouse but only 11% of women. In light of Dr. Corry’s research concerning paternity fraud, there seems to be some shenanigans going on with the findings of the General Social Survey. The study did note, however, that the number of unfaithful women is increasing.

In her book State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity, Esther Perel concludes from her research that the number of women who cheat on their husbands has risen by 40% since 1990. According to Buss and Shackelford’s 1997 paper “Susceptibility to Inﬁdelity in the First Year of Marriage,” they showed that numerous studies place the likelihood that a woman will cheat on her spouse between 20 – 50%.

In the article “Why Women May Be Bigger Cheaters Than Men?” published at The Huffington Post on December 6, 2016, Ashley Papa from Fox News was asked why more women are unfaithful today. Ashley responded, “Part of the reason is access. Women are in the workplace more than ever before. So they have access to men who might be interesting and available to them. And the Internet and social media has made cheating so much easier to do. Cheating is basically just a click away now.”

When women defend cheating or relationship experts try to answer what motivates wives to cheat, a whole laundry list of goofy reasons are presented. When I caught Crystal cheating on me, I was purchasing a house, making more money than most men in my age bracket, and I would take her on dates, treat her like gold and even bought her a new wardrobe. After discovering that she was nothing but an unscrupulous whore, I finally cracked open her diary only to read that she had been obsessed with a guy who she admitted was a complete asshole who treated her as little more than a receptacle for his semen. All the while she was telling me she loved me, she was making entries in her diary about some verbally abusive prick she was obsessed with.

After I found out Melody had cheated on me—and called her out on it, by showing her a photograph of her guy friend with his hands all over her—she cried and talked about how much of a mistake it was. She said that she regretted having sex with him, and described how fat and repulsive he had become, and how he huffed, wheezed and sweated like a wild boar when he was on top of her. I decided to forgive Melody, because in those days I was a typical beta male simp; however, I did install software on her computer that recorded all of her keystrokes. Sure enough, she had kept in contact with Brett. When I called her on it a second time, she had the gall to tell me how Brett said that snooping on her was immoral. The same garbage came out of Crystal’s mouth when I caught her. It never fails to amaze me how a woman who is caught red-handed, believes she can retain her innocence by shaming someone else, or having some emotional outburst, just like a child.

At the time I caught Bethany cheating I was working at a marketing firm and had received two promotions in the record span of four months. Even though Bethany was a little chunky, I treated her like a beautiful princess, only to have her go out with her feminist friends to bang other men. After leaving her while she was out with her mother, my best mate called me when he was at work, and said Bethany had barged into his house and was begging his girlfriend to tell her my whereabouts because she desperately wanted me back. She ended up blowing up the phone at my work so badly that the girl at the front desk had to sternly tell her to stop calling.

Don’t be the fool who believes his wife won’t cheat on him. The best way to avoid ever having to deal with the heartbreak of a cheating whore of a wife is not to get married—and that’s real peace of mind.

Reason #69 - Women Do Not Love You

Men are the true romantics as we have been created by God, or evolved by nature, to fall in love with women.

In the absence of artificial womb technology, women have been necessary for the species to carry on. When a man steps up to defend a woman against a predatory animal or another man, or when he allows her to get off a sinking ship first, his actions are intended to protect the existence of the species. Men do these things regardless of whether they understand the real purpose of their chivalrous impulses or not. If men did not so easily fall in love with women, or at least have the instinct to protect females—that they aren’t even interested in—human beings would have died off long ago. Women being weaker, slower, possessing less endurance and intelligence demands men who are programmed to love them and keep them out of harm’s way for the sake of their precious wombs.

On the other hand, a woman’s biological imperative is to find and breed with the best male she is capable of sleeping with to strengthen the species. In the animal kingdom, we observe that females will breed with whichever male is victorious in a battle of alpha status. Nature cannot have females refusing to reproduce with the best genetic stock they can find, and thus they cannot have any attachment to any particular male. A woman’s version of love cannot be so rigid as to prevent her from passing up the sperm of a man who she intuits has far more alpha characteristics than whatever man she’s been saying “I love you” to for the past few years.

Her other mission in life is to secure a mate who will protect and provide for her. Since women are unable or unwilling to amass the kind of resources a man can, it is essential for her to capture the attention of a male who can provide her with the resources she needs for her survival and happiness, and that of her offspring. Women do not get married because they’re in love, but because marriage is an insurance policy. Men are little more than lifeboats on the ship of life.

Men are romantic about relationships, but women are pragmatic. A woman loves what a man can provide for her, but a man loves the woman. Men generally do not care how poor a woman is, but only that she is attractive and treats us with respect. The movie Pretty Woman, wherein a rich man falls in love with a prostitute and spends gobs of cash on her, is the classic example of how men fall in love with the person, but women fall in love with a man’s bank account.

To love someone with all your heart is to be willing to sacrifice for them, and men will sacrifice their time, their money, and their lives, in the service of the most impoverished woman. Women will sacrifice their marriage on the altar of divorce if their husband’s earnings no longer satisfy them, if a wealthier man takes an interest in them, or if they realize alimony and a divorce settlement are a better way to extract his resources.

Despite how many women devoir shelves of romance novels, or the number of romance movies geared toward a female audience, men are the true romantics. After looking at a stack of studies on which gender is more romantic, Dr. Gwendolyn Seidman in her article “Who's Really More Romantic, Men or Women?,” published at Psychology Today, said matter-of-factly“…no study to date has shown women to be more romantic [than men].”

Reason #70 – Dealing With Her Jealousy

Hasse Walum of the Karolinska Institute in Sweden led a study of over 3,000 people to determine whether men or women are more jealous. Consistent with previous research, Walum found that women are more jealous than men. My view is that women are more likely to show signs of jealousy, or erupt in a fit of jealous anger because they are dependent upon the resources of the male. A woman’s failure to control a man by keeping him emotionally and sexually tied to her spells danger, as he might end up running off to provide his resources to another female.

A woman who is married long enough to receive a sizable divorce settlement, ownership of the house her husband paid for, and monthly alimony payments, need not worry if her husband becomes infatuated with another woman. A woman who gets pregnant possesses a degree of financial security even quicker, as it only takes nine months till the birth of the child to receive child support payments, but can take five years or more to acquire long-term alimony. Despite a woman having numerous safety nets provided by her real husband, the government, her survival instinct is to be more jealous than a male and to act on those emotions to ensure the stability of her existence.

A woman’s jealousy often appears irrational to men, and especially to those of us who pride ourselves on loyalty. The oddity is that a man can throw himself into his wife’s service, shower her with compliments, waste his money on her, and tell her repeatedly that he loves her, but it will not quell her jealousy. When you discover that a girlfriend or wife has been sifting through your text messages, or interrogating you to find out every little detail about how you spent your day, she is operating on instinct to make sure the fruits of your labor will still be hers for the foreseeable future. Another factor is that women know how easy it is for them to get away with cheating on their husbands, and as such, their own guilt can project onto their spouse. In my experience, girlfriends who cheated on me often became more jealous and interested in knowing exactly how I spent my time, and with whom.

When Crystal playfully asked, “Do you want to know what my email password is,” I knew something was amiss. I responded that I didn’t care, but she insisted that I guess, acting like it was a childish game. Finally, she told me her password, and knowing that this was her idiotic way of trying to get me to divulge my own email password—without her appearing that she wanted to police me—I freely told it to her. Within a day she had scoured my emails in a desperate attempt to find any signs that I was cheating on her. She found nothing, yet brought up some woman’s name who was merely a client of mine and tried to spin it that I might be involved with her beyond a professional relationship. Naturally, I became suspicious of Crystal, picked the lock on the tiny safe she hid under our bed, read her diary and tapped my own phone line with a recording device that would activate whenever the phone was picked up. It goes without saying that I discovered the jealous whore was cheating on me, all the while I was serving as her beta male simp who blew money on her and confessed his undying love to her.

In the friendship between two heterosexual men, envy and jealousy serve to encourage one another to excel and become better men. When a buddy pulls up in his dream car, though we might be jealous of his achievement, we do not get angry or resentful, nor feel the need to nit-pick into his bank statements to make sure everything was on the up and up. A best friend who starts to spend more time with another guy does not evoke the kind of irrational jealousy so common in women. If anything, we might find ourselves having an inner-reflection on how we can be a more enjoyable friend to hang around. Maybe we should take a little more interest in our best mate’s hobby if hanging out with him really means that much to us? If our best friend’s new pal is a bad influence, we might show real concern and express our concerns to him, but he’s a man after all, and he’ll have to make his own decisions.

On the other hand, if a married man spends too much time with a guy like me—who knows that marriage is a shell game—it becomes an immediate threat to the woman’s ability to control her husband and ensure access to his resources. A woman isn’t jealous because your buddy Rick drives his $80,000 sports car too fast while you’re riding shotgun, it’s because your wife doesn’t want you to see how awesome being single can really be. A married man’s financial priority is his wife, not his own dreams, and interests. When your wife complains that every time you and the other couples get together for a barbecue, your buddy Jefferson always brings some ditzy girl who doesn’t even have enough brain cells to talk about the weather, it’s not because she can’t stand their banal conversation. It’s because he’s demonstrating that a man can enjoy a wide variety of beautiful young women well into his 50s and beyond, without having to put up with an aging old nag whose ass now requires a “Wide Load” sign.

Reason #71 – Who Does She Keep Texting?

A wise man once said that if you marry a pretty girl, you’ll never sleep at night. By that, he didn’t mean that you’ll be so turned on by her all the time that your sleep hours will be consumed with sex—because married women don’t put out as much as girlfriends and random sluts do anyway. What is meant by that, is that you’ll lay around at night wondering if she’s been fucking someone else.

Since I’m not goofy enough to get married—and I change my girlfriends out as often as I change the oil in my truck—my thoughts are never preoccupied with whether or not some gal is cheating on me. These women are disposable to me, just as divorce rates, and 80% of divorces being initiated by women, prove that men are disposable to women.

But who am I kidding? As of late, I’ve opted for prostitutes because it virtually nullifies the chance of false domestic violence or false rape allegations, or some woman claiming I got her pregnant. Unlike girlfriends, with call girls I don’t have to deal with drama, nagging, clinginess, or any of the assorted nonsense, nor do I risk becoming so attached that I start wondering who the girl might be texting.

A married man has to concern himself with cheating for two reasons: first, because he’s in love with the woman, and he’s deluded himself into believing she loves him; second, if his wife cheats on him, there’s absolutely nothing he can do about it. A married man who discovers that his wife has been deep-throating his best friend’s pecker every Monday morning for the past three months, has absolutely no legal recourse. You can barge in on your wife getting pounded by a guy who's hung like a bull, and she can flat-out say that she plans to take you for everything you’re worth, scream at you to get out of the house—that you paid for—and she’ll still succeed in getting everything she wants in divorce court. By the time alimony and child support payments are determined, and the judge has ruled that your house is now her house, she’ll have convinced everyone that you were a terrible husband.

On the other hand, if you cheat on her, it will only provide her more justification to take you for everything you’ve got. With tears in her eyes, she’ll convince her friends what a monster you are, and might even cry in your buddy’s lap, rubbing her cheek against his beef thermometer, with the intention of screwing him for revenge. If she has any brains at all she might even fabricate a story that you were physically abusive or even a sexual predator, so she can get full custody of the kids, along with your house, your boat, and motorcycle—in addition to alimony and child support.

If you don’t get married, you’ll never have to battle your own jealousy, and that’s real peace of mind.

Reason #72 – Ovulation

Ovulation not only heavily determines when a woman is most desirous of sex, but also the kind of male characteristics she’s attracted to.

Rollo Tomassi, the author of The Rational Male: Positive Masculinity, points out that when a woman is ovulating, she will be most attracted to men that express strong testosterone-based features. A square jaw, deep voice, pronounced V-shaped body, broad shoulders, and musculature, are just some visual and auditory cues that a man has a desirable level of testosterone. In terms of ideal personality traits and interaction with her, she is looking for a dominant male that displays confidence and assertiveness.

During this period of high fertility, she is looking for a short-term breeding opportunity. In other words, she isn’t looking for a guy who is interested in becoming her boyfriend or husband; she’s not interested in identifying a provider-male who will give her some of his resources, but an alpha male who will provide her with his valuable genetic material in the form of his semen.

When I asked a truck driver how he faired with the ladies, he divulged a strategy that echoes Rollo Tomassi’s findings. He said that when he was 1 – 3 days away from delivering a load to a city, and knew he would have plenty of downtime, he would message 10 or 12 of the hottest girls he could find on a popular dating website. He advised that one should never give any indication that you are boyfriend or husband material. He wouldn’t talk about his earnings, owning his own home, or anything that would indicate that he was a stable protector and provider, who was willing to bend the knee in service to a woman. Instead, he would repeatedly use the word “chill,” saying things like, “We should get together and chill,” or, “I’m thinking we could just go find a cool spot and chill.” He used the word “chill” in place of the words “have sex.” Since women ovulate for 12 – 48 hours, and he would message as many as a dozen women, by the time he arrived at a semi-truck dock to deliver his load, the odds are that one of the girls would want him to deliver the genetic alpha load that he was carrying around in his ballsack.

A study by the University of California Los Angeles, led by Dr. Martie Haselton, sought to determine whether or not ovulation affected a woman’s fashion sense. The study found that a panel of judges could pick out the exact day a woman was ovulating 83% of the time by guessing on which day, in a timeline of photographs, she was trying to appear the most attractive.

Males are not only subconsciously aware of when women are most fertile, as studies have shown that men will tip ovulating strippers more generously than others, but women strive to make men aware of their window of fertility by the way they speak, walk and dance. Geoffrey Miller, an associate professor of psychology at the University of New Mexico found that strippers who were menstruating earned almost twice as much money from men than dancers who weren’t. In 2007, Bernhard Fink of the University of Göttingen in Germany found that when his test group of 48 women danced for a panel of 200 men, the girls that were ovulating were picked as dancing the most provocatively. Scientists had formerly believed that women evolved to conceal their window of fertility to promote monogamy, but researchers have redundantly proven that girls go into heat just like house cats who cry out for the attention of males. In 2004, researchers at the University of Vienna took saliva samples from 351 women and digitally analyzed photographs of them at a nightclub. The girls who showed the most skin had higher levels of estradiol, a female hormone that is elevated when a woman is ovulating.

The fact is that men find women more attractive in their window of fertility, they will give them more attention, and women are more likely to cheat during this phase. David Buss, Elizabeth Pillsworth and Martie Haselton, followed the monthly pattern of women’s sexual desire for someone other than their mate. As stated in the article “That Ex-Lover Who Keeps Popping Up in Your Dreams” published in Psychology Today on Jan 26, 2011, “These researchers found that the women who were in longer relationships had an increase in desire for someone other than their mate as they approached ovulation.”

When a woman is ovulating, she’s looking for alpha male semen, but her interests do a 180° turn once her fertility window closes. Apart from the short period of ovulation, the majority of the time a woman is attracted to the idea of catching the attention of a male who will give her his resources. If she’s secured a long-term provider, such as a husband, she subconsciously intuits that she is in a stable enough environment to give birth to the offspring of the best alpha male she can find—and that may not be her husband. This is consistent with the findings from the University of Vienna’s study of women at nightclubs. The women who showed the most skin and danced the most provocatively—digitally measured by software that analyzes movement—weren’t just the ones who were ovulating. The girls who were trying to get the most male attention were not only ovulating but also stated that they were in a committed long-term relationship.

Every month a married man has to face the reality that his wife’s biological imperative, driven by the hormones of ovulation, will ignite her desire to seek out the best alpha male she can find. It may be a hard pill to swallow, but there will always be a man who has superior alpha characteristics than you do, at least in one particular area. I have redundantly stated throughout, marrying a woman can reduce a man’s perceived alpha status in the eyes of his wife in any number of ways.

It doesn’t make sense to swear an oath of sexual monogamy to a creature that is triggered by biological programming, every few weeks, to search for sexual opportunities with other men.

Reason #73 – You Can’t Stop Girls’ Night Out

When women go out at night together, there is only one reason: to be gawked at and perhaps fondled by men. This is again about her need to validate her self-worth, which comes down to whatever price she places on her sperm-Jacuzzi. Girls’ Night Out is also an opportunity to encounter a male who has more alpha characteristics than the man she is with. The alpha status of a man automatically decreases from the moment he proposes to a woman and then plummets to “beta male provider” upon getting married.

The biological imperative of a woman is to reproduce with the greatest alpha male she is capable of sleeping with, but also to create a safe and secure nest that will ensure her survival and that of the alpha male’s offspring. A married woman already possesses the latter part of this equation, as her beta male husband has provided her with a nest to raise children, and will ensure she is well fed and protected during her pregnancy.

A marriage contract utterly nullifies a man’s power, so his wife is free to go out with her friends to hunt for the semen of an alpha male, or at least receive the emotional and sexual excitement of being ogled and fondled by other men.

If you get married and deny your wife Girls’ Night Out, expect her to scream that you’re not the boss of her, say that you’re too controlling, and then walk out the door dressed like a whore so she can go get pounded by some other man’s Mr. Potato Head.

Reason #74 - Every Alpha Male Becomes a Threat

Men are naturally competitive, and more so in the presence of women. When an attractive woman is around a group of men, each will try to send her signals that he is an alpha male. Some men might choose not to enter into the unspoken competition because they are loyal to another woman, they are a beta male, or they are conscious of the stupidity of the ritual and don’t want to be bothered.

Since a man turns himself into a beta male by the very act of signing a marriage contract, nearly all other men who possess alpha characteristics become a threat. Even a married man’s friends become strong candidates for men that his wife might sleep with if she decides that she can get away with cheating on him.

In my old circle of friends, I never saw myself as the leader of the pack. Despite thinking that women found many of my friends more attractive than me, I’ve had the opportunity to sleep with almost all of my friends’ wives or girlfriends.

Soon after Stewart married his trophy wife Margaret, she was flirting with me at the dance club. Stewart was a hard-charging salesman extraordinaire who was climbing the corporate ladder like a boss and always exuded confidence. Despite this, his wife made it clear she was in heat and her eyes were on me for the night. Margaret later got a job at a restaurant and confided in my girlfriend that she didn’t know how she was going to contain herself because one of her coworkers was an old flame. Everyone thought Stewart and Marg’s marriage was picturesque, but my cheating-whore-of-a-girlfriend laughed and scolded me for buying into that foolishness.

When my buddy David was out of town, and his girlfriend called me to come take a look at her car, I obliged. I don’t like entering a place when the man of the house isn’t home, but this was before the age of smartphones, and I needed to look something up on the internet. I poked around on her computer for the make and model, and the parts I needed while she took a morning shower. She came out of the shower in a bra and see-through panties, jumped in lap, wiggled her ass around trying to get my purple-headed warrior to stand-at-attention, and asked me if I thought David would like her new underwear. I kept my hands to myself and completely ignored her. 

Given women’s hypergamous nature and biological drive to reproduce with the best alpha males they can find, your wife might just pivot over to your best friend.

Reason #75 - Your Options are Nullified

There’s one way to ensure that you’ll have to cheat or pass up the opportunity to spend time with a woman who is much more compatible and attractive to you than any woman you’ve ever met, and that’s to get married.

Since the frequency of sex and blowjobs decreases over time in a marriage, married men are virtually guaranteed to either cheat or resign themselves to a life of sexual misery, tied to a nagging aging fat-ass heifer who no longer takes an interest in her husband’s pursuits. Just as men who are serious about sobriety aren’t going to be found in bars, men who pride themselves on their honesty and proudly say that their word is their bond should reconsider any thoughts of marriage. Due to the vow to sleep with only one woman for the rest of your life, getting married is a great way to turn an honest man into a liar, or increase a life of sexual frustration.

To defend human beings maintaining monogamous relationships, some people argue that 3% of mammals are classified as monogamous, and 90% of birds. The problem is that there is a difference between sexual monogamy and social monogamy. Additionally, monogamous relations are separated into serial monogamy and long-term monogamy. There are virtually no animals that practice long-term monogamy, and those who are serial monogamists—maintaining a relationship until their offspring are old enough to fend for themselves—are not sexually monogamous.

With the advent of DNA tests, hidden cameras and tracking devices, scientists have discovered that supposedly sexually monogamous female animals often sneak off to copulate with many different males. The Dunnock, a small bird, found in Europe and Asia, was once thought to practice sexual exclusivity, but upon closer observation ornithologists realized that the female Dunnock would sneak off to have sex with dozens of mates unbeknownst to her partner. If her partner suspected her of infidelity, he would peck near her vagina to encourage her to expel the semen of other males. Paternity tests have since proven that bird fathers who help feed their partner’s hatchlings are often taking care of another male bird’s offspring. In fact, a nest of six eggs can have six different fathers, all the while the unsuspecting male—who might not be the father of any of them—is sitting on the eggs to assist in keeping them warm.

One can’t help be reminded of Dr. Corry’s research that estimates that 1/3rd of men have been conned into taking care of children that aren’t their biological offspring.

With a nest to build, eggs that need to be incubated, hatchlings that need to be fed and taught how to fly, and predators to fend off, raising a little bird family is quite the challenge. It is for this reason that most birds are socially monogamous, yet there is no reason why females should be sexually exclusive. The biological imperative of the female is to reproduce with the most magnificent alpha males she can find, and securing a mate who will help raise the children does not somehow prevent her from continuing that mission.

Monogamy can be advantageous to human beings, especially in light of how difficult it is to raise a human child. It takes 10 – 15 years before a human being can become self-sufficient enough to survive in the wild without his parents. As countless studies have shown, the chances of a child doing better in life, than his parents, heavily depends on having had his biological father—or assumed biological father—in the household. Female humans stayed socially monogamous with our grandfathers and their fathers before them, because it ensured their survival and that of their children. Although access to other men was much more limited in centuries past, paternity tests now prove that human females have not all practiced sexual monogamy. Short of a DNA test, you never really know who your real great-great-grandfather was; especially if he was a soldier, a sailor, or took up residence in an emerging metropolis.

Men are not sexually monogamous by nature either. As pointed out in Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It by Allan and Barbara Pease, out of the characteristics of polygamous animals, the human male shares many of them. For instance, males from polygamous species are considerably larger than their female counterparts, and this is the case with humans. Men are usually 15 – 20% larger than women. The males of polygamous species also have large genitals compared to their overall body mass, and this is also the case with the human male sex organ.

Female animals will usually only engage in sex if they believe a male is an alpha, perhaps by witnessing him defeat all other male contenders in battle. Male animals, on the other hand, are often always ready to go whenever they encounter a female. Note that a dog will get an erection as soon as a new female comes into close proximity to him. Human males are also easily aroused by merely seeing the female body and are wired to become less excitable overtime with the same woman. As Allan Pease points out, you cannot get a bull to have intercourse with the same cow repeatedly, but if you introduce a new cow, he’s ready to go again.

In an effort to subdue their polygamous urges, men all over the world buy their women lingerie or role-playing outfits, such as a maid, nurse, or another sexy uniform. Many men even encourage their women to change the color or style of their hair. Unlike a dog or a bull, who cannot be tricked into having intercourse with the same female repeatedly in one afternoon, no matter how much you change her appearance, men can fool themselves into thinking they’re with a completely different woman. If a woman really wants to keep her husband sexually monogamous, she should periodically change her appearance and the manner in which she speaks and performs in the bedroom. The problem is that women have no incentive to do this, as thoroughly covered throughout this book. Moreover, women age poorly and hit the wall of their beauty usually in their 30s, so their ability to contend with younger females quickly fades away.

A married man who says he doesn’t fantasize about other women, or claims he doesn’t get aroused when seeing a beautiful naked woman, is a liar. To vow to sleep with only one woman for your rest of your life, is to agree to force yourself to deny your nature. It has only been about 60 years since Western civilization began to control men by shaming them into practicing sexual exclusivity with their wives. Before feminists deemed masculinity to be toxic and dangerous, it was common practice for married men to keep a mistress or occasionally visit a brothel.

The sexual satisfaction our grandfathers enjoyed through extra-marital affairs was beneficial to their wives, because it eased a life of social monogamy. The Old Testament is filled with stories of men who had multiple wives, and are regarded as the noblest, pious and wise of biblical figures. King Solomon is said to have 700 wives and 300 concubines in his harem. Some Christians have written at great length defending the practice, and argue that Jesus did not abolish polygamy. I invite believers to search out these arguments rather than dissolving this book into a religious debate.

It was not until the 1860s that polygamy became illegal in the United States. Over 50 sovereign nations, out of 195 countries, permit polygamy, and for good reason: sexual monogamy defies the nature of men and turns them into liars.

With the illegality of polygamy, men in long-term relationships often turn to pornography and are shamed by their girlfriends, wives, manginas and feminist society. Men’s sexuality is increasingly being vilified, and the recent anti-masturbation movement called “No Fap” is an indication that it’s still on the rise. Backed by little more than pseudo-scientific nonsense, claiming that masturbation decreases a man’s ability to focus and succeed, No Fap advocates encourage men to retain their semen. Are we supposed to believe that a billionaire alpha male, or a muscular mixed-martial arts fighter, who bangs several women every week, is somehow sabotaging their potential greatness by ejaculating so much?

One Christian man who married a Christian girl, who was a virgin on their wedding night, confided in me how shameful he felt that he would look at pornography. A high school friend told me of the great lengths he went through to hide his viewing time from his girlfriend, and how she couldn’t understand its importance. These men loved the women they were with but were driven by their natural biological imperative to spread their seed into the wombs of as many women as possible. Had it not been taboo and illegal for such men to have multiple wives, perhaps they never would have indulged so much in pornography. Arguments have also been made that the forced celibacy of certain religious orders, only increases the chances of the psyche succumbing to sexual perversions due to suppressing man’s natural sexual appetites.

The vow to only sleep with one woman remains a great way to almost certainly condemn oneself to a life of sexual frustration. This is especially true for alpha males, as being among the most confident and masculine of leaders usually entails having a high sex drive, as well as an unending surplus of beautiful women who will try to take a ride on his pocket rocket.

If you do not want to willfully remove your options, and stifle the very nature of who you are as a man, do not get married.

Chapter 12 - Children

“In fact, our director would say regularly, “We aren’t the friend of the family, we’re the friend of the court.”” – Carol Rhodes, former Child Support Enforcement Agency employee, and author of Friend of the Court, Enemy of the Family: Surviving the Child Support System and Divorce Racket

Reason #76 - Your Sons Will Be Victims, Your Daughters Victimizers

As Western societies become increasingly more gynocentric, it inevitably means that current and future generations of boys are doomed to become victims of feminist-influenced women empowered by the government. Having sons today means a father needs to warn his boys about the dangers of any kind of relationship with a female, beyond merely having a conversation about safe sex.

In an age far out of sight of where we are today, a father would only have to concern himself with his sons’ education and made sure to raise them with good values so they wouldn’t wind up in jail. In the 21st century fathers’ are now seeing their sons financially ruined by alimony and divorce settlements, and many young men have taken their life because the burden of child support payments and custody battles was just too much to bear. Fathers’ see their boys carted off to jail on false charges of rape or domestic violence. When a teenage boy’s hormones are raging, it’s almost impossible to communicate how dangerous it can be to sleep with a woman. In addition to warning a son about sexually transmitted diseases, and encouraging contraception, dads now have to tell stories of young men who have been thrown in prison because a vindictive girl cried crocodile tears to a feminist judge.

Because liberal degenerates believe gender is only a state of mind, children’s movies and television shows featuring androcentric content increasingly replace a male protagonist with a little girl. In children’s entertainment girls are shown outshining little boys in every way imaginable. Meanwhile, elementary school curriculums and teaching styles are reimagined with female students in mind. College courses are increasingly taught with a feminist slant, women are more likely to earn degrees than men, and women are outpacing men in securing high-paying employment. It doesn’t take a genius to understand why so many little boys are having problems paying attention in school, alongside other behavioral issues, when their education takes a backseat to educating a female mind.

Raising a little girl in this society is even worse, as feminism is prepared to wage an unrelenting war on any father’s attempt to instill traditional feminine values. The odds that your little girl is going to grow up to be a loving and caring wife, who dresses modestly, and takes care of her house and children, are slim to none. Riding the cock-carousel from high school to her college graduation has become a rite of passage for modern girls. The only good news is that rates of teenage pregnancy are on the decline in the United States, but so are marriages.

Teenage pregnancies haven’t decreased because girls are becoming less promiscuous. Multiple studies show that national birthrates drop like a rock any time women are provided voting rights and increased opportunities for higher education. Moreover, young girls have ready access to birth control and abortion clinics.

With the introduction of gynocentric laws, young men are wising up that modern women make terrible wives, and there are absolutely zero benefits, and a mountain of risks, to getting married. That said, the likelihood that your little girl will find some handsome, hardworking man to wed is shrinking by the day. If your daughter does get married, there’s a strong possibility she’ll be ruining the life of some other guy’s son, by way of the divorce court and child support.

Some men hold onto the fantasy that they’ll be able to raise their children however they see fit, but the data doesn’t show that. Given rates of divorce, and the relatively insignificant amount of time fathers are given to visit with their sons and daughters, men who ignore the facts and proceed into marriage with the intent of fatherhood, are playing with the lives of children. It’s a terrible time to bring a child into this world.

Tom Leykis, an infamous shock-jock radio host who broadcasted in southern California and railed against marriage, said that he didn’t want to have children because he loves children. In an emotional broadcast, Tom opened up and shared with his audience how hard his father had to work. He talked about how he desperately wanted to spend time with his dad, but the mounting bills of married life meant his father was often too tired to spend time with him. Tom said that the weight of work darkened his father’s mood, making him so unpleasant that it scarred his memories of him. With this in mind, to be married with children can end up meaning that you’ll give your sons and daughters an abysmal childhood experience because you’re working too hard to keep food in their bellies, clothes on their backs and a roof over their head.

Now is not the time to have children, and there is no rush to have children because we men can reproduce even in our old age.

Reason #77 - You’re Legacy is Bullshit

The word “legacy” can be defined as something that you have left behind in the past, yet remains today. You don’t need a child to carry on your legacy, and you certainly don’t need a wife to have a kid.

A Norwegian beta male, and white supremacist, somehow managed to convince his small audience that men who refuse to breed with women in feminist-dominated societies are only making way for the genetics of “superior” men to succeed them. He also argued that there is some magical way to determine if a woman will be a good wife and mother, and therefore eliminate the chances of getting screwed by the gynocentric divorce and family court system. Don’t fall for this nonsense.

Although the human species, much like the animal kingdom, has been strengthened by women selectively breeding with the best alpha males they can find, we are not mere animals. The most unique thing that separates us from all other life on our planet is our brain. We are creatures of the mind, rather than fang and claw, or even muscle. The only kind of legacy a non-human animal can leave behind is offspring, but we have many other options. Furthermore, how many men have been as foolish as the Dunnock, who can be easily deceived into sitting on eggs fertilized by another bird’s semen, all the while his goofy ass thinks his legacy is intact.

Whether some ended up having children or not, single men such as Antonio Vivaldi, Descartes, Franz Kafka, Hans Christian Anderson, Henry David Thoreau, Sir Isaac Newton, Leonardo da Vinci, Ludwig van Beethoven, Nikola Tesla, Orville and Wilbur Wright, Voltaire and others, didn’t need to have children to have an impact on the world.

Only non-human animals must have a legacy of genetics, but we humans can leave a legacy of our ideas, art, inventions, music, humanitarian contributions or other great deeds.

Having a child almost assuredly requires giving up your dreams, and diverts the time and energy you can put toward their manifestation to the care of another human being. Some guys don’t want to find out what they’re capable of because it may mean that they were not as great as they imagined themselves. Paying on a mortgage in a quiet family-friendly neighborhood, with a wife and kids, as opposed to striking out on your own, and seeing what you can do, is a great way to excuse yourself from the frightening table of possibilities of what you might have become.

A man who is determined to be a father should carefully consider his options. There are around 100,000 children in the United States alone that are dreaming of being adopted by loving parents, and it is possible for a single man to adopt a child. Despite how much I feel for orphaned children, I do not, however, recommend adoption as taking care of another man’s child can come with many heartaches. A child who learns that he was adopted can run off to give more affection and time to the biological parents that abandoned him, rather than rewarding his adoptive parents with the joy of seeing the man he becomes into his adult years. An adopted child that continuously misbehaves or has a personality far removed from his adoptive parents can cause resentment in them, for it becomes a constant reminder that the child is really only theirs legally, not biologically. The difficulties of raising a child can also cause regret because the burden of raising the child was not supposed to be yours, but that of their real mother and father.

Perhaps the best way to become a father without the threat of alimony, or losing the house you paid for to divorce court, is to hire a surrogate mother. This does not, however, protect you from being forced to pay child support if the mother decides to keep the child. In a 2011 article titled “Couple Told To Pay Child Support After Surrogate Decides To Keep Baby” by Margaret Hartmann at Jezebel.com, she reports that a couple was ordered to pay $900 a month in child support to a surrogate mother.

Men who donate sperm because they just want to have their genetics carry on—even if they won’t have direct contact with their offspring—are also not safe from the insanity of feminism. On January 24, 2014, CNN reported that a Kansas man, William Marotta, who donated his sperm, was ordered to pay child support to a lesbian couple despite having signed documents waiving all parental rights to the child. Thankfully, by 2016 the court reversed the child support order, but the course of American society seems to predict that such nonsense is likely to emerge again in the future. The cancer of gynocentrism is also spreading around the world. In 2012, Miles Brignall from The Guardian reported that a gay Englishman, Mark Langridge, was ordered to pay child support to a lesbian couple he had donated his sperm to.

The reality is that in a gynocentric society, where men are less than second-class citizens, it is foolish to have a child with any woman. Maybe the safest bet is to find a country where women have virtually no rights, change your citizenship, get a local girl pregnant, and hope and pray that your new country of residence doesn’t try to mirror the United States, UK, and other feminist cesspools.

Vietnam has one of the lowest divorce rates of any country, at 4% but don’t get too excited. In 2017 a journalist for Ozy.com reported that multiple female hip-hop artists were beginning to beat the drums of feminism in the article, “How Hip-Hop is Fueling Feminism in an Unlikely Place.” Chile has the lowest divorce rate in the world at 3%, but a simple search for “Chilean feminists” shows that the virus of feminism is beginning to germinate.

If you really like kids and want to help instill values in them, you can get involved in the lives of nieces, nephews and second cousins. This can be dangerous financial ground too under the legal theory that a man could be seen as a child’s parent, even if he is not the biological father. Several cases have emerged in which a man stepped into the life of a child and was considered by the government to have become a “psychological parent.” In the case of Williams vs. McCloud, it was argued that a man was financially responsible for his nephew because he had acted in the capacity of a father. It is more often the case that an ex-girlfriend can pursue child support from a boyfriend who has no biological relationship to her child, but who argues that her son or daughter regarded the man as a father figure. Let this be a warning against dating single mothers, or involving yourself in the lives of the neighbor lady’s kids because you think it would be nice if they had a male role model around.

Being an elementary school teacher, child psychologist, little league coach or children’s martial arts instructor are probably among the absolute safest ways to give back to the next generation. Just keep in mind that Western civilization regards masculinity as toxic, and increasingly views all men as equally capable of being sexual predators. To have a child with a woman, or to get involved in the lives of children, is only to increase the likelihood that some woman is going to ruin your life or take a bite out of your bank account.

Whatever you choose, keep in mind that there is no rush to have children. Unlike women, whose window of fertility opens and closes quite quickly, men can have kids late in life, and many men do. In places like Thailand and Vietnam, there are a plethora of Western men in their 60s and 70s who traveled abroad to have children. I cannot speak to how secure their assets are if they remain in a foreign country, but the point is that men have years to decide and research the best options for fatherhood. Getting married to a woman in the West, or bringing a foreign bride to the gynocentric West, are the absolute worst options.

Most importantly, having children is not the only way a man can leave behind his legacy. But getting married and having children is a great way to gamble with your assets and the lives and future of your children.

Reason #78 – Single Mothers are Crime Production Factories

With the understanding that most marriages end in divorce, it is essential to review what single-motherhood really means for your children.

With a father’s visitation rights accounting for an average of 20% of a child’s parental time, by all intents and purposes, the child is effectively being raised by his mother and her real husband—the state. The child gets up in the morning, goes to school to get taught a government-sanctioned curriculum and then returns home to spend the rest of the afternoon with his mother. Every two weeks he’ll spend a weekend at his father’s house, and receive a few phone calls during the week. That is, of course, if she doesn’t just move across the country to make it exceedingly difficult for the father to visit his children. It’s illegal for the mother to move away without the consent of the father, but since he has to work extra hours to keep up with child support and alimony payments, it’s doubtful he can afford the time in court or the attorney fees to pursue her.

A friend of mine from Oregon married a virgin Christian gal, but he waited ten years to get her pregnant. After a decade, he was confident she was the right one to have a child with. Three years later, after spending lots of time with her feminist-influenced friends, his wife realized she could get a massive chunk of her husband’s six-figure income through alimony and child support. She filed for divorce, moved 300 miles away to make it difficult for her ex-husband to see his son, and had the courts hit him with an order to pay her thousands of dollars a month. He fled the United States before the child support enforcement agency put a block on his passport. When I last spoke to him, he was contemplating whether he should commit suicide or join the French Foreign Legion.

Since divorce is virtually inevitable, men who are considering getting married and having children with their wife should resign themselves to understanding that she’ll be raising the children. Dating websites are filled with single mothers who present all manner of excuses for why they didn’t stay with the biological father of their child. The evidence is all around you: your children will likely be raised by a single-mom.

Feminists are champions for single motherhood and claim that women don’t need a man to raise a child. The facts tell quite a different story, and one so terrible that single mothers should deserve nothing less than our contempt. A woman can be a great mother in all respects, but the mere act of removing her children from their father is so psychologically devastating to children, that the kindest single mothers might as well be abusing their sons and daughters. Single mothers amount to little more than crime production factories, as the absence of a father in the home almost guarantees their children will become criminals.

At minimum, there is an assortment of behavioral and psychological issues that can afflict children raised in a mother-only home. In his video “What Happens When Boys Get Raised By Single Mothers - Five Stories” hosted at YouTube.com, Jerry Liu, an advocate for the bachelor lifestyle, outlines the tell-tale signs that are indicative that a male was raised by a female. Jerry points out that guys raised by their mother are much more emotional than other males, and are prone to behavior that is associated with girls. Such boys can cry a lot and burst into tantrums. They often lack masculine assertiveness and confidence, and are quick to throw up their hands and give up when faced with a challenge, rather than stay the course.

One of the reasons why people turn to crime is because it’s seen as an easier avenue to making money than the hard road of learning a trade, opening a business or climbing the corporate ladder. There are, of course, a whole host of other reasons a young child or a teenager might lash out and engage in criminal activity. The discipline of fathers quickly instills respect for authority, and an understanding that—just as there is an order to the household—there is an order to society. Furthermore, it is utterly innate that boys will seek initiation into manhood. In the absence of a father, boys end up joining gangs or hanging out with older boys who appear to be tough because they recklessly break the rules. Every boy instinctively knows that only another male can teach him how to be a man.

In their paper “Putting Children First,” the Progressive Policy Institute argued that their research shows that the presence or absence of a father is a stronger predictor of whether or not a child will become a criminal than ethnicity or household income. In other words, if a white guy, a black guy, a Chinese guy and a Mexican all walk into a bar, the one who is most likely to rob the place is whoever was raised by a single mother. Dozens of other studies support this assertion. According to the Texas Department of Corrections, 85% of youth prisoners grew up in a home without a father. The article “Dousing the Kindlers” in Psychology Today states that 90% of adolescent repeat arsonists are raised by single-mothers. According to the “Behavioral Sciences and the Law, Life Without Father, Policy Review”, 60% of rapists and 72% of adolescent murderers grew up without a father in the home. According to the US Bureau of Justice Statistics, 43% of prison inmates grew up in a single-parent household, but of that, 39% were raised by their mother while only 4% were raised by their father. Single-motherhood equates to a disproportionately high number of criminals, whereas being raised by a single-dad is not a strong predictor of criminal behavior, but quite the opposite.

Under the topic “Child Abuse and Violence in Single-Parent Families” appearing in The American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, researchers found that violence against children was related to poverty in mother-only households, but a father’s income was unrelated to child abuse in father-only homes. This means that if a single mother is poor, it increases the likelihood that she will abuse her children, but if a single-dad is poor, it will not increase the chance that he will harm his kids. “Economic Deprivation and Early Childhood Development” published in Child Development demonstrates that behavioral problems in children are more closely linked to being raised by a single-mother even after adjusting for family income. In other words, not only are poor mothers more likely to abuse their children than poor fathers, their kids are also more likely to have behavioral problems.

Cheryl Meyer, a psychologist at Wright State University in Ohio, estimates that a mother kills a child once every three days in the United States. Evolutionary psychologists have presented some theories as to why a mother might kill her children. Female primates will kill their offspring if there is no male to assist them in the care and protection of the child. A mother faced with inadequate resources might also decide to terminate her children, so as not to decrease her chances of survival, and also to not needlessly waste her time trying to prevent the inevitable death of her offspring. By separating themselves from their children’s father, human females stupidly increase the chances of depression, and resentment and anger directed at their children. Just as studies attempting to chart happiness show that female happiness has declined since feminism’s supposed victories in the 60s and 70s, here again, is an example of women being utterly clueless as to what is good for them, and best for their children.

Sarah Blaffer Hrdy, an emeritus professor of anthropology at the University of California at Davis, and author of Mother Nature, spoke to The Washington Post on this subject. In the September 2013 article “What makes mothers kill their own children?”, the journalist stated, “Hrdy’s work also suggests, paradoxically, that those pressures may be greatest in patriarchal cultures where a woman’s role as mother is idealized and she is under intense pressure to give birth to children and nurture them with self-denying devotion.”

As is typical of feminist double-think, we’re supposed to believe that men are to blame when mothers kill their children. Hrdy claims that the rates of child murders decrease when a society becomes less patriarchal, but she doesn’t factor in the 53,000,000 legal abortions that occurred in the United States from 1973 through 2011, according to the Guttmacher Institute. Hrdy also ignores the rising number of children who take their own lives.

One of the saddest repercussions of feminism promoting single-motherhood is child suicide. About 63% of children who commit suicide are from a fatherless home according to the US Department of Health Census. Growing up without a father in the home wounds the soul and psyche of children. Out of the number of pre-school children who are admitted as psychiatric patients, 80% of them come from a fatherless home according to “Psychiatric Hospitalization of Pre-School Children” published in The Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. According to the Center for Disease Control, 85% of children who show a behavioral disorder come from a mother-only home. Rainbows for all God’s Children states that 75% of children admitted to a drug addiction treatment facility are being raised by a single-mother.

Single motherhood also contributes to the amount of poverty that will occur in the next generation. The chances that a child will excel beyond the socio-economic status of his parents drops like a rock once the father is removed from the household. The National Principals Association Report states that 71% of high school dropouts come from a fatherless home. According to research conducted by AVoiceForMen.com, 90% of homeless children come from a fatherless home.

With overwhelming data showing that single motherhood increases the risk of child suicide and psychological problems, why aren’t single mothers considered as shameful as pregnant women who drink alcohol or smoke crack? I’ll admit that’s a rhetorical question. The reason why we don’t see people waving picket signs that shame single mothers, or hear talk show hosts scolding women for leaving the father of their children, is because we live in a gynocentric society.

To get married and have children is to risk the future of your children. It’s a foolish man who is willing to gamble with his wealth at the wedding altar, crossing his fingers that he won’t one day be a victim of financial divorce rape, but to gamble with the lives of children—now knowing full well the facts I have presented herein—is nothing but despicable. Instead of men betting that they’ll be able to raise their children in a wholesome traditional family unit, they should do the honorable thing and step away from the table. The game is rigged, feminists control the casino, and there is much more at risk than a man’s bank account.

Reason #79 – She is Going to Raise the Children, Not You

Even if a marriage stays together, married men on average work 400 hours more annually than single men. A wife is usually going to work less hours or will opt for staying at home with the children. This means that the parental experience of most children will primarily be with their mother, rather than their father.

If you want your little girl to dress more modestly, and don’t think she’s old enough to have a cellphone, a wife can easily veto your restrictions. One man shared with me how his wife would butt-in and snap at him anytime he tried to toughen up his boys by the way he spoke to them. His wife allowed her sons to become quitters and complainers, contrary to her husband’s good intentions. Another guy I met was upset how overweight his sons and daughter had gotten, and said his wife would let his kids dump heaps of cheese and ranch salad dressing on almost anything. These men were powerless to intervene because to put their foot down too hard meant they could wind up in divorce court facing a financial catastrophe.

Men teach boys how to achieve goals and act responsibly. A father teaches his sons not to be a quitter, a crybaby or a complainer. Fathers are integral to teaching boys how to stand up against a harsh and unforgiving world. Women cannot teach responsibility because their entire existence is built around relying on others.

A boy who grows up without a mother might be a little less sensitive than other males. A boy who grew up without a father is more likely to fail in life, become a criminal, commit suicide, drop of high school, have psychological issues, set a building on fire, or wind up in prison. A girl who grows up without a mother might be a little more Tom Boyish than other females. A girl who grows up without a father is more likely to wind up on a strip club pole, chase bad-boy losers, wind up in a psych ward, have a teen pregnancy, or be known as the town whore.

Since women exert so much power in marriage via the threat of alimony, divorce settlements and child support, a man’s ability to dictate how his children will be raised is nullified.

Reason #80 - Another Man Will Raise Your Children

In light of the divorce rate and appalling visitation rights that amount to seeing your child only 20% of parenting time, your sons and daughters will be raised by their mother, their school teachers and a variety of men your ex-wife dates or marries.

Expect that your kids will be calling some other man dad, while their mother periodically reminds them how much of a loser you are. You’ll either be hearing about all the fun things your kids got to do with your ex-wife’s new boyfriend or husband—or tightening your fists as they tell you how much of an asshole their stepdad is. How do you expect to contend with their stepfather when you only get to see your kids a fraction of the time he does?

Don’t even think about trying to toughen up your little boys, and forget about scolding your daughters when you get your meager visitation time with them. The last thing you’ll want is to provide their mother with another reason to give you an earful or supply her with more ammunition to keep you from seeing them. Besides, you’re in direct competition with their stepdad, and you won’t want them to think that you’re an asshole compared to him.

Even if your ex-wife fails to get another man to move in with her, her dad and brothers will get to spend more time with your kids than you can ever hope to. Expect your daughter to tell you how grandpa took her horseback riding, and your son to talk about his hunting trip with his Uncle Joe. Meanwhile, your goofy ass is going to pounding cans of piss-warm beer so you can sedate yourself to the reality that you have to go work another fourteen-hour shift to keep up with the child support payments.

Reason #81 - Child Support

I am 100% against the practice of child support for a wide variety of reasons. Namely, child support financially rewards women for leaving the father of their children.

With women representing over 80% of all retail purchases, most admitting that they love to shop, and clearly being the sex that is more materialistic, it does not make sense to reward women with money if they leave their child’s father. I care about children—and knowing how vital a father is in the life of a child—I will never advocate an institution that uses money to entice women to leave the father of their children.

Since there is absolutely no law which states that a woman must spend child support money on the man’s child, it is a misnomer to call it “child support.” A more accurate term is “grown woman support.” A woman can spend an entire support payment on a new wardrobe, or a wild night out with her boyfriend, Chad. In fact, any mother who wants to immediately raise her standard of living needs only to leave the father of her child so she can collect support payments. The bitch can then go get herself a new man who will also spend money on her. Instead of one man’s income, she is now getting two. Instead of having to deal with her former husband telling her the kids don’t need a bunch of new designer clothes, a single-mother can spend his money however she wishes.

You might be able to handle a payment of $500 or $1000 a month, but that does not include medical coverage, which can nearly consume the average man’s paycheck when combined with grown woman support.

For every $1.00 in child support that is collected, the state government is rewarded $0.66 by the federal government in accordance with the 1969 Social Security Act. Thus the state turns a profit for every broken home. Every dollar in child support is a tax burden that forces a father’s fellow Americans to pay for his children.

Incarcerating men for child support has led to debtors prisons in the United States, even though US law supposedly forbids the practice of imprisoning someone because they are too poor to pay a debt. Through child support and alimony, men have effectively become the indentured servants of women.

Reason #82 - Custody Battles

A 2011 study led by Sanford Braver at Arizona State University discovered that the general public favors equal custody rather than granting a disproportionate amount of parental time to the mother. Despite this, Robert Hughes, Jr. wrote in his article “Are Custody Decisions Biased in Favor of Mothers?” appearing in The Huffington Post on November 29, 2011, “mothers receive primary custody 68-88% of the time, fathers receive primary custody 8-14%, and equal residential custody is awarded in only 2-6% of the cases.”

Regardless of how many facts can be brought forth to prove the importance of a father in a child’s life, or to demonstrate that single-fathers can raise children better than a single mother, the judicial system is starkly gynocentric. The belief that women make better parents is an old myth that needs to die.

To secure custody rights, women use a wide array of devious tactics. Even when a child is deemed of age to decide which parent they would like to live with, single mothers can sabotage the child’s opinion of their father. Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is a purposeful attempt, usually by the mother, to ruin a child’s feelings for the other parent. The methods women use to undermine a child’s respect for his father are as varied as false stories, rumors and deceptively negative explanations of events. Children who are afflicted by Parental Alienation Syndrome can end up developing hatred toward their father or men in general. Additionally, children who are abused by their mother, but who have been taught to hate their father, can end up developing Stockholm Syndrome, in which they associate positive feelings with their abusive mother, and even defend and glorify her.

Under “Frequency of visitation by Divorced Fathers” and “Differences in Reports by Fathers and Mothers” in The American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 40% of mothers admitted to interfering in the father’s visitation to punish their ex-spouse. Children living with their mother were more likely to think negatively about their dad but have positive thoughts about their mom according to “Advantages of Father Custody and Contact for the Psychological Well-Being of School-Age Children” published in The Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology.

One of the most sinister methods women deploy to secure full custody of a man’s children is a false charge of child molestation, or fabricating that her ex-husband watches child pornography, or allegedly admitted to pedophilic fantasies. Fathers For Equal Rights and the National Fathers’ Resource Center located at Fathers4Kids.com discovered that 70-80% of divorce-linked child sexual abuse cases are hoaxes, and out of approximately 7,600 reports of child abuse that occur each day, 7,200 are eventually classified as false allegations.

Being exonerated from a false accusation of sexual child abuse does very little to repair a man’s tarnished reputation, as excellently portrayed in the Danish movie The Hunt (2012), in which a kindergarten teacher becomes the victim of false allegations. If a lying ex-wife somehow manages to get charges to stick, or if a man enters a plea of “no contest” to accusations of pedophilia, he will be forever recorded in government databases as a sex offender.

One guy told me that when he reached a low-point in his career, he agreed to move in with his sister who was a single mother. His nephews would have the benefit of having their uncle as a male role model, but when Child Protective Services visited to assess the living conditions, for the purposes of securing her custody rights, she told him he had to vacate the house for the day. His sister said that Child Protective Services would classify him as little more than some strange man living in the house, who could possibly be a sexual predator. As feminism marches on, men are increasingly viewed as potential rapists and perverts, and automatically guilty unless proven innocent.

The fact is, it is delusional to think that if a marriage ends, the father will be able to get custody of the children. Reproducing with a woman in a feminist society virtually guarantees that the children will be raised by their mother—or their mother and some other man.

Reason #83 - Taking Care of Someone Else’s Children

Dr. Charles E. Corry from the National Coalition For Men estimated that each year 90,000 men in the United States are the victims of paternity fraud and end up being ordered to pay child support on children they don’t realize aren’t even their biological offspring.

In 2015, WXYZ-TV Detroit Channel 7 reported on the case of Carnell Alexander, who was threatened with jail time if he refused to pay child support on a child that DNA tests already had proven was not his. The woman simply wrote his name down as the father because a request for welfare assistance required that she put a man’s name on the document.

In March 2016, WCCO CBS Minnesota reported that Iowa resident, Joe Vandusen was ordered to pay child support to his estranged wife who he hadn’t seen for at least 16 years.

In January of 2017, NewsOn6.com reported that a man in Tulsa, Oklahoma was ordered to pay approximately $500 a month in child support and about $15,000 in arrears for a child that paternity tests proved was not his.

WREG News Channel 3 reported on the case of Edward Bowdery who was ordered by Shelby County judges in Memphis, Tennessee to pay child support for a child he never claimed as his own, and which he later proved was not his with two paternity tests. Even after a court-ordered DNA test confirmed he was not the biological father, the judge had the audacity to scold him for making such a stink about being ordered to pay child support for a kid that wasn’t even his. Though the whole debacle had resulted in the unjustified loss of his license and arrest, in the eyes of the feminist judge, it was somehow dishonorable for Edward to refuse to pay for another man’s child.

Being the victim of paternity fraud is one thing, yet some men are foolish enough to willingly agree to take care of another man’s children by marrying a single mother.

Single motherhood is an indication that the woman has made bad decisions in life and will likely make more of them. Almost every single mom on the planet has a story about how much an asshole, loser or cheater the father of her children is. The question that men fail to ask is: why was she attracted to such a terrible person in the first place? Moreover, if she couldn’t tell the difference between a good man and a bad one in the past, then what makes you think she can now?

There’s one way to tell if a woman has poor judgment, and that’s if she’s a single mother. When she says the father of her children turned out to be an asshole, she’s admitting she’s a poor judge of character. Someone with sound judgment would make sure they didn’t reproduce until they were confident they found a quality mate.

We all have made bad decisions, but single mothers are incapable of taking any responsibility for their mistakes.

In light of how detrimental single motherhood is to a child’s mental health, and his socio-economic future, it does not make sense to trust the moral fiber of a single mom. With the understanding that the availability and affordability of birth control means that girls have full control over whether or not they get pregnant, a single mother represents a selfish and thoughtless woman who didn’t care enough about her child’s future to breed with a quality mate so that her kids would have a father.

Understand too, that her children take precedence over your wants and needs. In short, a single mom needs your money. Whether a man is dumb enough to give her money, she receives child support or collects welfare, a single mother is a  financial burden on her fellow Americans. For every dollar a single-mom receives in child support the federal government awards the state $0.66, so whether she gets welfare or not, she is a burden on her countrymen.

Growing attached to children is another critical point to consider. Good men delude themselves into thinking that if they’re not an asshole—like their wife’s ex-husband supposedly was—then there’s no risk of her running off with the kids. One beta male I knew got involved with a single mother, only to be tossed to the curb after several years. This clown was already paying child support on another kid, and his ex-girlfriend had moved to another state to deny him access to his son. He found himself getting attached to a child that wasn’t his, almost making up for the limited time he was able to spend with his son, only to find he had no rights to the child that wasn’t his.

In the worst case scenario, getting involved with a single mother can end up meaning you’ll end up paying child support for a child that isn’t yours.

Reason #84 - Children Increase a Woman’s Power Over You

One man advised that if a guy wants kids, it’s better to have children with an unmarried woman, so he’ll only have to pay child support and can avoid alimony and a divorce settlement that turns ownership of his house over to some woman. I think this is terrible advice for various reasons. Namely because having children with a woman increases her power over you. Furthermore, avoiding the marriage contract doesn’t safeguard a man from alimony if he cohabitates with the mother of his children for several years. Some unmarried women have been awarded alimony because they lived with a man long enough to be considered married under common law.

Women know that they’ve locked a man in once they’re pregnant. Plenty of women will hold out until they get pregnant, and then their behavior and attitude toward the father of their children will change drastically. Men who believe in abortion have absolutely no say in whether or not a woman will keep their child and will be forced to pay child support even if they don’t want to be a father. Furthermore, a man can waive all his parental rights in court, but it will not dissolve an order to pay child support. On the other hand, guys who are pro-life cannot do anything legally to stop a woman from aborting their son or daughter. The fact is, from the moment of conception to the birth and adolescent years of your offspring, you have little to no power.

The mother of your children has the power to raise your children as she sees fit. With the threat of child support and divorce hanging over a man’s head, she has more leverage to make demands of the father. She will make demands on what school district the family should live, what clothes the children will wear, the friends their allowed to have, and so on. If she takes care of the children at all, it offers her another excuse for being too tired to have sex.

A man who ends up having to pay child support will soon realize that increasing his income only means that he must hand over more of his earnings to the mother of his children. The stories of men who commit suicide because support payments were too much to handle are scattered all over the internet. Hefty support requirements mean that a woman has power over a man’s lifelong past the end of their relationship. Because of his financial burden, a man may find himself having to take on a roommate or a second job, or even move back in with his mother or father.

Marrying a woman who says she doesn’t want children is no guarantee of anything, as women change their minds and do so often. Having secured the resources of a male through marriage, she may decide that she now wants to have kids, especially once her girlfriends or sisters start having children.

While I advise the use of condoms, they cannot be considered sufficient male birth-control. Condoms break, and if your heat-seeking moisture missile gets a girl’s goop-chute wet enough, they can slip right off. A woman who is intent on getting pregnant can simply “sperm jack” the semen from a used condom while her man is sleeping, or when he gets up to go to the restroom after sex. A married couple is unlikely to be using condoms, and will instead opt for one of the many female options for birth control. The problem here is that the woman can just lie about being on birth control if she really wants a child.

Women have all the rights when it comes to reproduction, and getting pregnant increases a woman’s power over the father of her children.

Chapter 13 - Crushing Your Dreams

“A man may be a fool and not know it — but not if he is married” - H.L. Mencken, 20th-century journalist, satirist and cultural critic

Reason #85 - Say Goodbye to Malee and Pimchan’s Sweet Young Ass

I know a very successful man, just shy of his 80th birthday, who spent much of his married life traveling around the world on business. For all descriptions, when Peter talks about his late wife she really sounds like he found himself a unicorn. She would stay with the kids while he traveled, and when they were out of school in the summer, they would travel together as a family.

Note that the women of Peter’s age—gals born in the World War II era—were not so entrenched in feminism as they are now. Moreover, Peter married a girl from a small country that prided itself on family values. Finally, Pete has been hugely successful throughout his life. I don’t discount the possibility that such ladies exist as Pete’s dear sweetheart, but it was a different time, a different place, and Peter is as rare a man as was his lady.

The increased financial responsibilities of marriage will often mean having to work more hours, which decreases opportunities for travel. If anything, it will also limit the length and luxury of travel. Whereas a single man could perhaps afford to stay in a nice hotel suite for a month, maybe the same man could only afford a one week visit if he were married. On the other hand, a demanding wife could mean luxury and safety are required, whereas a single man could save his money staying in a cheap motel. Marriage can also mean wild adventures climbing mountains or trekking through a jungle are out of the question or will be cut short because your wife’s feet hurt.

Going on a solo trip or vacation with the boys widens the opportunity for infidelity. This is especially the case with modern technology giving women ready access to hunky alpha males through social networking and dating websites. The enjoyment of vacation away from the wife can be stained by recurring thoughts that she might be banging her Plan B backup plan she dated five years ago. Cheating goes the other way as well. Instead of inhaling the fresh air of being completely free from the worries and drama back home, expect that you’ll have to check in multiple times a day, and perhaps deal with your wife’s jealousy.

If she joins you on the trip, you’ve bought yourself an additional person to worry about. You can also forget about any possibility of sleeping with beautiful foreign women. You might just discover a country where the women still respect men and treat them like lords compared to how your feminist-influenced, strong-and-independent wife treats you. In fact, if you marry a woman from a fat country like the United States or Mexico—and also in light of studies proving that married women pack on pounds—your lap lizard will be begging you to set him free in places like Thailand, Colombia, Vietnam, Italy, Finland, Japan, Iceland and many others.

Your gravitationally challenged wife is sure to take notice if you hold your gaze too long on some deliciously fit foreign hottie. The absolute worst is if your wife doesn’t give you as much sex and blowjobs you want while you’re staying in a foreign hotel. While you’re lying there with a hard-on next to your bought-and-paid-for cock-tease of a wife—staring at her breasts while your knob-goblin is going crazy nestled up against her soft panties—a single man has his face buried in foreign trim while another girl is trying to deep-throat his Eiffel Tower.

Just like all the useless crap your wife purchased back home, expect to spend money on a few worthless trinkets between stops at tourist attractions you have no interest in. If you have children, the expense of traveling will also skyrocket while vacation time and the number of things you can do decreases. Your bank account will be hit for extra luggage, plane tickets, one or two additional hotel rooms, food for the family, whatever keepsakes the kids want, and entrance fees at special events. You’ll probably want to get each child a cellphone just in case they get lost, and also for taking pictures.

If you want to travel like a boss, be the boss of your own life and don’t get married.

Reason #86 - Devout Religious Practice is Over

There are hundreds of thousands of monks from a variety of religions, but that lifestyle is out of the question for married men. Many men do not spend their entire lives as a monk but can enjoy a few years at a temple or monastery, but a short stint as a monk is also out of the picture if you tie-the-knot.

One doesn’t have to become a monk to devote themselves to their religion. A man might decide to go abroad as a minister or just to immerse himself in Bible study, religious service or meditation. Marriage limits the possibility for a life of religious devotion, even when a wife shares the same beliefs. A wife may change her beliefs, she might not be as dedicated, or the financial and time requirements of married life may decrease the amount of time her husband can devote to his spirituality.

Reason #87 – A Woman is at the Wheel of Your Career

When I was in my twenties, I learned how to DJ, promote events and pack dance clubs. It was inevitable that I would wind up in a relationship because the girls threw themselves at me, yet it was one of the very girls that I met while DJing that ended my gigs.

Long before I became the man I am today I was a simpering beta male. I allowed my girlfriend to convince me to sell off my DJ equipment. She knew that women love a handsome DJ. After all, the girls associate the pleasure of dancing to their favorite songs directly with the man whose spinning the music in the booth, and he is the apparent alpha male in charge of the room. I was making good money as a DJ, so who knows to what heights I could have taken it to.

Therein is the problem with being married: a wife has considerable say in your career choice and its direction. This is especially the case for men interested in action careers or dangerous occupations. A wife can quickly put the kibosh on a career as a bodyguard, fireman, police officer, bounty hunter, soldier, fighter pilot or mercenary.

Wives also find occupations that require their husbands being gone from the home for days or weeks at a time disagreeable. For instance, there’s a lot of money to be made as a long-haul truck driver owner-operator, or as a pilot for a major airline, but marriage means they’re almost out of the question as a career choice.

Even careers that don’t seem particularly disagreeable with a marriage commitment end up having unforeseen high divorce rates. In a study published by Zippia in 2017, among the worst jobs for marriage are: automotive technicians, carpenters, library assistants, logisticians, chemical technicians, engineering technicians, medical assistants,  tax examiners, and probation officers.

Entrepreneurs are also worth mentioning because women favor stability. A husband’s business idea is more likely to be perceived as a pipe-dream of reckless gambling, than a wise investment of his time and money. The same is true for inventors or other creative men like artists, authors and musicians. Moreover, the time and money that is demanded by a wife significantly decreases what a man can invest in his dreams, to say nothing of what will be required of him if children enter the picture.

Success in a venture of any kind is also profoundly affected by one’s ability to be resolute in the face of challenges. An unsupportive wife doesn’t just take the wind of a man’s sails but can tear them to pieces. Even when a wife has been convinced to accept her husband’s entrepreneurial dream, all it takes is a bitchy attitude and a face of disappointment to ruin a man’s will to continue the fight. A wife’s attitude, and fear of losing her and be wrecked in divorce court can also dissuade her husband from taking job opportunities that require relocating or push him to turn down a promotion because it will increase his time away from home.

If you do not want to limit your career choices and how you will invest your time and money, do not get married.

Reason #88 – Freedom!

Marriage limits your options in every way imaginable. Marriage decreases the time you have to yourself, and that you can spend with family and friends. Marriage decreases your options for where you will live and how you live. A wife automatically lowers the number of women you can sleep with and even restricts how many women whose company you can enjoy platonically. In all things, a wife decreases a man’s freedom.

Some men don’t want freedom, as it is easier to let someone else decide the purpose of their existence and what they should do with their time than to accept responsibility for the course of their life.

In the military, you always know your purpose because you are told what to do. Some men enjoy military service for that very reason. Unlike the military, which offers a whole host of benefits beyond giving a man a mission and a purpose, marriage provides none while restricting a man’s freedom. To be a soldier, marine, airman, guardsman or sailor, is to sacrifice one’s comfort for the defense of their nation and brothers-in-arms. To become a woman’s husband is to sacrifice one’s time and earnings to deliver whatever lifestyle is desired by a woman.

There is nothing honorable in throwing away your freedom to provide for the life of some woman. In the absence of any benefit to becoming the servant of a woman’s lifestyle, it is silly.

Chapter 14 - Growing Old Together

“I had always thought of woman as possessing those delicate qualities of mind and soul that made her in these respects far superior to man. I had put her on a lofty pedestal, figuratively speaking, and ranked her in certain important attributes considerably higher than man. I worshiped at the feet of the creature I had raised to this height, and, like every true worshiper, I felt myself unworthy of the object of my worship. But all this was in the past. Now the soft-voiced gentle woman of my reverent worship has all but vanished. In her place has come the woman who thinks that her chief success in life lies in making herself as much as possible like man–in dress, voice and actions, in sports and achievements of every kind.” – Nikola Tesla, world renowned 19th-century inventor

Reason #89 - She’s Going to Turn Out Just Like Her Mother

In The Importance of Being Earnest, Oscar Wilde wrote, "All women become their mothers; that is their tragedy.”

In 2009, plastic surgeons used facial imaging and 3D computer modeling software to determine how close a woman’s face would age like her mother’s. The American Society of Plastic Surgeons published the findings of the research team at Loma Linda University Medical Center in California, concluding that girls will age and wrinkle like their mothers.

Genetics account for around 80 percent of our physical characteristics, rather than diet, environment or exercise. Thus, the man who believes his new bride won’t end up looking like his wrinkled old cow mother-in-law is deluding himself. If you want to know how your girlfriend is going to look and act when she’s older, just spend a little time with her mother.

According to a survey of one-thousand women conducted by Dotty Bingo, over half of women believe they’ve become just like their mothers and completed their transformation soon after turning 30. The rest of the women who were surveyed may also have become like their mother but may not have been willing to admit it.

A woman’s mother has usually been her longest and closest advisor, and even where she disagrees with her mother’s way of doing things, she has doubtlessly been a subconscious role model. For instance, if her mother succeeded in reaping the financial benefits of divorce, she’ll always have an example, floating around in her head, of how easy it can be done. The same is true for a mother-in-law who cheats on her husband, belittles him, dresses like a slob, doesn’t cook or clean, or nags your father-in-law right into his grave.

Men who get married are essentially marrying their wife’s mother because that’s almost certainly what she’s going to become in appearance and behavior.

Reason #90 - Your Dreams Are Over

The thought of an elderly couple sitting on the porch while they reminisce about the wonderful life they’ve shared together is quaint, but far from reality.

Not only is it increasingly unlikely that a man’s marriage will last 30 or 40 years, but many older men realize that once they look back from their 60s, 70s or 80s, they see decades of missed opportunities. Marriage can mean having to forego your dreams and lying on your deathbed looking back with regret.

How many business ventures or inventions did you pass up? How many opportunities to travel did you decline? How much of your time and wealth did you sacrifice to manifest the lifestyle some woman was dreaming of, rather than the one you dreamed of? How many gorgeous skinny young women did you pass by only to crawl in bed with a fattening, aging, wrinkled old woman who barely gave you head, and only slept with you once or twice every few months of your miserably banal married existence?

To dream big is to gamble big, but gambling is contrary to the stability women desire. A man might be confident to take a risk on himself, but bringing a wife into the picture virtually guarantees how many chips he’s able to bet, or even if he’s allowed a seat at the table.

Sharing memories together is appealing, but if you’re lonely get a dog. One divorced man made the following anonymous comment on the internet, “I'm in heaven now. After suffering 37 years of two ex-wives and their problems and bad habits; my dog of three years is the perfect partner for me. He costs nothing to clothe, is always obedient, is never in a bad mood, doesn't tell lies, always guards me, is always happy to see me and doesn't chatter about nothing. Loyalty is personified in one’s dog. Unfortunately, the same cannot be said of my former failed partners so ill-equipped of loyalty.”

For the record, Egyptian men envisioned traveling into the afterlife with Anubis. Some goofy Egyptologists used to say that depictions of Anubis show that he has the head of a jackal. In 2015 geneticists realized that the Egyptian jackal wasn’t related to jackals at all, but was, in fact, a wolf. It is so evident that Anubis would be a wolf-headed god because wolves are among the dog family, and dogs are man’s best friend. Who else would you want to take your final journey with, but your loyal canine companion?

Reason #91 - You Really Don’t Know Her, You Just Think You Do

Your wife could end up being a psychotic bitch from hell. The risk of a wife turning out to be a completely different woman from the one you thought you married dramatically increases the less time you knew her before signing the marriage contract.

Knowing someone for years still is no assurance that she’ll remain the same. Marriage will inevitably change her, as will pregnancy and motherhood if she decides she wants to have children. The shift of power that occurs upon signing the marriage contract forces the change.

Moreover, a boyfriend is not perceived as a safety net, but a husband is. A husband has agreed to be someone his wife can rely on, and who promises a happy lifestyle for his wife; her happiness and financial stability are now the sole responsibility of the man she married. It is inevitable that her attitude toward her husband will fluctuate in accordance with whether or not he is sufficiently meeting those goals.

There are a whole host of other factors that can change a wife into Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. An abortion, miscarriage, pregnancy or childbirth can all significantly alter a woman’s behavior. Moving away from her friends and family, her husband losing his job, changing careers, or her getting into an affair with some guy at work, can also alter a wife’s attitude toward her husband.

To get married is to risk that a woman is going to be the same person you fell in love with.

Reason #92 – She’s Going to Get Fat

Virtually all men like skinny women, but marrying a woman is almost a guarantee that she’ll get fat.

According to a study published in Obesity, if a man just dated a woman, she is likely to gain 15 pounds over five years. If a man cohabitates with a woman but doesn’t marry her, she’ll pack on about 18 pounds. Married women are the fattest women at 24 pounds in five years of marriage. In fact, [supposedly] the happier the marriage, the fatter she’ll get. Andrea Meltzer of Southern Methodist University discovered that the happier a couple reported the state of their marriage, the greater the weight gain.

Another factor in weight gain is menopause, which usually begins when a woman is 45 – 55 but can occur as early as her 30s. Once a woman hits menopause, she’s likely to gain another 10 – 30 pounds or more.

Perhaps in a desperate attempt to sucker men into marrying fat-ass women, several news outlets began spreading a fabricated study that claimed that men who marry obese women are ten times happier and live longer. The study was supposedly conducted by Dr. Filemón Alvarado and Dr. Edgardo Morales at UNAM’s department of psychology. Snopes.com, a fact-checking website stated, “…the psychology department at the National Autonomous University of Mexico (option one for [the abbreviation] UNAM) does not list someone by either name as a faculty member, and the web site for the National University of Misiones in Argentina (option two for UNAM) provides no evidence that the school has a psychology department at all.”

“Fat acceptance” is just another feminist ploy to shame men into putting up with women no matter how bad they behave or unattractive they become. No amount of “plus-size” models or internet memes that attack men for not finding double-chins and blubber attractive is going to change men’s nature. Feminists want to have their cake and eat it too, just as most married women want the freedom to blow up like a blimp but also want the benefit of their husband’s earnings, and yet don’t want him to cheat. In the article “Plus-Sized Women Admit They Aren't Attracted To Overweight Men” published to the website Whisper.sh, fat women admitted the double-standard that they want men to accept their fat asses, but are only interested in skinny guys. Expect this nonsense to echo into your marriage, wherein your fat wife packs on the pounds, refuses to exercise, yet backhands you in the shoulder if you stare too long at some hot piece of trim—all the while she’s fantasizing about some athlete pounding her chunky meat curtains with his yogurt-slinging clam hammer.

Reason #93 – She Might Become an Addict

If your wife decides to take up a vice, you will have absolutely no power to correct her behavior.

Even when children are involved, unless a woman can be proven to be so addicted and grossly irresponsible that she cannot possibly care for your kids, she is almost certain to be awarded majority custody. What is more likely to happen is that she is ordered to attend a treatment program and retain custody of your children. I have, however, known two men whose wives became substance abusers and left them with the kids, but such cases are unusual.

A woman needn’t even become a drug addict on the level of a toothless crack-whore to create an undesirable situation. A man who doesn’t smoke, or just doesn’t want his wife to smoke, has absolutely no authority to get his wife to quit smoking if she decides to take up a tobacco addiction. Pharmaceuticals like anti-depressants and prescription opiates are also a form of altering the mind that is favored by women, and all it takes is one of her friends or relatives recommending a psychiatrist to deal with marital or job stress. Outside of tobacco, drugs, and alcohol, a wife can become a food addict, or become addicted to television or the internet.

There is just no guarantee that she is going to remain the same person you married, and there’s absolutely nothing you can do to stop her from doing whatever she pleases.

Reason #94 – She’s Going to Stop Dressing Up For You

When a guy pictures what life will be like with his future wife, he imagines she’ll make herself as pretty as she always has when she was just his girlfriend.

After having captured a male servant via the marriage contract, a woman no longer has any reason to dress sexy—she’s already got you. This goes back to a woman’s biological imperative to breed with the best male she can get her hands on, and also to find a provider and protector. Once a woman believes she has hooked in an alpha male or a beta male provider, she has no motivation to dress sexy—except when ovulation kicks in and it’s time for “Girls’ Night Out.” In other words, when you see your wife getting all dolled up, it might just be because it’s time for her to go see if she can get another alpha male to explore the depths of her bikini-cavern with his vagina-miner.

Even a girlfriend will eventually stop dressing seductively for her boyfriend if he continues to fail her shit-tests. In other words, if he repeatedly demonstrates that he’ll put up with her shit, she knows that she no longer has to try hard to get him hard.

In my beta male days, I had purchased a dozen or so sexy outfits for three different girlfriends. In the city I was in, the girls weren’t known for their excellent fashion sense, so I got my girlfriend’s measurements and took matters into my own hands. The first two times I did this, I didn’t realize I had already failed their shit-tests and been relegated to the lowly status of beta male provider.

The girls rarely if ever wore the outfits for me. The first girl, a bartender, would wear the sexy clothes I bought her to look more alluring at work. The second girl dressed up for me once, and the only other time I ever saw her get all tarted up was when she said she was going out for “girls’ night out.” Once again, I must insist upon the understanding that “Girls’ Night Out” is just an excuse for women to continue their hunt for alpha male semen while their beta male provider sits at home like a good little boy. As for the third girlfriend I had bought a wardrobe for, I ended up dropping her like a hot rock because I started taking issue with her being a single mother.

In all, there simply is no reason for a wife to doll herself up on a daily basis for her husband. A man’s wife has no problem putting on makeup and dressing modestly sexy for her day job, but at work, she’s getting paid to look presentable, whereas she has nothing to lose if her husband tells her she needs to put more effort into her appearance. Feminists love to argue that being a housewife is a job, and thus men should give them some kind of occupational severance pay in the form of alimony, yet during the marriage, how often did these women put as much effort into their appearance as they would do if they had a real job?

Reason #95 – Say Hello to a Wrinkled Old Nag…and Goodbye to Candy and Bambi’s Sweet-Sweet Young Ass

We all grow old but while men age like wine, women age like milk.

Nature is harsh on a woman’s beauty because she only has so many years to give birth to a healthy child. The lines of a woman’s face, sagging butt, and breasts, increase in facial hair and wrinkled skin, are all warning signs to men that she is not a good candidate for reproduction.

Among feminism’s various shaming tactics deployed against men, we are supposed to accept women that are fat and old. The fact is that men are not biologically attracted to older females, and older women are not usually interested in a relationship with younger men.

Dr. Michael Dunn, a psychologist at the UWIC's Cardiff School of Health Sciences, found that a study of online dating websites revealed that older women are not seeking younger mates, but prefer men older than themselves. Women are after the resources that usually come with a man being older, and men are attracted to a woman’s reproductive quality, regardless of whether or not they want children. This inevitably means that a man’s wife will become increasingly less attractive to him as the years tick by.

Along with aging, pregnancy, and childbirth ruin the female body. Along with stretch marks, a wrecked vagina, marshmallow stomach, saggy skin, possible hair loss, veiny breasts with giant areolas, pregnancy, and childbirth can add serious pounds to a woman that many aren’t likely to burn away with exercise.

Chapter 15 - The Aftermath

“Ah yes, “divorce”. From the latin word meaning to rip out a man’s genitals through his wallet.” – Robin Williams, famous 20th-century comedian who was driven to suicide by two ex-wives

Reason #96 - Your Secrets Aren’t Safe With Her

The saying that “hell has no fury like a woman’s scorn” is all too true. Women are spiteful and vindictive creatures, who do not place value on loyalty, honor or honesty, but justify their actions according to how the outcome makes them feel.

Men are not known for spray-painting a woman’s car because she cheated on them, nor are we known for throwing a girlfriend’s belongings out onto the lawn or trying to ruin her reputation by badmouthing her to everyone we meet. While some men have engaged in such dishonorable nonsense, women are the ones that are known for it.

It is sheer foolishness to believe that a woman is going to keep your innermost secrets long after your relationship is over, or even while it lasted. Confiding certain secrets in a woman, that might perhaps reveal some inner-weakness or poor judgment, also has the effect of lowering your perceived alpha male status. Women will also stow away secrets in the reservoir of their vindictive, childish mind so that they can be later used against you. Telling certain secrets to a woman only affords them more ammunition to use against a man in divorce court and custody battles.

I’ve spoken with several ex-cons who assured me that many of the men they were imprisoned with were there because their wife or girlfriend ratted them out. One does not need to be critical of the law to understand that such a testimony speaks to women’s inability to keep secrets. In the case of turning on a boyfriend or husband who has committed a crime, there are two factors: women are vindictive; and, women value safety and stability more than men.

A wife should be viewed as a trusted friend and confidant.

Reason #97 – Bouncing Back Won’t Be Easy

Since statistically, your marriage is likely to end in divorce, it’s important to look at the aftermath.

A married man will have grown further apart from his friends and perhaps his own family. Given the degree to which a wife can control a man’s life, he will have a laundry list of missed opportunities. A husband has passed up events, opportunities to travel, and given up on an untold number of dreams his wife wouldn’t support. For the years a man is married, his life will have bent to satisfy her and prevent the financial catastrophe of divorce.

In the shadow of divorce are men burdened by alimony and child support, and likely psychologically wounded by the whole ordeal. With money going out the window to his ex-wife, and children he barely gets to see, a divorced man’s ability to attract a hot woman or have the lifestyle he wants will decrease. This is especially the case when child support is involved because an increase in income means an increase in child support payments.

In summation, the longer a man is married, the less likely he will have lived a life that he really wanted—a life worth writing about. Upon getting divorced, the length of his marriage will dictate the degree to which he can get back on track to become the man he wanted to be and live the life he dreamed of.

Reason #98 - You Just Might Become an Alcoholic

With the stresses of marriage, and a wife who’s fat overhanging stomach makes her look like she has a front-butt, many men turn to alcohol.

One man confided in me that he couldn’t have sex with his wife unless he was drunk because she looked like a cross between a land-whale and the Stay Puft Marshmallow Man.

One study reported that divorced men are three times more likely to be alcoholics than married men, but I sense it’s a fallacy to assume that alcoholism was the cause of the divorce in all those cases. How many divorced men became alcoholics as a means to cope with the emotional aftermath of divorce and the financial devastation wrought by the divorce court? How many men didn’t have a drinking problem on their wedding day but picked up the bottle after realizing that marriage is merely a contract to support the lifestyle of a woman who is free to deny her husband sex, spend his money and act however she pleases?

An excellent way to find out what married life will be like is to visit a bar where old-timers and working-class men hangout. If you see a wedding ring, glance at their face; is that the face of a happy man?

Reason #99 - Prenups are Bullshit

A prenuptial agreement, or prenup, is a contract signed before a couple gets married that is intended to protect the assets of both parties in the event of a divorce. The problem with prenuptial agreements is that they often don’t work, and none can be considered foolproof. There is almost an endless supply of reasons a judge will throw a prenup out of divorce court.

Any prenuptial agreement that shows that a man did not fully and accurately disclose all of his assets and earnings can be considered fraudulent with an intent to conceal the real value of his estate. A prenup that is signed too close to the wedding date can be thrown out on an argument that the woman was not provided enough time to fully consider the ramifications of the contract, and is thus deemed coercive. So too, if a man’s fiancé did not have legal counsel before signing the agreement, it can be tossed out of court. If the woman was under the influence of alcohol or any other mind-altering substance anywhere near the hour the contract was signed, it could be considered invalid. If the man included a line that he will not pay alimony or child support his prenup is useless. If a woman’s husband stated that she mustn’t gain a certain amount of weight, or otherwise specifies appearance requirements, such as the length of her hair, the prenup could be considered overbearing. If the agreement states that she will provide her husband with a certain amount of sex and blowjobs, the prenup can also be considered too demanding and is therefore invalid.

A prenuptial agreement can appear to have worked if the woman has poor legal counsel or her husband isn’t extremely wealthy. When a man is sitting on serious assets, it will only increase the likelihood that his wife will fight the prenup and her legal team will attempt to find a flaw in the agreement or the conditions under which it was signed. Expect lies and a circus of legal shenanigans to ensue.

A politically liberal man I met argued that Mel Gibson’s payout of $425 million dollars to his ex-wife Robyn was fair because she gave birth to seven of his children, and took care of the children and the household for 26 years of marriage. He argued that Mel couldn’t have become the huge success he was without her maintaining the home front, and raising the children.

First off, there are a lot of assumptions being made about precisely how much Robyn contributed as a housewife and a mother. Are we supposed to believe that a man who purchased his own island, and was worth almost $1 billion, didn’t have a maid, nanny, chauffeurs, and cooks to ease the day-to-day life of his wife? Even without such luxuries, exactly how hard is it to load a dishwasher, cook for the kids, or keep the house clean?

We can easily estimate the real value of a housewife, and even quantify the value of giving birth to a man’s child.

Seven children from surrogate mothers would cost around $700,000.  Although a full-time nanny usually earns approximately $30,000, we’ll bump it up to $200,000 in light of the number of children Mel has. This means that he would have spent $5,200,000 over 26 years for one of the best nannies in the world. A nanny can cook and help out without housekeeping, but we’ll throw in a full-time live-in housekeeper for $60,000 a year and a chef for $100,000, which totals $4,160,000. The value of a rich man’s wife, who gives birth to seven children—and for some strange reason, also cooks, cleans and stays home to raise the kids without any professional assistance—is $10,060,000 over 26 years.

Contrast $10 million (roughly 1% of Mel’s wealth) to a divorce settlement of $425 million dollars (50% of his assets).

For almost a half-billion dollars, I bet Mel Gibson could have made some real strides in artificial womb technology and helped save himself, and men all over the world, the heartache of child support and financial divorce rape.

Mel didn’t have a prenuptial agreement, but I doubt that would have saved him from losing half his wealth. Furthermore, if a judge deems that a woman cannot afford legal counsel, her husband can end up paying for the very attorney’s his wife will use to shred the prenuptial agreement and destroy him. A prenup that is found to have a flaw can result in a man having to sue his own legal team. Additionally, some believe that the inclusion of a prenuptial agreement can increase the likelihood of divorce.

No matter which way you look at it, prenuptial agreements do not somehow fix the critical problems of marriage, nor make marriage beneficial for men, even if the prenup succeeds in protecting a man’s assets. There simply are no benefits to marriage.

The only unbeatable prenuptial agreement is to agree to never get married.

Reason #100 – Marriage Increases Your Chances of Depression and Suicide

Since 50% of marriages end in divorce, getting married is like loading a six-shooter with three bullets, pointing the barrel of the gun at your bank account and then pulling the trigger. Sadly, many men end up putting the gun in their mouth.

Some divorced men end their life believing it will send a message to their ex-wife about how deeply she hurt them. It is foolish to think that some heartless bitch that divorce raped a man will care if he commits suicide.

Other divorcees kill themselves because they can’t keep up with the alimony payments, as was the case with the famous comedian Robin Williams, who was ordered to pay $30 million to his ex-wives. Robin brought joy and light to millions of people, but it only took a few greedy cunts to extinguish that light.

People have argued that married men are less likely to commit suicide, but the facts are quite different. No matter what psychological benefit can be concocted by marriage advocates, at least half of all marriages in the United States end in divorce and divorced men are twice as likely to commit suicide than single men. Getting married is then a gateway into increasing one’s chances of ending up so unhappy, after divorce, that you take your own life. Having a child with a woman is also a way a man can increase his chances of one-day committing suicide.

Randy Brouse, David Guinn, Randy Johnson, Reinaldo Rivera, Robert Steadman, Carl Tarzwell, Jr., and Kenneth Taylor, are just a few names of men who hung themselves after being incarcerated for failure to pay child support.

On January 7, 2002, Derrick K. Miller walked up the steps of the San Diego courthouse with his divorce papers in one hand and a pistol in the other. After shouting, “You did this to me,” he promptly blew his brains out.

After the Canadian courts banned Mark Drexel, age 42, from seeing his son, he went to a motel on January 23, 2003 and hung himself. Another Canadian man, Darren White, killed himself in March 2002 after the court ruled he was capable of paying out $2,071 to one woman and $439 to another woman, even though his disability check was only $950 a month.

James Poore of Bristol, Tennessee was arrested for failing to appear at a child custody hearing. James somehow got his hands on a shotgun while on a work-release program and blew a hole in his chest.

Suicide statistics from the Center for Disease Control show that 34,727 men committed suicide in 2016 in the United States. Since divorced men are 2 – 3 times more likely to commit suicide than other males, perhaps as many as 20,000 men committed suicide in 2016 after their marriage fell apart.

On September 27, 2017, an article titled “Are You Among the Growing Number of Unhappy Married People?” was posted to PsychologyToday.com. The author cites three sources that show that the majority of married couples are unhappy, and marital happiness is rapidly declining. The fact is, single people are happier.

In India, married people accounted for 66% of all suicides reported in 2014 according to the article “Married men twice as likely to commit suicide than married women” published by The Times of India.

In the United States, few have dared to challenge the theory that married people have a lower suicide rate. Dr. Bella DePaulo stepped up to the plate in her April 2013 article “Are Married People Less Likely to Kill Themselves?” posted at PsychologyToday.com. Augustine Kposowa’s findings in “Marital status and suicide in the National Longitudinal Mortality Study” also show something quite interesting. American men who got divorced were twice as likely to commit suicide, but that isn’t the case for women.

As I’ve argued throughout, women do not fall deeply in love with men, they fall in love with the resources a man provides them. The biological imperative of women is to pick themselves up, dry their tears and move on to acquire the resources of the next male whose goofy enough to become their servant.

Craig Morris from Binghamton University surveyed over 5,000 men and women from 96 different countries to find out which gender is most heartbroken after a breakup. Morris found that men take longer to recover from a breakup, and may never fully recover. Putting out his best pseudo-scientific bullshit to bury the fact that men are the true romantics—as numerous other studies prove—Morris hypothesizes that our emotional heartbreak is just linked to being disgruntled that we have to go back out and compete again for a new mate.

Morris, trying to cover for the heartlessness of women, also claimed that females feel more emotional pain when a relationship comes to an end but since women supposedly have more to lose from choosing the wrong partner, they’ve evolved to recover quicker than men. So women are supposedly wounded more deeply but recover faster?

Also, how is it that women have more to lose in a relationship? Precisely what do women put on the line in a relationship? In the ancient days of hunter-gatherers, it was assuredly the case that a woman who was cast aside by a male had to recover quickly from the breakup. With a sweet smile and a girlish giggle, her survival depended upon making another male feel he was all she ever dreamed of, so she could become the beneficiary of his strength, protection, and resources.

Today women invest nothing and have nothing to lose. Instead of the mouthy bitch being left to the wolves—after she’s been kicked from the cave for refusing play with her man’s one-eyed trouser snake—a modern woman has no shortage of men ready to don the badge of Captain-Save-a-Hoe. Instead of being forced to subsist on earthworms and berries out in a freezing rainstorm—like that sexually frigid bitch that would have been your ancestral grandma, if your caveman ancestor hadn’t kicked the bitch out—today, bitches have options.

A beautiful girl can divorce a man in the morning, take ownership of his “cave,” along with half his bank account, and have some beta male buying her dinner before nightfall. White knight beta males are so plentiful that even a girl that looks like a walrus can easily find some poor fool to fall in love with her and give her money if she plugs into enough dating and social networking websites.

Don’t become another statistic: the man who wakes up to realize that his wife never really loved him. But whatever you do, do not ever forget the name Thomas Ball. In mid-June of 2011, Thomas Ball walked up to the courthouse in Keene, New Hampshire and set himself on fire in protest over the injustices of the family court system. Thomas Ball was the divorced father of three.

Do not let the deaths of such men be in vain. Do not blindly march into the depressing mire of marriage, but rejoice in the freedom of being your own man, and knowing you alone are in command of your destiny.

Reason #101 – Marriage Can Take Years Off Your Life

The joke is that married men live longer but so do house cats. It’s also worth mentioning that the lifespan of elephants, orcas, and other wild beasts decreases in the safe calmness of captivity. The fact is, we’re not cats, elephants or whales, and few people have challenged the assertion that tying the knot extends your life.

We know that getting a good night’s rest, communicating with friends, and overall happiness, play a role in longevity. We also know that overworking yourself with long hours isn’t good for your health. We’ve seen that single people get more sleep, have much more contact with friends and relatives, are happier than married couples and don’t work as hard.

I don’t see how working an average of 400 hours more per day than a single man could possibly add years to anyone’s life.

Despite what marriage advocates would have us believe, a cursory comparison of the single and married lifestyles should have us logically conclude that marriage shortens our lifespan. In the article “Being single could help you live longer” published in The New York Post on September 22, 2017, Andrea Downey points out that staying single can mean less debt, which means less stress. Stress has a direct correlation to mental health, physical health, and longevity.

You have the rest of your life ahead of you—don’t screw it up with marriage.

Chapter 16 – The MGTOW Solution

“Bachelors know more about women than married men. If they didn't, they'd be married, too.” – H. L. Mencken

Stop Dreaming & Start Living

I feel for the guys that dreamed of falling in love with a beautiful girl, marrying her, and living happily ever after. The truth is that it is nothing more than a dream reinforced by societal programming. We are everywhere indoctrinated into the belief that we will be most happy by submitting ourselves in service to a woman. We let storytellers convince us that there is some gorgeous girl out there who will love us with all her heart and soul. When we think we’ve found our soul mate, television commercials for engagement rings provide us with instructions for exactly what we need to do to put a beaming smile on her face: we need to spend our resources on that woman to make her happy.

Some of my favorite movies as a child depict the soul mate fantasy in all its glory, and there is often an underlying message in films and songs that a man should serve a woman—and if necessary, throw down his life for her.

There is a classic example of this in the movie The Princess Bride. The farm boy Westley falls in love with the beautiful Buttercup, and to express his appreciation to her, anytime she asks something of him, he responds, “As you wish.” Here are the first words spoken by the narrator of the story:

“Buttercup was raised on a small farm in the country of Florin. Her favorite pastimes were riding her horse and tormenting the farm boy that worked there. His name was Westley, but she never called him that. Nothing gave Buttercup as much pleasure as ordering Westley around.”

Buttercup is played by the actress Robin Wright, while Westley is played by the actor Cary Elwes—both of whom are of European descent. Imagine the reaction the first few lines of narration would have if Westley had been played by a black actor. To visualize this, here is how the opening of the story could read:

“A beautiful white girl named Buttercup lived on a small farm in the country of Florin. Her favorite pastimes were riding her horse and tormenting the negro farm boy that worked there. His name was Caleb, but to make him feel like less of a human being, Buttercup never called the colored boy by his name. Nothing gave Buttercup as much pleasure as ordering the poor negro around.”

My example is not about getting into a conversation about race. It’s about realizing the type of characters we’re dealing with. Buttercup is a sadist. When Westley responds, “As you wish,” every time Buttercup orders him to do something—in an attempt to convey the words “I love you”—he reveals that he is a masochist. Westley has succumbed to Stockholm Syndrome, as he has fallen in love with his tormenter.

As the story goes, the sadistic Buttercup eventually realizes that she loves the poor farm boy. Westley then becomes a sailor, with the intent of making enough money so that he can marry Buttercup. His plans are cut short when his merchant ship is attacked by the Dread Pirate Roberts. Westley is held captive in the brig, but the infamous pirate ends up becoming fond of him and decides to release him. The Dread Pirate Roberts invites Westley to take on his identity, saying that he wishes to retire. What does Westley do? Westley takes on the identity of the Dread Pirate Roberts, but cuts his exciting career short to pursue the woman that tormented him. He goes on a harrowing journey to rescue Buttercup from an evil prince who wishes to marry the fair maiden.

I still enjoy The Princess Bride, but though it is regarded as a masterpiece of entertainment, it is really the story of a simp afflicted with oneitis.

A man who becomes fixated on a woman, believing that nobody else can measure up to her, suffers from oneitis. A man who bends over backward to appease a woman is a simp. Westley expressed the words “I love you” to Buttercup by saying, “As you wish,” which testified to his willingness to be her servant. He was willing to bend the knee in servitude simply because Buttercup was beautiful. He went to seek his fortune, just so he could possess Buttercup through marriage. Once again, women require the resources of men.

Westley gave up the adventurous life of a pirate—where undoubtedly he would have access to women at various port cities around the world—to risk his life for a single woman that loved to boss him around. We have to see Westley for what he was: a masochistic simp.

No heterosexual man is foolish enough to submit himself in service to another man, just because that man is nice, and women happen to find him attractive. To make this point, I asked a friend, “If you only knew me for a few months, would you be willing to give me $6,000 (the average price of an engagement ring)?” “Of course not,” he said. I replied, “Why not? I’m nice to you, and there are many females who find me attractive.” He intuited the point I was making, as he had spent six-figures on an engagement ring to vainly win the heart of a woman who is now long gone—and that he later realized was a nut job.

No, he didn’t get the ring back.

How many men have purchased an expensive sparkly rock for a woman they haven’t known for more than a few months? Why did they do it?

The only thing that is missing from my earlier hypothetical question is that my friend and I, are both heterosexual men; I don’t have tits or a pair of lasagna-lips hiding in my underwear. Is it not now clear the value men foolishly place on women they hardly know, all because they desire access to their panty-hamster, and have been told that offering a female resources is the way you get it?

No man would tolerate me saying, “Henceforth you’ll have to open doors for me, pull the chair out when I go to sit down, and if we’re in a building that catches on fire, you’ll need to make sure I get to leave first—all because my ethnic group is better than yours.” Any sane man would retort, “What kind of supremacist nonsense is this!” If I responded, “Serving my race is one of the greatest ways you can prove that you are a real man,” how likely would I be to succeed in convincing someone who isn’t a spineless twit? Yet film after film, and the rhetoric of tradition, would have us believe real men bend the knee, open doors, pull out chairs, and sacrifice themselves to women—not because females belong to a particular race—but because they have a vagina.

Movies are not the only means to indoctrinate men into the idea that simping behavior is where we will find romantic happiness or prove our manhood. One of my favorite rock songs is “Love You to Death” by Type O Negative. I enjoy the instrumentation and Peter Steele’s exceptional vocals, but it is another example of how simping behavior and oneitis can be glorified, and subconsciously beaten into our minds. Peter sings, “I beg to serve, your wish is my law,” and later asks, “Am I good enough?”

When two bucks or bears battle it out in front of a female, each is attempting to prove that he is good enough to reproduce with the female. For a beautiful girl to return our attention, perhaps in a gaze across the room, is to have the feeling of being victorious over all other challengers; she has made us feel that we are good enough.

In the 1985 video game Super Mario Bros., what did Mario set out to do? His mission was to save Princess Peach from the evil Bowser, at the risk of his own life. No matter how much a man might pretend that he isn’t into “mushy romance,” we are driven by our biological imperative to hope for a kiss if we succeed in rescuing the princess. Surely, we think, if we risk our lives for her, and prove we are an alpha male by defeating our opponents, she will see the value in us—and she will love us.

The anecdote is to realize that you do not need a woman to validate your self-worth.

The Red Pill

I completely acknowledge that it’s not easy to wake up from the dream that one day you’ll find the perfect girl, get married and live happily ever after. After a man verifies the truth, it can really start to hurt to accept it. I recognize that pain in others, as I too have felt it.

In the movie The Matrix, the character Neo is offered a choice to see the world as it really is, or to abandon his search for the truth, and go back to his normal workaday life. The character Morpheus, named after the god of dreams, offers him the truth in the form of a red pill or continuing to live a lie, in the form of a blue bill. Neo believed he was prepared to accept the entirety of the truth, and so he took the red pill. Though Neo was a man who thought outside of the box, the truth was so heavy that he angrily rejected it, before finally accepting the reality that was revealed to him.

Arthur Schopenhauer famously said, “All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.”

The red pill that I am offering is the truth that men in the United States and other Western nations, are less than second-class citizens under the rule of a gynocentric government. The truth is that there are absolutely zero benefits for a man to get married, regardless if a fortuneteller with perfect foresight predicts that he will never get divorced. The truth is that redundant studies prove that men are the true romantics, and we are programmed to fall in love with women—to protect them, provide our resources to them, and if necessary sacrifice our lives for them—for the survival of the species. The truth is that the biological imperatives of women, are to acquire the semen of alpha males, and to seduce males into using the strength of their bodies and minds to provide them with resources and protection. The truth is that the survival of our species depends upon women being incapable of reciprocating the kind of unconditional love that men give to women.

To take the red pill is to have clarity in understanding what lies behind the interactions between the male and female genders. It is to be aware of the dangers of getting involved with a woman in any way, and to know what women are capable of on their own, and through the force of government. Taking the red pill does not mean a transformation of one’s sexuality; it doesn’t mean that a man no longer enjoys the company of women, or having sex with them. A man who takes the red pill means that he is ready to go his own way.

MGTOW stands for “Men Going Their Own Way.” Going your own way is a statement of self-ownership and self-determination. Instead of letting society, or a woman, determine what a man’s role in life should be, a guy who is MGTOW declares the supreme right to choose the course of his life. Weaker males, in preference to self-determination, prescribe to utility-based roles for males that entail servitude to women and society.

MGTOW does not mean trying to change the system or violently oppose it. It means you understand the game is rigged, and the only way to win the game is not to play it.

MGTOW is not a cult or organization, but merely an abbreviated way of saying, “I’m a single guy who intends to stay single. I have no interest in placing myself in any kind of situation that would allow a woman to divest me of my resources, or falsely accuse me of something I did not do. To that end, I have no interest in marriage, cohabiting with a woman, or engaging in any kind of simping behavior. I refuse to allow others to define manhood and reject the charge by feminists that masculinity is toxic. Most importantly, I do not hate women—I understand them.”

Most men will go through a phase of “red pill rage,” just as Schopenhauer predicted in the stages of truth. The first stage is ridicule, the second is violence or anger, and the third is acceptance. Women, beta males, simps, white knights and manginas, scorn the truth and try to shame men into sticking to the cookie-cutter of what a man should do with his life. Sadly, most men who have finally chosen to go their own way were once among those who thought MGTOW meant that a man was homosexual, or didn’t have what it takes to get laid. Others scoff about what MGTOW guys have to say about the true nature of women, and the gynocentric court system until they end up becoming victims themselves.

I wrote this book to help men avoid the pitfalls that so many other men have fallen into, yet there is a danger in waking up to this information. “Red Pill Rage” inevitably follows the realization that your situation, or that of other men who have been wounded by women, is not unique. There is plenty to be angry about. One can be angry at God, women, the government, or oneself. Men who take the red pill can also succumb to depression, in the same way that an emptiness can form when we’ve lost a dear friend or family member, or a relationship with a girl comes to an end.

Calmness comes from an understanding that there is no more reason to be angry at women than there is to be enraged by a cat acting like a cat. Acceptance comes from the realization that there is a path even more joyous and wonderful than the road we had chosen before, or that others had insisted we travel.

MGTOW Lifestyle

Open your eyes to the celebration of becoming a man who chooses to go his own way.

MGTOW means your time is yours to do with as you please, rather than pressing yourself into the service of others. Your money is yours to spend, save or invest as you see fit. Your goals are yours to achieve, and there will be no woman to derail you from your dreams.

The man who goes his own way dodges bullets. Alimony, child support, divorce rape, losing your house to an ex-wife, the pain of a cheating wife, and the heartache of realizing that a woman never really loved you, are all bullets that have no effect on a guy who is a MGTOW.

I’ve compared the lifestyle of single men to married men throughout this book, but they deserve repeating.

Women & Sex – The thing that guys really want from women is sex. Celebrate a life where you’ll be able to have sex with as many women as you want. If you need a little training in how to pick up women, plug into T21C.com or just search the internet for the words “PUA seduction.” The 21 Century courses at T21C.com cover everything a man needs to know to get women.

If your wardrobe needs a little work, jump over to AlphaM.com where Aaron Marino will show you how to look like a boss. Why waste money funding some woman’s wardrobe, when investing in your appearance pays dividends in the form of more poon.

Having a small mutton-dagger is no longer an excuse to settle down with a woman who looks like she should have a few moons orbiting her fat ass. PEgym.com has a plethora of legitimate, tried, tested, and proven ways to increase the size of the male sex organ.

As a MGTOW you’ll have your choice of one-night-stand bar sluts, friends with benefits, call girls, foreign prostitutes, and every size, shape, and shade of girl you can imagine. Want to sleep with two or three girls at once? Learn the right pick-up artist skills, or travel to the right country, and you can do that as many times a week as you can afford.

The primary rules here are to avoid getting a woman pregnant at all costs, don’t catch any STDs, and, whatever you do, do not ever cohabitate with a woman. To that, I recommend getting a vasectomy, using condoms, and if you sleep with prostitutes, avoid freelancers. Only sleep with working girls that are licensed sex workers, and therefore are required to get checked for STDs periodically. You can also get a sex doll to minimize, or completely nullify, any chances of ever having to pay child support, catching an STD, or being the victim of a false rape accusation. Some heterosexual MGTOW decide to go completely “monk” and avoid women altogether. It’s your choice.

Home – Your home is your castle, and that’s nowhere truer than when you’re a man going his own way. You have the freedom to blow your money on the ultimate bachelor pad, or to save your money living in a modest apartment. Want to travel around in an RV, live on a sailboat, or build a tiny home out in the woods? Want to see what it’s like to survive in the Alaskan wilderness for three months living in a tent? You can do whatever you want because you won’t have a wife telling you otherwise.

Housekeeping – As Burt Reynolds pointed out, a wife is a terribly expensive way to get laundry done. Look into having a maid come over every few weeks to tidy the place up. If you’re willing to spend a little extra cash, you can even get a topless maid. Pat yourself on the back for being wise with your money, and celebrate that you’ll never have to deal with a woman who complains when you ask her to clean up the house.

Travel – With more money in your pocket, you can travel the world, and there are some great places where foreign girls will literally throw themselves at you. How about a trip to Thailand or the Philippines, where you can bang a different girl every night even if you don’t make much more money than a guy flipping burgers?

Money – As Terrence Popp from Redonkulas.com pointed out, staying single means you can live well for much less than the cost of having a wife. With the freedom to increase or lower your living expenses as you see fit, you now have the opportunity to start creating real wealth. Pick up a copy of MGTOW Building Wealth and Power: For Single Men Only by Tim Patten over at Amazon.com.

Without the financial burden of a wife, alimony or child support, a man has a real shot at becoming wealthy or at least living a lifestyle well above the average married couple. Keep in mind that there’s no such thing as a wealthy man who is too ugly, too fat or too old. A single man with money can have virtually any woman he wants, and spend his time traveling around the world enjoying the variety of women that life has to offer.

Companionship – A man going his own way doesn’t have to lose his friends. As a single man, you can spend as much time with friends as you’d like, and make new friends all over the world. Moreover, dogs are called “man’s best friend” for a reason. A pet dog is always happy to see you when you get home, and so long as you’re kind to him and feed him, he’s never going to walk out on you. Your dog, motorcycle or sailboat is never going to wake up and tell you it doesn’t love you anymore. Your badass dream car—that you can afford because you never got married—isn’t ever going to cheat on you. Your real friends don’t care how much money you make, how many women you’ve slept with, where you live, or how you decorate your home. Rejoice in knowing that you will have companions that really care about you, and truly love you as a brother, just for being you.

About the Author

Duke Armstrong is a sales and marketing professional, who now focuses on writing and having sex with women all over the world. When he’s not traveling, Duke lives a happy single life in Montana, where he owns his own cabin, drives the truck of his dreams, and spends time shooting the breeze with his buddies or shooting targets in his expansive backyard.

You can contact the author at mgtowduke@gmail.com